Posted by JMZ on February 26, 2001 at 21:04:51:
In Reply to: Re: This is not a flame but a genuine question... posted by la_dulce_vida on February 26, 2001 at 18:55:11:
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I agree with you and understand where you are coming from!! It is obvious that you understand that "free" sex can be more costly than dealing with hookers. There is very little sex that is actually free. You either generally pay then up front or you pay them more on the back side. I can think of one hooker I was involved with that cost me plenty. I didn't know she was a hooker. She never presented herself to me in that light. She never asked me for money for sex. I never paid her money for sex, but I paid all of the hidden cost of maintaining a relationship with a women. I wish I had know she was a hooker when I first met her. I would have negotiated a price and got together with her when I wanted to be with her and never paid the other enormous hidden emotional and monetary cost. I wonder how many other guys here understand this dynamic? Sex with a hot looking hooker is great! If she has a pleasant personality and makes you feel special that is even better. Just don't get suckered into the pay them "up front" for the sex and then pay all of the hidden cost associated with maintaining a girl friend. That cost is both emotional and mon etary. Don't pay twice!! Either deal with the "up front" cost or deal with the "hidden cost". Just don't deal with both!!! |
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