Well, Friday night in TJ started off normal enough for me. Parked at the border, walked accross, cab to Revolution area, and start early evening with a couple beers at one of my favorite strip clubs. My intentions were to eventually make it down the street to La Tropa, and try to see what its like when there are actually people there, but I never made it past Revo club number one. On my second beer, and a dancer chica that I have been friendly with in the past, but has always claimed that she did not do anything more than dance sat with me for a drink. She is in a very playful, happy mood, and says "let's go". I am a little confused, thinking she means lap dance. She says "no, I get dressed, and let's go". This is one hot chica, much younger than my 40 years, and I decide to see where this may lead. We get to the street, and she says let's go Hotel America. I am not at all opposed to this start to the evening. Had never been to HA, but it was a decent place, with restaurant that will send food and beer to the room. We have what amounts to GFE experience and stay todo la noche. No money is ever discussed, and in the morning, she asks what I am doing for the rest of the weekend? She floats the idea of going to Rosarito, and she will not work Saturday.
I leave her to sleep in some more and go to get my car, and some more clothes, etc. I tell her I will meet her at her bar at 2pm. When I come back, I park at HA and tell the security guy that I just checked out earlier, and want to leave my car there for an hour more. They are ok with that, and I start the walk up fourth to Revo to get my chica. I am about a block from HA, and a policia pull over and give me the thorough interogation / search. They accused me of being in an area where everybody is on drugs, and wanted to know what I was doing there. I had lots of cash on me, with the trip to Rosarito in mind, and they found all of it, even the backup stash in my shoe. I'm thinking they are going to try for a big bribe for a trumped up charge. They went back and forth from having me in the car to spread eagle against the car, and searched me at least three separate times. They never directly asked for anything, just kept accusing me of drugs, and searching me. I showed them my receipt from HA, but other than that I just denied any of their accusations, and waited for them. After about 20 mins there, they just said ok "go". One of them said " you understand we have to check people in this area, because most gringos are in this area for drugs". They didn't ask for or take any of my money. I have read the various stories here, and that probably helped me from feeling too intimidated, but it was not an experience I'd like to repeat.

Went to the club, and my chica was on stage dancing. She usually works till 9 or 10 pm, but it was 2pm, and she goes backstage, and comes out dressed in street clothes, carrying her bag. She has a few minute talk with the manager, which seemed to be a problem from my view of his body language, but in the end he smiled and waved her goodbye. Even though it was daytime, and a very reasonable walking distance, I took a cab back to HA. Last thing I wanted was for same cops to see me walking with a new reason to be interogated. Got my car and drove to Rosarito.

I was the one wondering what TJ would be like during spring break, and here I am going to Rosarito. All hotels there were crowded, due to Spring Break, and some bike race. We did find a room though, with nice ocean view, and easy walk to the beach. Had a great time with this chica. Beach, food, drink, dancing, jacuzzi by the pool, and of course GFE the whole time. The crowds were her age relating to Spring Break, and she fit right in, while I got some strange looks from american women. The guys on the other hand, would look at me and say "damn dude...how did a guy like you score that hot girl?" At about midnight, when we were coming back from one of the bars, she decides to go swimming. Strips down to her thong and bra, and jumps in the pool at the hotel. By this time of night it is cold out, but she is determined to swim. She is the only one in the pool, but soon there are guys on the balconies overlooking the pool enjoying the show. She did not disappoint them, taing off her top and swimming around in just her thong. I finally convinced her to get out before hotel security got to excited.

Got up this morning and drove her home, and then waited in line to get myself home. Not a bad weekend at all. She never did ask for money, and when I offered some since she missed a busy Sat of work, she declined. Would not touch my money. She said thank you very much, and asked when I would be back to see her. Told me that for her I should work on my spanish more. We'll see. Typical for TJ, you never know what will present itself, and sometimes like this, it is a great time.

A follow up....I went back to see her a few days ago. The maseros in the bar said that she was not working that day, but to wait. They thought she would want to see me. They asked me to wait ten minutes. A few minutes later a guy says to follow him, she wants him to take me to her apartment. I am a little leary as it is a couple blocks off revo, and do not desire to be hassled by the cops, or possibly meet some not so friendly strangers. It turned out ok though, and she was very happy to see me, wanting me to hang with her there for awhile. She lives alone, and had apparently broke up with her boyfriend a few weeks earlier. This apartment was new for her, and it showed in her barely unpacked things. A few drinks, and some conversation, and we test her new sheets on the bed. I even helped her put them on, as she had just purchased them. We had just finished a nice session, and there is a knock on her door. she calls out, and the response is that it is her ex-novio. I am quiet and dressing in the bedroom, while she has an arguement with him through the door, telling him they are finiished, and to get lost. His is telling her he loves her, and wants her back. I do not need this shit, and just want to exit this scene. She insists that I stay quiet and unseen until he leaves, as she fears he will come unglued and there will be a fight. After about a half hour, he finally leaves. I make an exit, going the opposite direction to a cab, and to home. She apologizes and asks me to please come back another day.

Did this happen at Madona's?

Not at Madona's. I don't at this point want to give her name, but she works at a Revo Strip club, near enough to Madona's.

No it's just that that same thing happened to me... seriously....

Sdchillin...In what regard did the same thing happen? The ex novio / apartment thing? Or a similar sequence of events?

She asked me to come back another day, so I showed up at her bar right before I knew she would be getting off work. I had no sooner got a beer, than she was dressed and ready to leave, saying "come on...to my apartment..No problems this time with ex showing up" I am taking more risks than I logically should with this chica, but she is a lot of fun. As we are leaving she tells me that one of the maseros is mad at her because he has a guy that wants to pay big bucks to fuck her. She says no, and claims that the maseros know she doesn't do that. We leave, and after having a few cervezas at her place, there is a knock on the door. I'm thinking....oh shit not again...It turns out to be a runner from the bar, sent by the masero, to see if she would change her mind for more money...the guy that wanted her was still at the bar. She got really pissed and nearly knocked the teeth out of this poor kid, who I think was just the messenger. Keeping in mind that I had observed her in the bar many times in the past, and even tried myself, and she never would go to the back or room, she may be telling the truth when she tells me she does not do this. But who knows...why would the maseros even ask if they know this about her? Is it possible that she has relented in the past? Anyway, we have a nice evening, and I head back to the border around 2 am. Only uncomfortable thing is walking through the apartment complex area to get to the lit street to get a taxi at that hour.

"why would the maseros even ask if they know this about her?"

Sounds like the masero wants to promote himself to padrote. There is a lot of pressure put on these girls from many people to make them turn-out.

I went back Tuesday morning to her apartment. she had told me last weekend to come anytime. She wants me to be her new novio. I had a little time before work, so I walked accross and to her apartment at 8 am, thinking it would be a good way to see how she lives when she hasn't planned ahead. She was cooking breakfast by herself and was very happy that I stopped in. Made me a great meal, and we visited for a while. While I was there, one of the door maseros from her club came by and said that the manager would pay her extra if she would come in early at 10:30am, since he didn't have enough chicas on early in the day. She told him no, that she would not go in early while I was visiting. I just wondered how many guys visit revo strip clubs at 10:30 in the am? She says that there are actually customers early quite often. Anyway, maybe going back Saturday...she is going to cook me dinner if I show up. Says she wants to show off her cooking for me. More to come...as I debate how far to take this.