Posted by Curious on February 04, 2001 at 11:22:29:
In Reply to: Is love possible, in the Zona posted by 1tight_panocha on February 03, 2001 at 19:44:34:
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"But she still wont quit working" OK, so look at WHY she won't quit working: 1 - She doesn't trust YOU to love and support her? 2 - She doesn't trust ANYONE to love and support her? 3 - She figures she needs to have money, a house, etc. to fall back on if and when she is left on her own with a child to support? 4 - You don't have the ability to support her? HONESTLY nail down the REASON(S) behind her making that choice and you go a long way toward understanding your options. "so i had no choice but to leave the situation. " Why is that? Realize that this was YOUR choice. And it was a choice - not something you were forced into. So the question is WHY? "Now i dont know if can live with out her." You can. Maybe not and be happy, but you can survive. The question is do you want to? "I had a baby with a chica at Chicago." I left this for last, cause it's hard to comment on without being judgmental. But, IMHO, nobody should father a child unless they are ready, able, and willing to support that child for the next 18 years. Period. |
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