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"...chicas care only about money..." Sounds like a woman complaining about men, "...men care only about sex..."
A funny story from the book How the Mind Works by Steven Pinker,
"...Any bartender or grandmother you ask would say that men are more likely to have a wandering eye, but perhaps that is just an old-fashioned stereotype. The psychologist David Buss has looked for the stereotype in the people most likely to refute it - men and women in elite liberal American universities a generation after the feminist revolution, in the heyday of politically correct sensibilities. The methods are refreshingly direct.
Confidential questionnaires asked a series of questions. How strongly are you seeking a spouse? The answers were on average identical for men and women. How strongly are you seeking a one-night stand? The women said, Not very strongly; the men said, Pretty strongly. How many sexual partners would you like to have in the next month? In the next two years? In your lifetime? Women said that in the next month eight-tenths of a sexual partner would be just about right. They wanted one in the next two years, and four or five over their lifetimes. Men wanted two sex partners within the month, eight in the next two years and eighteen over their lifetimes. Would you consider having sex with a desirable partner that you had known for five years? For two years? For a month? For a week? Women said 'probably yes' for a man they had known for a year or more, 'neutral' for one they had known for six months, and 'definitely not' for someone they had known a week or less. How short a time would a man have to know a woman before he would definitely not have sex with her? Buss never found out; his scale did not go down past 'one hour'. When Buss presented these findings at a university and explained them in terms of parental investment and sexual selection, a young woman raised her hand and said, 'Professor Buss, I have a simpler explanation of your data.' 'Yes', he said, 'what is it?'
'Men are slime.'"
IMO this is one explanation of why the sessions get better and better with una amiga especial. Yes, in the short run at work they're primarily interested in money. However, repeat sessions over a longer period of time open up other possibilities. Regards,
RickFeliz
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