Posted by SenorPanocha on November 26, 2000 at 09:38:23:
In Reply to: Re: Understanding Women (NOT!) posted by SPECIFIC on November 26, 2000 at 06:18:54:
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They fall for jerks because they are dysfuntional,I.E. FUCKED UP. If you treat them well and don't get the correct response,you have to walk away,if you don't and you keep going back for shabby treatment then you also have a problem. All that is happening when someone has an affinity for someone else that treats them poorly is that they are reinforcing a learned behavior that they had previously. In other words,that is what they are USED to{ being kicked around} and feel comfortable around. THEY become UNCOMFORTABLE AROUND BEHAVIOR THEY AREN'T USED TO,THEY DON'T KNOW HOW TO HANDLE BEING TREATED WELL,THEY DON'T TRUST IT,WHAT IF IT DOESN'T LAST,THEN WHAT DO THEY DO ? This all happens on a subliminal level.They aren't conscious of it most of the time. |
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