Posted by Erip on December 13, 2000 at 00:13:57:
In Reply to: What would you do? posted by Jarocho on December 12, 2000 at 23:02:45:
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The fact that you are not a customer that she met in the club and she thinks you don't know she's a stripper is a big positive - wipes away many of the usual problems. Dancers who get hit on by customers tend to continue to see them as customers and are true to the stereotype - they'll try and play you for all your worth. But if she is giving you the green light to move in under the circumstances you describe, her attraction is most likely genuine. And since you're talking about "action" and not holding each other's hands until death do you part, what's the problem? Don't behave any differently towards her than you would towards a girl you hooked-up with in the office, supermarket, or traffic school. Most dancers long to be viewed and treated as just regular folks - neither looked down upon as cheap nor placed on a pedestal as a goddess. I'm not saying that they are just regular folks - most of them are damaged to varying degrees, not from dancing, but from the events in their upbringing that steered them towards becoming dancers. I won't get started on that topic, but I will tell you that they yearn to be treated like all the other girls.
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