"Palabras Espanol de la Fiesta" (Spanish Party Words)

"Confianza" (Cohn-fee-AHN-zah) - Living on Trust

I was with a very special "amiga especial" (special friend) and asked her why she treated me so well. She said because of "confianza". When she introduces me to her friends, I've noticed she brags about the fact that she and I have been amigos for almost 3 years now. And the benefits once you've established "confianza"?

After a several hour session with another amiga especial and a "comico" (comical) handjob from a "bailarina" (dancer), I was through (I thought) with "sexo" (sex) and enjoying more than a few beers.

I was walking through the club about 4:30 AM when I saw her sitting at a booth with some of her friends. She patted the seat next to her and motioned for me to come join them. She was with a friend she wanted to introduce me to. We've worked out an interesting way for me to remain "true" to her and still get the variety that increases desire. I had told her earlier that I was exploring for "una senora con chiches grande" (a woman with big hooters). She was eager to introduce me to her friend who was una senora con chiches grande. We were sitting in two booths in a corner and I had my back to the main floor and other people. I ordered drinks and proceeded to "meet" the big hooters. As I was admiring the hooters my amiga especial unzipped my pants and proceeded to warm Ricardo up.

She then spotted another woman who was a very, very close friend of SenoraHooters and invited her over to join la fiesta. She was absolutely gorgeous with a great body. She joined us, was introduced, giggled, and "shook hands" with me and Ricardo, and stood next to me with her back to the main floor creating a private huddle.

My amiga especial had told me while she was walking over that the two ladies were "lesbos". Amid giggles from all, SenoraGorgeous draped her arm over me, pulled the top down from SenoraHooters, and began sucking her nipples. Then Senora Hooters reached up, freed SenoraGorgeous excellent set and began sucking her nipples. I was really turned on by the camaraderie, private show, the abundance of hooters, the warm reception given Ricardo, and the hint of naughtiness and danger of discovery.

I looked closely at SenoraGorgeous and was totally blown away by how gorgeous her face really was up close when she bent over the booth down in front of me and began sucking Ricardo. That was the final esctasy that blew the circuits in my mind. Next came a quick exchange of smiles with my amiga especial, a quick downing of the remaining beer, a surreal dreamlike float over to La Casa de Ricardo with mi amiga especial, and an hour "mamada" (BJ) from "La diosa de la mamadas" (The goddess of blowjobs). Even when I think I'm through she always knows how to turn me on. I have "confianza" in her.

from NTC's Dictonary of Mexican Cultural Code Words by Boye Lafayette De Mente

Confianza (Cohn-fee-AHN-zah) - "Living on Trust"

Historically, life in Mexico was not based on a rational, objective concept of right and wrong, or on laws founded on such concepts as equality and justice for all. Laws were primarily designed - and always enforced - to preserve and protect the religious and civil authorities in power, which meant they were generally used to oppress attitudes the authorities considered threatening, and to control all behavior judged as dangerous to the state and church.

Because both the church and the state were adversaries of the people, the only viable choice the people had was to turn inward, to depend upon their families, close-knit groups and connections, not only to protect themselves but also to do things they could not do as individuals.

In this context, the sense of family and community became especially strong. Conformity to the mores of the group was essential for maintaining good relations. A stylized etiquette based on the careful recognition of age, sex and social status became an integral part of the system, essentially replacing the universal concept of right and wrong as the prevailing morality.

The personal charactieristics needed to make this system as humane and effective as possible were a strong sense of dignity and carefully programmed respect within families and groups. Because of the importance of group relationships, conforming to the prescribed etiquette often took precedence over what one actually did. This did not necessarily mean that individuals had to be scrupulously honest and candid in their dealings with each other or with outsiders. It meant only that they were expected to conform to the etiquette prescribed for each situation.

These traditional attitudes and behaviors are still characteristic of most Mexicans, and one of the keys to making the system work as well as it does is "confianza (cohn-fee-AHN-zah) or trust". Because both business and professional connections in Mexico are primarily based on personal relationships, the trust factor must be especially high for people to make commitments and to follow through on them.

Foreign businesspeople approaching Mexico for the first time invariably have to go through a period of building confianza on a personal level...Building confidence with Mexican authorities and companies should not be taken lightly or be unduly hurried. It should be as well planned and as conscientiously carried out as any marketing program would be.

Of course, the key to building confianza in Mexico is to respect the customs as well as the feelings - and fears - of the people concerned, to conduct oneself in a dignified manner, to be honest and fair and candid, etc."

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Based on results and the experiences I've had so far what works for me has been paying careful attention to building "confianza" with "las senoritas de la fiesta" (the party girls).

Regards,
RickFeliz

I just had to say thanks for going to the trouble to compose this long post.