Posted by Scooter on November 14, 2000 at 18:50:10:
In Reply to: Mongering Obsession posted by kendricks on November 14, 2000 at 08:53:05:
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I know your dilemma, when I am involved with a girlfriend I don't partake in the hobby. I think I have GFADD "Girl Friend Attention Deficit Disorder", I get bored real fast of the same old entree and soon find myself thinking of exotic women in exotic lands... needless to say I am coming to the conclusion it is more satisfying for me to be single and visit TJ and travel. I usually don't pass judgment but I think your choice of staying faithful is honorable and may be allot easier to deal with in terms of living with a guilty conscience or heaven forbid getting caught, which would effect your family kids? (Parents siblings ect...) her family, possibly your career and so on. Like you said there are advantages both ways but I think it must be incredibly tough for those guys that can live this kind of double life, I know myself well enough to know that I couldn't do it. I have friends that can, and have a hell of a good time and I definitely don't hold anything against their decisions. Similar thoughts different direction....
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