I've been mongering in TJ since June 14, 2004. I am a San Diego Resident and I'm glad i found ClubHombre so I could discuss these types of things with fellow mongers. Since June 14, 2004, I have been on seven trips to TJ. My first time was in Chicago Club and the other six were in Adelitas Bar. I've brought up eight girls so far. I just wanna give you my point of view on mongering in TJ.

Out of these eight chicks, I have had five good experiences and three bad ones. I'll tell you about the bad ones first. The first one wouldn't make me cum, the second one had a wig, and the third had a disappointing loose cunt. The other five, I was able to bust a nut on. The first time I went to TJ I had a great time, and it inspired me to pursue frequent trips to hunt for some more cunt.

This is what I have learned so far: You can't really go down to AB or CC and guarantee yourself a good time. You only get thirty minutes in the room, which I believe is really lousy. I like to work my women for at least 45 min. Most of the chicks down there are also so business driven if ya know what I mean. "30 minutes suckie fuckie" is what I heard from each of the eight chicas I've hooked up with down there. I believe that if one decides to go down to TJ, one shouldn't hold too many expectations. (It took me eight girls and two months to realize this) I certainly had my fix down there and I'm ready to move on. (Actually I may go one more time but I highly doubt it)

I'd simply rather have a girlfriend who spends the night pretty often than several 30 minute "suckie fuckies" from multiple women, or should I say prostitutes.

Don't take me wrong here. I respect mongering and I love it so much! I just grew out of TJ and I'm looking forward to pursuing other trips to exotic mongering locations such as Rio or Bangkok. If any of you ever have a bad time in TJ (girl doesn't make you cum, etc), keep going there until you have a good experience, but don't let the good times raise your expectations and don't especially assume that the good times in TJ will lead to more good times.

Lets go to Rio and fuck some whores down there! Peace!

There's some truth to what you've written. However, there's been posts in the past from guys with very specific, unrealistically high expectations who get quickly (if not immediately) bored with TJ. Your post smacks of being another one of those. If you're gonna call a session bad because a chica wore a wig, well... you're right, maybe TJ won't ever meet your expectations.

TJ is what you make of it. I guess I'm just easy to please. But it's been over three years since I first went to TJ, and I've had exactly two bad experiences with chicas. Well, maybe three, but the third one was erased by a great repeat session with the chica in question. I've had sessions that I consider memorable where I never busted a nut. I go down there with the attitude that I'm gonna have fun... no more, no less. And I still enjoy it as much as I did three years ago.

My advice? I think you're absolutely right... you probably SHOULD check out Rio or Bangkok.

Your right. TJ is what you make of it. I'm just realizing that my standards are kinda high (not in looks but in attitudes) Most of the chicks I've done are reasonably good looking and above.

The best experiences I had were with the ones who were sensual and told me to relax when something went wrong (i.e. dick goes limp cuz of foul smell or loose pussy). But when you politely ask a girl for a handjob and she tells you to do it yourself, it just makes you wanna not come back to TJ. Its all in the attitude.

I understand how you can still have great sessions without busting a nut. I've had them but it was with a girlfriend whom i was in a monagamous relationship with (until I found out about the Zona).

Man, I pretty much strayed away from my point, but I'm just gonna say some TJ whores are really fun but I'd prefer a hot lawyer or snowboarder chick over any chica south of the border.

Have you been to tjamigos.com ? You might want to check it out because- it is all about TJ. I personally have gone down to TJ since 1998 probably 75 times - and my tastes are now for a favorita. Specifically, now I will find a girl and be loyal to her only - well at least one girl per club... anyway point being - if she tells you to use your own hand- report was not established- and I promis ypu when you find a chica that trusts you, knows your not a psycho and treates her like a lady and have multiple (over 5) sessions with her- then special treatment ERRUPTS hehe! Oh, and I am planning to go to Pattaya Thiland soon as well - never been anywhere accept TJ.

That's a good strategy. I need to find a chica and do her multiple times then. I've been using bad strategy: to fuck as many different good looking ones as I may. (I also never have seen the same girls in AB on different days. There were different chicas on each consecutive visit) Maybe I should ask them for their numbers or bring one with me back across the border. The latter sounds great!