Posted by la_dulce_vida on February 26, 2001 at 06:42:17:
In Reply to: The danger of being with a GFE over a Ice Queen posted by horndogg on February 25, 2001 at 19:41:18:
horndogg, I see the same girl every weekend and always look forward to it. I've been doing it for months. I also go mid-week with buddies and do the 1/2 hour, new chica thing. The time spent with my fave, usually 4 hours or more, is soooo much better. What has happened is that we have developed a good friendship. She's taken me to some great restaurants in TJ, occasionally asks me for advice (yesterday I recommended she open an account at a bank in San Ysidro and put her considerable income there, why convert dollars to pesos?), and is very curious about life in the US. It's worked out good for many reasons especially because one of my goals is to become conversant in Spanish and she's a good teacher - I just love those lessons!!!!! Anyway, I look at it as developing a hopefully long term friendship with a person who is a lot of fun and someone I can learn from. A good friend tho, that's it - careful about those "white picket fence" dreams and certainly don't turn your life upside down for her, just go slow. P.S. She never sees me go with another girl and since she leaves the bar either with me or if we stay there she stops working, I don't see her with other guys. It's game we play, a sham, but nonetheless, we're being considerate for each other's feelings.
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