By Senorpanocha on Monday, February 04, 2002 - 08:12 am: Edit |
Some people suggested this be posted in a more permanent location, so here it is, I amended it slightly.
I did this literally dozens of times last year.
# 1. Your chances and your "session" will be much better if you know the chica well before asking her. That is, hopefully you have been with her many times and she trusts you.
# 2. Negotiate a price and leave the night you want to go. Don't set a date for a week or a day from now, most likely you will get stood up. Anywhere from 100-300 bucks depending on how well you know her, what night it is your asking her on,and how much she likes you. If you don't know her real well and want to take a chance anyway,I suggest using a small note pad and pen to help negotiate. I carry one with me always. Casually write down when the date will start and end and how much you can pay, let her have the pen, she can do the same.
# 3. I use the Parador, but there are many other hotels as well. I used the Lucerna last year as well, very nice.
# 4. Ten dollar barfine. Give it to her, let her take care of the guy out front, you stand out of sight or across the street. Don't let the manager see you with her if possible, they get celoso and power trip the chica's making it harder for her to leave. She may want to give him a bullshit excuse, if you are standing there, he might hassle her. Sometimes it's no problem, other times it is,depending also on the status of the chica, how much pull she has in the bar.
# 5. DON'T when you negotiate get real specific about what you expect, like, I want to do you 6 times, suck me till my nose bleeds, I don't expect you to leave till 8 a.m., all for 250.00, that crap.If you feel like you have to do this then you either don't know her well enough or you probably should not be taking a chance like this. Your likely to be dissapointed.
I only did this when I really liked the chica,I made sure it was as close to a real date as possible. Dinner, maybe movies, dancing, hotel. It shouldn't feel like work for her, she will have a better time and so will you.
I tell her I enjoy her company, I'd like to know her better, "Quiro conocerte mejor" we could have fun, tell her what you have planned and be sincere. Tell her you'd like to marry her for a few hours. That makes them laugh.
Then go have fun, the sex will be the icing on the cake. She will stay with you all night for the equivalent of what one hour of crappy sex would cost you over here. ENJOY.
BTW, if you do this often enough, you learn real fast what works and what doesn't, you will get some ok sessions, and some outstanding ones as well, the trick is to avoid the lousy ones, cause they are miserable. You gotta swing the bat though if you want to get hits.