Posted by tight_fit on December 01, 2000 at 22:39:21:
In Reply to: Taking risks posted by Toehead on November 30, 2000 at 00:37:20:
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Fascinating thread all the way down. Toehead, either you are overly worried or I am in serious trouble because I consider the "risks" that you are now taking to be part of the "normal" session with a pro. Except the kissing which I always consider icing on the cake. On several occassions I have lost it and skipped the condom. These are moments I remember with both fondness and worry. Fortunately, I have been able to keep myself in line lately, or more correctly, the women have done it for me. This is something I do worry about as it definitely shows a lack of control and willingness to ignore some serious consequences if I pick wrong. However, I do not see it as pushing the envelope or getting off on increasing risk. It is simply a case of really liking 100% skin contact and being dumb enough at times to ignore the dangers. As far as the addiction aspect of this, that's total BS. I once took a seminar on Sex (I forget the exact title) by the EST folks that was attended by some people who were willing to freely express themselves. Most definitely not from the Christian right either. I walked in thinking I was wierd with my rather repressed and basically non existent sex life. Well, for a start, I knew the names of the actors in the porno clips they showed us while everyone else was making appropriate sounds of disbelief and disgust. It got worse when they started talking about sexual addiction and what it meant. While people were expressing concern over those who apparently were highly addicted I was wondering how I could make contact with the female nymphos in the group. I walked out afterwards deciding maybe I wasn't so weird afterall. Time has proved me right as the VCR industry took off because of the initial desire to obtain and view porn tapes. And that was just the start. Look where we are today with the only real profits on the Internet coming from the huge sex industry. Look at this very site we are on and what we have all learned from one another. Guilt is subjective and those that harp on it are usually up to no good or in denial of something within themselves. Risk may also be subjective. Up to a point anyway. Lastly, stupidity is subjective. Unless you wear a baseball cap on backwards.
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