Posted by LUVDOG on December 24, 2000 at 08:50:25:
In Reply to: Re: posted by Athos on December 24, 2000 at 07:49:05:
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"I think on this board, having a repeat chica is considered having a favorita, maybe mongers repeat for good sex, chemistry, something she provides mongers are seeking." I think you have hit it with this statement. The only question I have is why the jealousy. If she is only a repeat session that is for sex only, why the jealousy? Jealousy would to me indicate they desire more than just the repeat sessions for good sex. I would seem a lot of people are leaving their heart at the boarder but have a fiber optic dsl line once they get near their fav. I think this is where my confusion on the term "favorita" came in. I am also noticing that there are many different definitions for the term. It seems to me the categories need to be expanded to; client (level one), special client (level two), amiga (level three), favorita (level four), novio (level five), and stupid/crazy (level six or my level). Despite the last level description, I am happy in the situation I am in. It was not something I planned and I do not believe she did either. Actually, after talking with her sister and mother I am very sure she did not plan this to happen while she was working in a bar or any other time for that matter.
This also is very true. I think keeping in mind they are there for business is the key to everyone here understanding where they stand. If you get lucky enough to go beyond that point you still have the need to really understand where you are and not expect more than you are really getting. "My take is to wait for chica to make first move as she will if she finds you to her liking. I agree with letting the chica make the first move in all of the categories above accept the first three. My thought is you are not serious enough if you are still in those stages even if she is. Trying to push any relationship will only end in disaster (and that does not only apply to bar girls). One think I will say I have heard from the girls I have been around and that is, they do not feel most of their client are serious enough to start a relationship with. Believe it or not these girls want someone that is faithful to them only. They will than become very possessive and jealous. It will take some work to convince them not to be jealous and trust you. All it will take is one word that you were out and about and you are out. Once The confidence in you is established you will be heading for level five and you will not regret it. I give my girl an 8.5 so I consider myself very lucky this time around. If I had to support her fully I would have to drop her to a 6 or 7 but she is very capable of taking care of herself. I have had to tell her a few times that I do not need or want from her when she has tried to give me things. One thing funny is that we are more two friends that get along very well sometimes. I am far from perfect in Spanish but we can be in a situation and just look at each other and know the answer. As for me I can say that I enjoy the situation.
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