What's a girl's motivation?

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By Harold_Johnson on Thursday, December 27, 2001 - 07:58 pm:  Edit

Why would chicas request that I fuck them condomless? I have never insisted or asked for it yet I have had several girls (both in TJ and in Asia) ask or request that we do it without a condom. I'm stumped.

Harry

By Treeshark on Thursday, December 27, 2001 - 08:25 pm:  Edit

Well it does make the "I am pregnant with your child" scam much easier..

By Reytj on Thursday, December 27, 2001 - 08:26 pm:  Edit

It's been mentioned before that some chicas in Tijuas use condomless sex to give them an edge over the competition.

Why not ask them?

By Harold_Johnson on Thursday, December 27, 2001 - 09:40 pm:  Edit

Treeshark,

Yeah, but she has no way of enforcing that scam without your participation. In other words if she tells me it's your child I could just disappear and she would have no recourse. So that's not going to work. Besides my Thai gal really wanted me to knock her up with no strings attached. I passed since I didn't want to contribute to the overpopulation and it really would have been a hardship for her to care for herself and a kid.

Harry

By sampson on Thursday, December 27, 2001 - 10:05 pm:  Edit

selling babies is big business in mexico, especially gringo babies.

By Harold_Johnson on Thursday, December 27, 2001 - 10:46 pm:  Edit

That's great, but I'm not gringo.

By Epimetheus on Thursday, December 27, 2001 - 11:21 pm:  Edit

I am white, and I always fuck the girls in the ass so if they get pregnant the babies will still be brown and they'll also be shitheads...

E

By sampson on Friday, December 28, 2001 - 08:48 am:  Edit

babies of all races are sold from mexico--the gringo looking ones sell for more.

By Explorer8939 on Friday, December 28, 2001 - 09:24 am:  Edit

The selling babies story is an urban legend.

Why would chicas go condomless? First, I don't know the circumstances of their offer, if it is in the context of a price negotiation, or if it were in the room itself. Did the chica actually ask for it, or did she just go for the gusto herself? In the latter case, you have to watch out, since people with HIV/AIDS like to share (there is a theory that one of the reasons that the virus is so successful is that it actually manipulates the brain to want to spread the virus).

By Robertx on Friday, December 28, 2001 - 09:43 am:  Edit

Anal is the only sexual act which most chicas prefer without condom. It seems to hurt more and one needs more lube if one uses a rubber. On the other hand transmission of disease is even more likely when doing anal.

By Tmoney on Friday, December 28, 2001 - 10:32 am:  Edit

Maybe they're just like you and don't like to use them? Maybe they're hookers and fucked up in the head? Maybe she has a disease and wants to give it to you? Maybe she wants to get pregnant? One things for sure if you ask her why she's gonna lie to you about it. One of lifes many mysteries I'm sure we'll never figure out!

Harold Johnson's reply "That's great but I'm not a gringo" Classic! I can just see the guys face "Oh"

Epimethius, HILARIOIUS!

By sampson on Friday, December 28, 2001 - 10:44 am:  Edit

no urban legend. babies are stolen in tj for sale and a newborn brings more cash. americans that have big dough, but can't adopt or don't want to wait for the system sometimes buy children on the black market in mexico. i've had several chicas in ab mention that some ab chicas will try to get pregnant just for the money.

By Harold_Johnson on Friday, December 28, 2001 - 12:26 pm:  Edit

It has never been part of the price negotiation but rather a result of foreplay. As we're rolling around on the bed naked she'll reach for my penis and guide it in. Sometimes I do, most times I don't.

By Maverick on Friday, December 28, 2001 - 12:48 pm:  Edit

If that was the case it could be that the girl was simply into you. A few years back I went up w/ a chica from CC and during our second session she gave me a BBBJ and guided me inside w/o a condom. We had great sex-nothing typically expected. Afterwards I said "that was dangerous" and she said no problem-said she was on the pill and that she never did this with anyone else (ha!). Well I read all of her reports and sure enough everyone was saying she performed covered BJs, safe sex, and no kissing. This was contrary to my experiences-I kept going back w/ her for weeks. As stupid as it sounds, I tend to believe the girl.

By Explorer8939 on Friday, December 28, 2001 - 12:52 pm:  Edit

Harold, thanks for the context. Sometimes the driver for the girl to do that is to keep the repeat business.

Maverick, even if the chica doesn't do BB with other clients, she certainly does with her novio, you know the guy that hangs out at the Kinkle Bar when she's working.

By Harold_Johnson on Friday, December 28, 2001 - 04:52 pm:  Edit

E8939,

I've know her for a little over a year now. Every time I'm down there I do her exclusively. That seems to be the common factor. As I mentioned that it has happened to me in Asia as well. Once I find a girl that I like and we get along she starts to get comfortable with me as well and all sorts of possibilities open up.

By Explorer8939 on Friday, December 28, 2001 - 08:27 pm:  Edit

Harold:

The only significant downside of that approach is getting sucked in by a pro. You need to keep your bearings, since many of the chicas know how to play the game.

By Maverick on Saturday, December 29, 2001 - 09:50 am:  Edit

You can't beat GF sex. After you've fucked everything you wanted to in and out of the zona, it's still worth 10 times what you pay for a quickie with some chica who doesn't even look at you and obviosly is just waiting for you to "feeenish." Explorer is right- keep your bearings but I say ride the wave while it's still breaking. Just make sure that when it ends- and it should at some point- she's the one crying, not you. Keep that perspective in mind and you'll never get "sucked in." The idea that "Maybe this girl REALLY does like me" should not affect the way you treat her or think about her (which is with respect, but hidden caution). The game can be played by both sides.

By Harold_Johnson on Saturday, December 29, 2001 - 11:57 am:  Edit

Thanks guys. Oh, Mav about your comment on friday, I think sometimes you want to believe them but in most cases it's that we're just thinking with our little head.

Harry

By Treeshark on Wednesday, January 02, 2002 - 07:44 pm:  Edit

this was posted in mexico discussion.. Any thoughts about this guys ?????

You may have got a working chica pregnant, what would you do?
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Posted by Horndogg on January 02, 2002 - 19:33 pm

If a working chica claimed that you were the father of
her unborn baby what would you do?
1. Convince her to have an abortion and help her pay for it (knowing that she may be scamming you since she might not be pregnant or if she is indeed pregnant the baby might not be yours)

2. Tell her to have the baby and risk it being yours and paying for 18 years of child support.

3. Run away like a coward and never go back to TJ mongering.

By Kendricks on Thursday, January 03, 2002 - 08:56 am:  Edit

Despite the fact that the Catholic Church has no doubt inflicted great harm on her ability to reason, she may not be entirely immune to logic.

Try to get her to understand that, had you been wearing a rubber or simply not had sex that day, your sperm and her egg never would have met, and her egg would have been flushed down the toilet in a stream of menstrual flow. So, by sucking that crap out of there, you are simply returning her body to the state it would have been in naturally.

Make sure she understands that she is on her own if she doesn't get the problem taken care of, since she will be less likely to dispose of it if she considers it to be a meal ticket.

There is nothing wrong with the simple correction of a mistake - why do you think pencils have erasers?

Kendricks

By Harold_Johnson on Thursday, January 03, 2002 - 10:03 pm:  Edit

Ouch! That's a bit harsh.

By Harold_Johnson on Thursday, January 03, 2002 - 10:44 pm:  Edit

Well, just came from the mexico discussion. Damn. Didn't realize this was such a hot topic. I guess I should be taking notes because condoms are now a thing of the past with my chica and I.

By Kendricks on Friday, January 04, 2002 - 09:26 am:  Edit

Yes, Harold, you should be taking notes. Either that or get a vasectomy - then, you will still have to worry about STD's, but at least you won't get suckered for 18+ years of payments on a piece of ass you are no longer even enjoying...

Kendricks


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