Posted by Erip on February 08, 2001 at 19:05:44:
In Reply to: my attitude: WHO CARES!! posted by GMoney on February 08, 2001 at 14:16:32:
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Accord here. I am personally weary of all the hyper-paranoia on the TJ Boards about what the chicas think and what they observe and what they hear. It's like being back in high school all over again. Perhaps most of us who participate or lurk here are, as a prominent member of this community once phrased it to me, "plain vanilla mongers". We are consumers. We come to TJ to have sex for money with a wide variety of women and we seek our "relationships" and "free" sex on the home front. We are nobody's novios - we have favoritas and we care about them, but we don't desire novias who make their living in the zona...at least until they whisper in our ear that they are quitting this life as of NOW and wish us to reciprocate and quit our own roguish behavior. We vanilla boys don't care if chicas hyperventilate over our interrelationships and communication with other customers - because we don't form attachments beyond friendships with the chicas if they still desire our company when the music's over. It will take us more years than we have left to adequately sex up all the girls on our list, and a whole new crop springs up annually. If she's a bad provider or scam artist, the word needs to go out and who cares what she thinks. If she's a great provider and can't handle wonderful praise being spread around about her, well geez....NEXT!! Understand that I would NEVER personally compromise the aspirations that a fellow TJ Hombre may have with a particular chica, and I would never share or counsel the sharing of information and gossip with our ladies of the evening. But my own style of mongering leaves me wholly unconcerned with whatever anybody else does or says with any information that I report in any manner. Like it or not, these chicas are mini-celebrities. So if your style of mongering takes you into relationship territory, understand that you are going to have to endure a certain burden as a product of your choice to romance or pursue free sex from this brand of female. This is in no way intended as an assault on the many of you who take your chica relationships in TJ far more seriously than I do. It is intended as a gentle reminder that there are a large bunch of vanilla boys out here, and this board is for all of us.
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