Posted by El_Cochino on February 20, 2001 at 15:44:15:
In Reply to: killer pimps and loser boyfriends posted by Explorer8939 on February 20, 2001 at 13:29:14:
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Why does it shock you that the many of the chicas would deny they have a boyfriend -- these girls for the most part aren't stupid. These girls will take advantage of some of our egos and beliefs that we are special to this girl. My ex favorita lived with her boyfriend for two years before she told me. She first told me that she was leaving Tijuana to go back home for good. I ran into her at her bar about a year later and I assumed that she had returned from Veracruz and needed money. After a couple of sessions with her and a couple of cancelled overnighters we talked in depth. She explained to me that her boyfriend had moved in with her. The reason she told me that she went back home was because she felt I would be hurt if she told me she moved in with a boyfriend. It turned out the reason she quit the club was because the boyfriend did not want her working at a bar and she took a job as a short order cook on the other side of Tijuana. After a year she needed to go back to work at her club because she needed more money to have her house built quicker. Last year her boyfriend, and her son moved to Veracruz into the house that her father took her five years to have built in Veracruz. It may seem strange to have one of these girls mislead you by telling you that they are going back home, but the reason she told me to keep from hurting me. Afterall there was no money to be gained by this for her, and she had no inclination that she would have to return to the club scene. Bottom line this girl is one of the most street wise women I have ever known, and I did feel better to think that she was going home to live rather than think her boyfriend moved in on her. After we cleared the air we still had sessions and even overnighters. She claimed to her boyfriend that she was working as an escort in Tijuana for businessmen. She told her boyfriend no sex was involved and he believed her. She told me she has two priorities in her life - Number one is La Familia, Number two is Novio. I think I fell in somewhere after that. When she left for Veracruz (hopefully for good) she made it clear to me that we could never see each other again. She was going to be the good little wifey and not the puta anymore. Also the town she would be living in would not allow her to go to bars or associate with men other than her husband. I will be leaving for Veracruz next Friday for ten days vacation and she knows I will be there and the hotel I stay at. I have mixed emotions about being there. I know I would like to talk to her and see her just to find out how everything is working out, but I also know I would love to spend the night with her in Veracruz also.
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