Posted by robertx on April 29, 2001 at 22:05:59:
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I know this problem occurs all the time, but how do you break up with a favorita, who served you well and almost always was a good provider? I think I found a very useful way to have "the clean break-up". (Works only with prostitutes) I consider myself a "nice guy" and am very bad in breaking-up-situations. I have had hard times breaking up with GF's and never had to fire anybody from a job. I some way I needed to fire my favorita from her job as a provider, but had no idea how to do it. I know from experience that chicas are even more territorial than US girls and that I "belonged" to this particular chica. Since her network is elaborate, it precluded me from doing chicas in several bars, unless I wanted to have a "jealousy" scene. I tell you, and heard that on the BBS over and over, the jealousy scene is mostly an act. I have seen many mongers get into this trouble: Chica plays the: "I know you have a new amigo" line. This always leads to denial. You have to deny. "It wasn't me!" Once you deny you again belong her and she marked her territory. I knew all this and I knew that truth would only lead to disaster: I could have told her that I have a novia and want to do only trophies once in a while to taste something different, but don't want a pseudo-GF, since I already had a real one. I could have also said that I simply got tired of her and wanted to testdrive the new crop. This is Mexico and a hurt chica can do a lot of damage. Once she found out about my Novia, she could track her down and tell her all about the stuff we had been doing. She could also give me a hard time in the future when I came to her club. The way I resolved this matter, I want to share with you: I had to poker high, very high. I had seen her for 6 months and in the last 2 weeks, made more and more clear that I wanted to be closer to her. I asked her if I could stay with her on her days off and called her telling her my endless love. Simply getting on her nerves in the always most charming way. I could do this only because I was certain that she did not love me and saw me as a very, very good "amigo". Finally she had small personal problem and I offered her to come and be with her. I had visited her a couple of times without having sex and of course never gave her money in these cases. Finally she came to realize that my love just was too much :-) My calls of "I wish we could be closer" and "Why do we always have to go into a hotel?" were strategically place. Finally she broke and gave up on me as a customer. During our last phone call, she thanked me and still was flattered, but as the true professional this was getting too much for her. Her decline of my love advance now gives me the freedom to be dissapointed and when I run into her at the club, she avoids me. I am sure that in a few weeks I can simply talk to her as a friend, even explain to her hwo sorry I am that I lost my head. "But quierido, you are so beautiful, I was lost!" The main danger of this arroach is that the chica may agree to your advances and you are stuck. I was not prepared for this, since in my case I was sure that she would not want me as her Novio. Sometimes the language barrier makes lying much easier. The result: she avoids me, I am home free, can pick the girl standing right next to her and know that she is not trash talking about me and she still has no idea about my Novia. |
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