This is an on going discussion,but the waters get muddied real fast when money is involved, gifts or cash. No chica in her right mind says no to generosity and if your the least bit insecure and what human isn't you'll always have nagging doubts and questions.

Is it me that she likes and what would happen if I stopped paying her. I made this list as a guideline, it is not definitive and I left off the most obvious one, that is if you're not paying her and she is boning you, well then she is of course interested in you. However she may have an agenda anyway, what woman doesn't? These are in no particular order.


1. She buys you things, cards on your birthday, stuff for Valentine's day... Xmas gifts,etc. Doesn't need reminding as to when you were born, birthdays are important to chica's.

2. You start fucking without a condom and you trust her.

3. She takes you home and you meet her family.Especially her mom or her kids. HUGE. If she introduces you to her husband, you're back to square one.

4. Screwing other chica's, even better looking ones becomes less and less fun.

5. Screwing her becomes more and more fun,intense as well.

6.You start seeing her, not having sex each time and it's great anyway.

7. You rarely if ever see her at her work and you stop seeing her as a prostitute and instead see her as your girlfriend who does prostitution for a living.

8. She balls her head off when you fight, calls you and apologizes profusely even though you both know it was as much your fault as hers.

9. She rarely asks you for things, except that she wants to see you more often.

10. You catch her looking at you like a love sick teenager and it scares the shit out of you.

11. You lend her clothes, like when she is cold and forgets her jacket or sweater, then she refuses to give it back and you find out she sleeps with it at night. Very scary.

12. She has pictures of you that you give her when she insists, she has them all over her house, she then rips them to shreds when she gets made at you. Then she asks for more pictures.

13. You insist on doing other chica's for variety, you tell her it's because you're shallow and stupid, she agrees that you're shallow and stupid but accepts it.

She tells you that you drive her nuts and she is considering becoming a Lesbian.

Hmm, is TJ chicas similar to Thailand Chicas??

(#3 is funny)