Posted by robertx on April 10, 2001 at 14:26:11:
In Reply to: As long as there is Tijuana, there is Hope….(long winded philosophy) posted by robertx on April 09, 2001 at 21:46:27:
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Thanks for all the comments. I remember similar comments when I first came to TJ and thought to myself: Am I going to walk in the same footsteps? And, yes the lesson can only be learned by personal experience. I do not completely disagree with Raiders, but do not think that we are just notches in the chicas bedposts. I second horndoggs idea, that they are in as much emotional danger as we are. The only true cure I see is finding a nonworking girl to fulfil my emotional needs. The way I handle my disappointment in TJ, is by focussing more on dating regular girls. That may not lead to sex in the near future, but will give me a basis. I agree, if one builds his whole emotional basis over the Zn, it is prone to tumble and destroy you with it. I consider the life of a monger in 12 steps. One of the first is to think one can not trust anybody in TJ, in the middle somewhere ones forgets that and madly falls for one girl. In the later stages one realizes that the healthy thing is to keep the ZN as a hobby, but try to realize the basic needs elsewhere. Ater all my experience with the girls in TJ, I feel better prepared to do that and hopefully find a nice latina to keep me warm and sane. |
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