I have been on this site for many years but have never posted anything but now I have a need for some advise. As the title says a chica that I have seen many times told me she is pregnant and I was wondering if this has happened to anyone else and what they did.

It has never happened to me but if I was you, I would ask myself what I would do if it was my kid? That is the hardest question.

But first, if it was me, I would veryify if it is mine right away.

If you are in the, "is it mine?" stage?, or "is she playing me?" only one thing can answer that question. a DNA test.

I would make a commitment in good faith until then. If she is lying. I would say adios and good luck.

Since you haven't posted your experience, most advice will be a shot in the dark.

ie. are you "dating" this chica or only having BBFS in the club's hotel? how serious was your relationship before her becoming pregnant? do you only see her in the club? how well do you really know her?

all of these questions are your personal business and haven't been asked to be answered, but if you are asking advice it helps to know in what context one is giving it.

I am single so I don't have to worry about having a kid if I was married stateside. That adds a different pressure

Personally, I would want the kid but I'm sure it would open a whole different can of worms regardless if she was a favorita or a novia.

Good luck!

I have never seen this chica outside of her work so I would consider her more favorita than novia. I did have BBFS with her once but I did not finish inside her but that does not eliminate me. I do not think she is far enough along for a DNA test yet since she is not even showing signs of being pregnant. Thanks for the advise.

Since you only did her once and pulled out, anything "is" possible, but if I was you, I would proceed with caution.

I like to give everyone the benefit of the doubt but this isn't a light subject and she shouldn't be messing with her karma by pulling this type of scam if it is one.

Is she making demands? Like asking for money, but not inviting you into her personal life? ie where she lives? or meeting her family? discussing a plan for a mutual upbring of your future hijo/hija?

I would take the high road and play it cool. If she wants money for tests etc. Tell her you want to go with her and mentally support her and pay the bills that way.

If you don't go with her, you could be handing her "support" money and she just pockets it for awhile and then a month or so she says she miscarried. meanwhile she was never pregnant to begin with.

again think ahead and proceed with caution.

She has not asked me for anything and has not invited me to her home or asked to see me outside of the club. I guess I will have to try and talk to her next time but I speak pretty much no spanish and she speaks no english. I will have to be careful like you said. I would hate to become another story about a monger getting played.

Nielselu -

First of all...working girl chicas get pregnant all the time...it is an occupational hazard. When they get pregnant hopefully they can latch on to the "regular" who is still coming around who also has been dumping loads of cum in her...plausible that he could be the father...but realistically, so could a dozen other guys if she is a true whore.

In most countries there is a little blue $20 pill they can take that aborts/brings on their menstration...In the US it is known as the controversial "Moring After Pill"...however, I think they can take this pill up to a couple of months after becoming pregnant. My novia has a friend (a real stupid bitch) who seems to get knocked-up a couple times every year...inevitably she takes the "$20 pill" and aborts months after she became pregnant.

Secondly...you personally know if you dumped a load in her and how often. IMHO it is pretty unusual to hit the jackpot on the first try...yes, it can happen...but if you didn't dump a full load of cum inside her...(yes, supposedly even one pre-climax sperm can hit it's target)...but, odds are very, very unlikely that you got her pregnant. The reason why I say this is it can take a couple who are sexually active (full loads in the pussy everyday during "peak" ovulation periods) literally months and months to become pregnant. Again, you said you barebacked her...but you didn't cum inside her...so, what are the odds that your few pre-climax sperm reached the target? Answer...very unlikely. If she is pregnant, the true story is probably the guy she was with a few nights before or a few nights after you...he pumped her full of his cum and hit the target...not you.

You didn't elaborate too much about this chica and what country...my guess is because she is a favorita moreso than a novia...I think she is not pregnant and just fucking with you...or, she is pregnant from one of 20 or 30 different guys and she is fucking with anyone who she fucked without a condom who happens to step foot in the bar.

Seems to me that there is just too much room here for this chica to be pulling a scam to earn a few bucks.

If $20 is not too much for you...give it to her and point her to the pharmacy...tell her to jump start her mentration...then call it a day...in other words...tell her to stop bothering you. She's a whore...you don't want her to have your baby...she really doesn't want to have a baby unless she can profit from it...for $20 you did your part to get out from under.

AJ

Solid Advice from Alec.

The last time I heard those words from a bargirl, I asked if she would like a nam som (orange juice) and asked if i was allowed to suck on her tits when she was lactating. I think that put an end to the conversation quickly.

You say: "Mami, te sientes bien? Descansa, te traigo agua y hablamos." (Baby, you feel Ok. Kick back, I will bring you water and we will talk)

And then split...is all BS...

AJ,

Your advice is seriously flawed. Especially within the USA.

The "Morning After Pill", also known as Plan B only works during the period between fertilization in the fallopian tubes and implantation in the uterus (max 72 hours). The USA price is around $75 if you can find it. The FDA finally relented to over the counter sales to females over the age of 18, but many pharmacies do not stock it due to pressure from self-righteous republican lunatics. I still do not know if men can buy and keep on hand in case of condom failure.

The other pill that you are talking about is the MIFEPREX followed a few days later by MISOPROSTOL regimen. This is commonly known as "RU486" and this can be effective during the first two months. I certainly would like to know how they arrived at the common name "ARE YOU FOR 86" where "86" generally means "evicted". The French have been using this for decades, but the GOP wingnuts blocked USA access until recent years and it is only available with doctor supervision and follow-up exams to verify success.

I do not know the availability of either option in Mexico where abortions are still illegal. You have already missed the "morning after pill" window of opportunity.

As for paternity tests, I am not quite sure how you do this while the baby is in the womb. However, there are plenty of US $99 DNA based do it yourself paternity tests available on the WEB. Do not give her a cent until you have done this test and confirmed that it was your jizz.

I don't know why these girls depend on condoms, luck or cycles when reliable birth control pills are certainly available to them.

Finally Nielselu, have you considered a vasectomy so this will never be your problem?

A couple useful web sites are www.abortion.com and www.morning-after-pill.org.

Here is information on paternity tests that can be done between weeks 10 through 21 of pregnancy. Both are invasive and the early test sounds a bit risky.

http://www.metaphasegenetics.com/prenatal-paternity-test.htm

Thanks for all the advice. I am going to try and talk to her later next week and see what her plan or story is.

I wouldn't talk to her at all. If you see her in a few months and she's visably pregnant, if she brings it back up tell her to get an amniocentisis, do a DNA test and then you'll talk. Considering the fact that you only barebacked her once and her padrote/boyfriend does it every day, plus who knows who else, the chances of it being your kid (if she really is pregnant) is very, very slim.

Most likely, she's laying the same story on every "customer" she can. Just like fishing, put as many lines in the water as you can and you will catch a fish or two eventually.

Hot4ass2 -

I disagree. A whore might be or might not be pregnant south of the border...big deal...happens all the fucking time. My advice to the new guy is don't get taken by a pregnant whore...he probably is not the father. The father is probably some Mexican dude that takes half her cash every night then bitch slaps her if she holds back.

This chica is a whore...she fucks for money...not like Billy knocked up the pastor's daughter who lives at the end of the street in good ole USA.

I like Don Marco's advice...go back and tell the chica he wants to suck on her tits when she starts lactating. Let me tell you...a month or so after she squeezes out the baby her milk will be hot and sweet and it will literally gush from her tits. I fucked a chica like this a couple of times and when we were done we were covered in milk and cum. What great fun!!!

And don't start giving me a bunch of moral bullshit that a woman is pregnant here and this guy's baby is at risk...you fucks are whore mongers...you pay these women to leave after you fuck them. If this whore allows you to fuck her without a condom and she takes your cash from the night stand before or after the deed...seems to me she fucked-up when she also took your seed. We're talking a business transaction here and she she cut corners saving a buck by not using a condom.

If she is pregnant let her prove you are the father. You can point-out she is a whore who fucks guys everyday. Anybody who understands how much whores fuck will know she probably has a half a dozen partners everyday...maybe even more...her credibility to identify a father should be absolutely zero. Unless you were stupid enough to give her your full name, SSAN, Passort number, address and phone number...don't worry. As a matter of fact...when she starts showing fore sure that she is pregnant...go ahead and bareback her all you like...she can't get more pregnant. I fucked a few in the PI years ago that were already knocked-up...they can still fuck pretty good...you just have to be careful not to crush their tummy.

AJ - Who can't figure-out why anyone wants to fuck in TJ or anywhere in Mexico when greener pastures are only a short flight away.

While we're on the subject, my erstwhile Rio crew was over the house yesterday for churrasco and of course, Rio was 1/2 the subject of conversation. I was amazed to hear that all of them have had the same experience in the Cidade Maravilhosa - girls either stating that they want to have their baby and/or taking off with the used (seed-filled) condoms post-sex. WTF? Never happend to me, but then again I'm 1/2 brasilian and don't fall for MOST of the puta scams (OK, I fallen for more than a few on my own, but not this one, mebee I'm just too fugly). Hell one puta told my buddy that she wanted to save the sperm so she could look at it under a microscope!

As far as I can figure it, these girls are all hoping to hit the gringo lottery - get pregnant and then get child support money forever from the stupid americano. Of course baby will get farmed out to grandma back in Goias or Minas or wherever the hell the puta is from and she'll happily keep turning tricks.

This ever happen to any of you guys (girls SAVING your cum... or happily anouncing that they want you to BB them so they can have your baby?) And any other explanation besides trying to hit the gringo jackpot?

Anyway, Neilselu, listen (read) to Cat and Alec. Don't believe she's pregnant till you see the milk on her tits, and maybe not even then. Don't believe it's yours till the kid starts speaking English on his own AND you get a DNA test. If, by some obscure chance, it IS a real kid, and yours to boot, then be sure to send him/her a nice Xmas present every year (anonymously, of course). 15 minutes in bed with a puta does not obligate you to be world's greatest Dad. In the meantime, give her a nice friendly wave while fucking other putas in the Zona. Or come take a vaction from it all in Rio!

BS

(Message edited by badseed on October 23, 2006)

(Message edited by badseed on October 23, 2006)

This happened to me in Panama as well. You can never be sure who the father is, so at first you always have to ask for proof. Unless you have a real connection and fully trust the girl, but how often does this happen SOTB?

Mr.Garak

I would definitely congratulate her, and ask what she and her boyfriend plan to name the baby.

I had one in Panama tell me once how happy she was to be having my baby (we met monthly for almost a year). Should have seen the look on her face when I told her I had a vasectomy years earlier.....Priceless! I bade her farewell.

Saw her a few month later in a restaurant in S. Fl., obviously prego, with her new American hubby. Now, talk about priceless....LOL!

Poor bastard never knew what hit him.

DENY, DENY, DENY...and walk away!

If you have had a vasectomy, never tell a chica. Then, when she pulls the "you got me pregnant" routine, you can call bullshit.

I had a vasectomy and NEVER tell the chica. For whatever strange reason that evolution made so, if a chica KNOWS that no way in HELL is she gonna get preggers, she ain't into it.

Personal experience.

Also, DNA first. always

taking off with half filled condoms... what is this world coming to? why not just leave your cum dripping outa her snatch just before you boot her out?

Reading most of the drivel on the board regarding whore/client decisions over a relationship that usually lasts for 2 pumps and a squirt sounds more like men are desperately seeking something... and it IS NOT a whore.

We are Lions gents-- fuck, fuck, and fuck some more. Woman, like lionesses, are there to manipulate and entangle you however they can. A smart lion know to dump his load, take a nap, and dump another in the next lioness that comes along. It's the law of the jungle!

Just so you know, the word in Portuguese is "vasectomia." Twice I've had GPs tell me they were pregnant and they thought I was the father. In both instances I replied "acho que não, querida. Tive vasectomia." That ended the discussion rather quickly. I suspect in both cases their local boyfriends knocked them up and told 'em "go find a sugardaddy, cuz I ain't supporting the kid."

that's too funny bwana! I'm sure they try to line up a dozen or so fathers...

Bwana:

I suspect that its not even the local bf's knocking them up - in general putas are pretty good about NOT getting pregnant, it's a neccesary occupational skill. I think that these girls simply realize "Oh shit, the rent's due (or whatever), and I better come up with some way to get a lot of money pronto, faster than I can make lying on my back and spreading my legs 5 times a day..." Nad that's where rich American SUCKER comes in....

BS

Bwana,

When being referred to as a sugar daddy, would you prefer to be "o banquero, o gastoso or o colonel?"

Cat-

Prefiro "a caixa-electronica."