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Posted by Poppabear

I find that the chicas appreciate it. It acts as foreplay for me.

You should use an oil so your hands can slide more easily. You should try out the oil beforehand. I tried a gel that left a big oil spot on the sheets. I like to use Johnson's Baby Lotion. There are plenty of books and videos. I mainly learned from a favorita who was licensed in the US.

If in San Diego, the Bodywork Emporium 1451 Morena, 619-276-2608 has a nice selection.

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Posted by Daytimer

The best way to learn massage is to be massaged. I have been a fan of massage forever. As a result, I know what feels good and what does not.

You do not have to be an expert to massage successfully. You don't have to use a lotion or oil.

Massaging can be as subtle as just taking the girl's hand while sitting in the bar and use gentle pressure and moving your fingers in a circular motion. Then squeeze her hand, then kiss it (always get that in).

The important thing is to put some passion into the massage. Go slowly and sensually. You can't make a mistake as long as you do that.

Experiment with your techniques. Practice, practice, practice. All the fun is in the practice. You will spend a lifetime learning the art of massage.

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Posted by StrikeEagle

I consider myself pretty lucky, as I had a good friend in college who was Japanese, and she was very willing to teach me about the Japanese forms of . My friend explained to me that in Japanese culture massage is a 'passed down' skill. And, she was more than happy to teach me. In two years, I must have received and given at least a massage a month. She'd do me, and then I'd replicate the techniques on her. It was a great, and very fun, education.

If you really want to learn technique, I suggest the Playboy Guide to Sensual Massage video. Laugh all you want, it's got a lot of good info and techniques included. Plus, you can rent it from most of the larger video stores, so it'll only cost you a couple of bucks.

Personally, I believe in using lotion rather than oil. I dislike the smell of most baby oils. Just MHO. Further, IMHO oils are too messy.

Bath & Body Works used to make a series of massage lotions in most of their scents. Now, you have to get their 'Hand Cream', but it's basically the same stuff. IMHO, this is a much better way to go, and less messy than massage oils. Plus, the lotion smells good, which las chicas seem to really like. Try to pick out a 'lite' and 'fresh' scent, but NOT something 'flowery', because you're likely to have the scent on you as well as on la chica. Most of the botanicals tend to be good choices.

As for technique with una chica, if it's something that you like in a massage, it's likely una chica will enjoy it too. One thing to keep in mind is that women generally like a 'lite' massage as opposed to the 'deep' massage preferred by most men.

Key HINT: Foot massages are a BIG hit with las chicas.

Bueno Suerte,

StrikeEagle

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Posted by Daytimer

I agree a foot massage can be good. If done right a foot massage is wonderful. I think the chicas like it because it is not as "personal" and is far away from the goodies so to speak. But of course, you can start working your way up their legs. I have done foot massages several times now at AB and the girls love it.

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Posted by StrikeEagle

Actually, I've been told by chicas that the foot massage just feels so good. Remember that these chicas are on their feet almost ALL the time in the bar. And, in those damn platform shoes, too.

've found that foot and calf massages are GREATLY APPRECIATED.

I often use the last few of minutes in the room as time to do a fast foot & calf massage as my 'parting gift' for chicas with whom I had a good time. It has never failed to gain me a warm greeting the next time they see me in the bar on future visits. More over, this practice always seems to gain me 'special' treatment on follow on sessions.

StrikeEagle

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Posted by Daytimer

The girls I have massaged seem to respond to me better on return visits.

I gave Claudia (AB) a long massage once a few weeks ago when I had a room for the night. She was with me for a hour and a half. Now she can not keep her hands off of me when she sees me. She massages me and then lets me massage her. She was never that way before our great massage session.

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Posted by SeniorSuerte

I charge men and women $60-80 for the hour, in the US. In Mexico, I usually give it away, provided they pay for the room.

Yes, there is a great selection of information at the Mueller School of Massage in San Diego. I recommend the ...well, all the books are good. Try The Educated Heart to begin with.

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Posted by Daytimer

I first learned the "secret is in the hands" from Tanya. I will never forget the first time I met her. Her wonderful hands came over my shoulders and onto my chest. I felt the energy and love from her hands. I was hooked. Tanya gives the best massage I ever had. She is awesome. She puts a lot of effort and affection into her massages. She uses a lot of accupressure techniques. Ask for a massage from her and you will be blown away.

The second time I learned "the secret is in the hands" was from a stripper in Vegas. She did a lap dance I will never forget. Yes her body was perfect, but it was what she did with her hands that made the difference. She sent me into heaven with the way she massaged me while she danced on my lap. I felt such sexual power coming from her hands. She then took my hand in hers and moved my hand all over her body. It was so relaxing to let her take full control of my hand and give me such a great experience.

After these two experiences I realized how important the hands are. Most of the girls do not use their hands at all. It really is amazing how just a touch can make a difference. I will sometimes just touch a girl in a sensual way and I will see a positive reaction. It is not just a massage thing.

I will even reach out and give the street girls that I talk to a gentle squeeze on the arm. The human touch is something that is neglected very often. Start thinking about it and putting your hands to use. And remember, the secret is in the hands.

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Posted by Bosco

I agree with Daytimer that the best way to learn massage is to receive massages regularly. You instinctively learn what feels good. Then with some ractice you can share the experience with others. And I agree with Poppabear that massage is great foreplay, after sex I prefer cuddling to massage.

Lotion can be a good lubricant on a chica but it tends to 'soak in' and you must constantly re-apply it to keep things smooth. And lotion on a man just isn't practical. If you have any hair at all things soon turn gooey. I assume that you all want the chica to reciprocate by massaging you, in which case oil is preferable.

I prefer scented oil. Many health food stores and some drug stores carry a variety of massage oils. Poppabear mentioned Bodywork Emporium on Morena Boulevard in San Diego. They have a good selection of instructional tapes and a great selection of oils which you can buy by the ounce ($0.60-1.00 per ounce).

Poppabear, try any of the scented 'Hydrasperse' oils and you will never use Baby Oil (mineral oil) again. Try 'Bindi' oil if you want an exotic scent....

Bosco

How nice of you to put all of this here, Strike Eagle. You know, there is something that I need to tell you about. There is a great need for non-sexual touching in the life of the sex-provider. We see the need everywhere in our society. Teenage pregnancy is a good example of this need addressed improperly through the sex barter system, i.e. I'll touch you if you have sex with me.

Early in life, a young woman learns that sex may be the only touching she'll recieve. That young womans mother may not provide enough non-sexual contact to allow the young woman to feel good about herself. It is doubtful, considering the cultural taboo associated with father and daughter touching, that she will recieve that important touch from her father. This sets up a need to be touched by males. Sometimes, she may wish to be touched in a loving and nonsexual way by an older male that resembles Antonio Bandaras, yes ...very sexy.

I do not feel good about using my massage abilities to seduce sex providers. It's not that I think it is wrong. I just feel that it is so much better to give it away. I want to touch and love these women without any suggestion of sex, at times. I'm human, but I am an animal, too. Sure, I'd like to overpower them with my intense sexual energy and carry them into the etheral sexmos for an eternity of exquisit pleasure. But, I am human, too.

The hydrasperse oils wash out of clothing well. Hemp oil has a nice slow action. Has anyone every tried to smoke it? In TJ, I always use a safflower oil. It's inexpensive and it has a nice flow. For women that don't want to be oiled-up, use a baby power.

Strikeeagle.....It was a good idea to move the posts to this thread.

It took me a long time, but I finally learned the lesson of life in TJ that is true in life in general. In order to receive the maximum you need to give the maximum.

When I started to give pleasure (massage) to the girls, telling them I did not want a massage from them, I started receiving affection from the girls I have never had before.

Claudia cann't keep her hands off of me when I walk into AB. After I massaged her it was like opening the flood gates of affection.

I also give street girls massages. At first they seem to be uptight and reluctant. It is fun to watch them melt under my hands. They are so used to only giving pleasure, that they have a hard time receiving it.

As far as tips are concerned, I massage them dry except sometimes I use lotion on their feet. Most of what I do is accupressure, so there is not a lot of "rubbing". I learned from Tanya the wonderful pleasure of a dry massage using some pressure techniques.

I highly recommend having Tanya give you a massage. Tell her no sex, just a massage. You will be blown away and learn a who new way of thinking about massage. BTW, Tanya was trained in massage. She adds great technique with loving hands.

The most important part of any massage is putting alot of effort and love into it. That is more important than technique. You do not have to be an expert to get amazing results from you massages. If you enjoy giving the massage, the girl will enjoy receiving it.

I enjoy giving the massages very much, and even add some kisses on various parts of the girls bodies. When I do that the girl knows I am enjoying it and usually response in a possitive way. I have seen ice queens melt under my hands and with my kisses. I do not say that to brag. I am average looking and not an expert at massage. The girls are human and most will respond to someone who is genuine and someone who is respectful and gentle.

Massage opens up a whole new world of experiences.

dt

I gave massages to all the chicas I pulled to my room at the Del Rey (Costa Rica). The majority of them really appreciated it. They said they were always the ones to give massages, but never receive them.

Most of them mentioned that they wanted to see me again and gave me their phone numbers without me asking for them. I believe this has to do with massage, because I'm nerdy, shy, quiet, below average looking (chubby and short) and have virtually no sex skills or "game." I was a 27 year old virgin before this trip.

Just watch the following three YouTube videos and you'll have chicas calling you "doctor massage." They won't believe you when you tell them you're not a licensed therapist.

These are the most important techniques for giving the chica maximum pleasure. Watch this video on reflexology foot massage and commit to memory:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4jrrm0m5UFM

She will also be very happy if you do effleurage and petrissage strokes on her back:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2UGKItbhXPU

In my experience, practicing the foot reflexology techniques on a chicas hands while you're talking to her in the bar will make her more friendly with you. (Techniques for hands and feet are interchangeable because of the similarity of these parts).