Posted by robertx on May 01, 2001 at 17:09:08:
One more post on the topic of: let things happen, don't force it and the zona will take you places you never knew exist. For the last months I have changed my monger MO and only do trophies, not trophies in the general sense, but trophies for me. That means that there are nights in the ZN when I do not get laid, since I will not compromise. This works only, if you're not in desperate need for a fuck. I have been a lucky monger and can approach things very relaxed. Yesterday I took a room at Hotel Nelson and began a very, very slow evening. I so did not care what would happen. This night I was off work, my novia was not available and I simply could waste this night. This is the BEST attitude for TJ. I had been down in the ZN 6 times over the last 2 weeks to find the ONE chica I liked so much, I lost my professional monger attitude on the first visit with her. This never happened before, I usually carefully test the talent and only on the second or third visit approach GFE. Of course she was no where to be found. I finally gave up and started pursuing dancers, like the "Fifth Element". I started the night of with a couple of Tacos, followed by Dos Equis at AB, Miami and TB. I like to sit down at least for one beer, to check out the scene. I see many monger constantly roaming, but IMHO this gets you no where. Unless the bar is completely dead (like El Pollo, or Tropa), it is better to scope things out, watch the chicas and their play... The talent-level was scaringly low, even for a Monday night and I proceeded to watch some watchable chicas at Madonnas. At around 11 I was beginning to get a buzz and knew that I had to strike soon, or just get drunk and call it a night. And than it happend, I walked back into AB and there she was: the girl who told me weeks ago "I work 6 days of the week" and who was not to be found on any of the days week. She told me she never works Mondays and of course it was a Monaday when I finally find her again. She is busy entertaining a few other customers, but glares at me constantly, without flirting or giving away anything. It was very sexy to know that she was thinking about me all the time while the other sucker bought her the drinks. She finally did him within 20 minutes and comes down to sit 2 chairs away from me. These girls are always keeping a backdoor open to avoid embarrassment. She aparently still wanted me to make the last step and move up one chair to sit next to her. I gladly did and began talking, she knew exactly who I had talked to all the time, how many beers I had and how glad she was that I resisted all the temptation. I also was glad, because only the smell of her perfume, and the touch of her skin made me more excited than the last 2 weeks in the ZN together. This girl was worth it and she was not just different than my GF, she was gorgeous! My MO is never to do a bargirl more than the first testdrive at her hotel and began to talk her into spending the rest of the night at my hotel. She agreed, but quoted a price which was so unreasonable that I almost lost it ($300): Is this girl playing me for a fool, although I had shown to be an experienced monger and did she think since I turned away few other whores that I was desperate enough to be suckered by her. It is difficult to pin-point what is a reasonable price, but if a girl is way off, I usually take that as a sign that does not really want it. Some more hideous monger will know what I am talking about. Some girls will quote an outrageous price, hoping you pass on. I told this to my chica and frankly asked her to let me know what is wrong with me. This let her to emphatically deny this and lower her price in the high reasonable level ($200). And began talking about the rent which was to be paid be tomorrow. I can't begin to tell you how disappointed I was. I had met this girl and she appeared openminded, laughed a lot and so giving that I could not suck up enough of her during the first session. Now she turned out to be a hustler! I orded another drink for her and noted that she was quite liquored up, thanks to the fellow monger who had done his 20 minute skit. Aproaching 3 am, I was not going to pay $200 for her to leave me at 8 am, to go back to her novio. Things now turned really interesting. Either she realized that I was no sucker, that business on a Monday would not give much more money in the bar, or that I was a leally nice guy. Anyhow she agreed to $100 and we headed to my Hotel. Don't ask me how, but I didn't pay a barfine and grabbed a cab in front of CC (I boycott the assholes in front of AB, who live of ripping of drunk mongers for $8 rides to the border). Arriving at Hotel Nelson, I had not negotiated a single detail. In other cases I even did not negotiate the price and would not have had in this case if she had not brought it up. In summary I just tumbled home, the Hotel would not let us stay beyond 3 pm (check out at 1) and I had an unforgettable night. This may be another sign that negotiation may actually give you more respect and service than just being nice and paying what is asked. It also tells me that the true potential of a girl is only to be evaluated after a whole night with her: Some girls like this one, wake up horny, others just want to do it once, before falling asleep and than sleep and play dead until the hotel kicks you out. The later never happened to me, but I had girls who were simply not morning active and the sex was a clear duty if done after waking up. This girl was getting more and more into it and actually initiated sex even way after the point I had considered beyond her duty. So what do I pay her? I had negotiated a tough price and had gotten way more than I begained for. I had assumed that she would leave after a few hours and would at most fuck me once, or maybe twice. She stayed until 3 pm and I had lost count on how many times we had sex, but the stack of Trojans I had brought is way down. I would be very interested to hear what other would have done: 1) Pay the negotiated price, of $100 2) Tip her generously, maybe give $200 3) Tip her a little, maybe give $120 4) Ask her again what she wants 5) Any other thoughts? |
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