What is the ratio of good/bad lays in Thailand compared to TJ?

You don't get ripped off in Bangkok. Lot more girls, they're prettier and a better lay, and cheaper too. It's only 18 hours in the air and several hundred dollars to get there, but make a vacation out of it. What the hell, you only live once.

Out of the 10 times I've been laid there, only one was bad, and most were great.

If I may add my 2 cents: The thing about BKK or LOS is that "girfriend experience" that is so rare here, is common there. Imagine having a choice of "short time" which is about1-2 hours or "long time" which means the girl stays throughout breakfast, or longer with you, and both has the snuggling, kissing, and hugging before, during, and after the deed is done! It really is an incredible experience. Throw in some of those Thai massages during the day and man this mustbe heaven! It just has to be experienced once in every guys lifetime. The bad part is it ruins any and all other mongering when you return home...

Elf --

That's a *scary* thought.

For me, Adelita Bar has ruined "any and all other mongering when you return home". Thailand would just about kill me.

So, from what I'm reading then, go to Bangkok, return home, and retire.

RT

LOL! Yup, that's (unfortunately) just about the sum of it! Just ask any who's been there... Like the song says: "One night in Bangkok makes a hard man humble...."

Guys, correct me if I'm wrong, I think that Thai hookers lack imagination. The ones I did, didn't do any other position besides missionary. They do like to kiss (french) and BBBJ are not a problem. The one I hung with even let me cum in her mouth. For those who have been there, you know what I'm talking about. Most don't even like to undress in front of you. Nudity is a bad thing in their culture. But for the most part it is GFE. I guess my complaint is that I like multiple positions. I don't know, maybe I'm picking them up at the wrong places (freelancers at the beer gardens). BTW, I'm headed back March 1, 2001 til 18th.

Harry

Harold,

Like a racehorse (sorry, that doesn't sound too sensitive), you only need to pull them a bit one way or another to drop hints for what you want. But they're not going to go through a position routine for you. They want to please you (and them too, mostly), so guide them along and you will find them most accommodating to almost anything. If you're into anything kinky, ask before you leave the bar. I found all I needed there (why the hell did I get back on that plane...) and heard first-hand reports of some pretty strange (to me) fantasies fulfilled. Bottom line: Nothing is out-of-reach in Thailand, even some down right illegal and sick needs are met there. As for me, I'll stick with the legal ones.

Ind,

Having now been to the Philippines I can said that Filipinas are way more out going in bed without having to drop hints. I still think Thai girls are kinda conservative (relatively speaking).

Damn it... you made me check the BKK-Angeles airfares...

Do you think this would make a better side trip than Cambodia?

Did they reopen the bars in Cambodia?They closed ALL of them down a few months back after someone dropped a small bomb outside the door of one and i haven't heard anything else on Cambodia since.
Taxibob

Indy,

For now, I'd skip Cambodia.


StrikeEagle

K-11 still open.

K11 is open, but is it a safe bet?

Cambodia? Safe?

Now THERE is an Oxymoron, if I've ever heard one.


StrikeEagle

So much for PP!

There's alot of talk here on Cambodia...FYI I posted a very brief update on the current post-crackdown situation on February 5th - it's in the Topics > Destinations > Asia > Cambodia > Phnom Penh thread.

What exactly is everyone so hysterically afraid of? It's not frickin Afghanistan.

TJ= Girls tend to be very dirty. Mexicans don't have much water (Most of Mexico is a desert) so Mexicans are not in the habit of cleaning themselves. Without water, how do you wash? Getting some toilet paper and wiping the pussy once or twice between customers is not acceptable to me.

In Thailand, thing are much different. There's lots of water in the tropics and since it is so hot, the girls enjoy taking 2-3 showers a day and definitely in between every customer.

So that is the difference, sanitation standards. Thailand is almost as sanitary as Singapore, Switzerland, or Japan while Mexico is about as sanitary as Africa or Iran.

Also, the Thai mentality is much more deep, steeped in buddhism. They respect things, especially the man. MExicans on the other hand are basically indians that were raped by the white man and were forced to accept catholicism or die by the sword. That makes for a fucked up populace.

According to the Conde Naste publication called "10 most dangerous places on Earth", Tijuana is listed as one of those places. Its true, i personally know 3 guys who got robbed in Tijuana by a team of 2 thugs. One chokes you from behind while the other empties your pockets. Tijuana is dangerous, dont fool yourself.

Thailand is extremely safe. Thais look down on people who have violent actions, thus they are always under pressure to act cordially. Anyone who acts violent there is thought of as a low piece of shit. Social pressure works! Thailand is much safer than the city you live in now in USA. Violent aggression is unheard of!

TJ seeker

sorry but your comments are pretty much full of bullshit.

"(Most of Mexico is a desert) so Mexicans are not in the habit of cleaning themselves"

Have you ever spent a second outside the Zona Rojo of Mexico ????

Most mexicans are very very clean people and spend nearly half their lifes cleaning and sanatizing their homes.

Certain parts of mexico might have Desert areas just like the USA but they have water people that come around everyday ( not sure of the name they have ) and sell water to people in poor areas for very cheap prices to use for cooking and cleaning.

Being of Mexican decent I find your comments very racist and one sided But did like your white man comment - Kill whitey !!

Take your post print it out and meat me at Pulgies you will find some very unhappy Mexicans who will tell you otherwise.

You are judging your thoughts on the lowlife whitebread part of Mexico the zona rojos. Where it is dirty full of scum and white people.

TJ is a lot less dangerous than most major cities in the USA. I have lived in TJ and have been going for 3 years and only once have I been attacked. And who wrote this Conde Publication ?
Some whitebread who lives in Arkansas ???

You sound like these white reporters from Los Angeles and San Diego that come down to TJ and print and report about every story that is told to them 4th hand. Have you ever seen these reports ? They are so laughable its funny

I am not discounting that Thailand is a nice area. I beleive it is a fine place for whities to visit and get laid but don't come off with false statements about my motherland

Thanks for reading my report
milkman

"Take your post print it out and meat me at Pulgies you will find some very unhappy Mexicans who will tell you otherwise."
HA, as if they can read.


Milky is the whitest Mexican I've ever seen. He's so white he has seven dorfs following him around. Ok, maybe they are trinket girls.

The 10 most dangerous destinations list comes from a corporate security company in Texas, Air Security International.

They list Tijuana and Mexico City as among the top ten most dangerous cities on their general list of dangerous places to travel to.

(They also list destinations by categories - like top 5 locations to be kidnapped, etc.)

I certainly think TJ is a dangerous place, but like all "cities" some parts are worse than others.

In the U.S., Compton, CA is rated as one of the top 10 most dangerous "cities". But I suspect on an international list, it would be listed as Los Angeles. Yet, since I live "in LA", I see it differently.

I have never been to Thailand yet but I have extensive experience with recently arrived Thai/Isan/Lao ladies here in San Diego. I would think for a night in the sack, it would be hard to beat the Thai ladies by TJ standards. My impression of Thai women is that they operate under the mentality of trying to make men fall in love with them so the can get material wealth from him. This plays well in a customer/whore relationship. The Thai woman will really put an effort into actually making you feel an emotional attachment to her. They are very good at it since it is the primary way they achieve any success in there culture. Of course DON'T EVER make the mistake of actually forming an emotional attachment to a Thai woman, but if you enjoy having a woman treat you like you are the most special guy in the world, Thai woman would be hard to beat. Mexican women play the same game and are probably more sincere about it but not nearly as skilled as the Thai woman. I think if I was considering having a real relationship with a nonworking girl from a foreign country, I would chose a Mexican woman over a Thai woman any day. Thai women play the you hasum man much more skillfully than the Mexican women, but the Mexican women are probably as a whole, allot less evil than Thai women.

Here's a link to their website
http://www.airsecurity.com/

I'd love to see these lists, are they available online? I couldn't find them. I'm guessing that Rio and some cities in Colombia are on the list as well. I've wanted to visit DF and parts of Colombia for a while now, but I'm still a little uneasy about safety in both. I'll probably go anyways. I doubt I'll ever get to the Middle East now, though.

There's a big culture difference. Thai girls could be generally described by our standards as submissive, although in truth I would say a more accurate description would be a strong desire to please and be accepted. From a working girl standpoint, it translates to generally higher levels of service, many would argue an almost guaranteed higher average level of service.

I prefer Brazilians (Thais are #2) but I think the Thais are unrivaled at playing the "love" game. (Although Philippine girls may possible be close to equal, I don't have enough experience to speculate) Thai girls seem to have the most intuitive sense of mens' weaknesses and will play the game just as well while you're thousands of miles away with email. I would speculate that email/internet use among Thai bar girls may be higher than girls here in the US!

I wouldn't call it evil, but it is dangerous for guys that aren't careful about it. The whole prostitution business (at least in some countries) involves making the customer believe there exists something more than the "insert dick here". Thai girls are just experts at it and take the game much farther than most.

As a disclaimer, I'm only describing the average Thai girl. Although I believe them to be a minority, a significant number of bar girls, maybe even ones that start off deceptively, do end up falling in love and have genuine feelings. Just be aware that the odds are against you.

I personally recommend you at least visit a few countries and get a decent sampling of girls from each (and take notice of the differences and similarities!) before you convince yourself of settling down.

Thai girls only maintain a facade of submissiveness. They are all the time very diligently manipulating the situation to there best benefit that they can achieve. They are just expert at exerting there power very subtly while maintaining the submissive facade. They are very good at what they do and if you understand it you can work it to your benefit because they really will put that effort into making that emotional attachment. To them it is a way to gain some degree of control over a man. To me it means the girl will make every effort to make me feel like the most import guy in her world for the time I'm with her. If you keep it on the level of client/whore you really get the extra effort from a Thai lady. If you really fall for it, watch out. Thai ladies are only submissive on the outside. Inside works the mind of a mercenary. I see this in action every day and they are truly something to behold. They pamper you and hand feed you your breakfast and dress you and fix your hair and just basically make you think you are number one guy in the world but if they ever get an emotional attachment from a guy he better watch out.

BTW for San Diego guys looking for hot Isan and Lao women, this weekend they are calibrating Pe Mai (Sonkran) down at Lincoln park (a week and a half early but then Lao have always been inclined to jump the gun on holidays). There will be lot's of hot Lao girls down there so get out a nice RL Polo shirt and some nice slacks and go trolling for hot Asian ladies. No obvious working girls but usually the divorcees with a few kids are the ones that will put out pretty quick with a nice falung dude. Make sure you have a bottle of hennessy cognac on hand to loosen her up a bit.

Sancho.....As a person who speaks Lao/Isaan and Thai, I can tell you are correct as it relates to Lao/Isaan girls but not so correct with other Thai women...especially non-working girls. The Lao/Isaan girls are mercenaries because they are usually illiterate and poor and come from the school of survival, regardless of the moral standpoint. They have learned to be mercenaries as a way to preserve the survival of their family..at all costs. Of course, 80% of all working girls in Thailand are Isaan/Lao and that is why you must be more careful. Remember, that although Thailand is a patriarchal society, the women are the household decision makers(sancho alluded to this).
You must also remember that there are almost zero Thai girls in San Diego. The girls you meet are from the Laotian gang bang areas and have dumbass/thug boyfriends with a huge Napolean complex. I have flirted with Lao girls before at North County Songkran and almost got in several fights and I am extremely mellow. Laotians are notoriously lazy in the U.S. and have one of the larges gang influences in San Diego county. Although they drive lowered HOndas and have Drangonball Z haicuts, they still pack. Do you work for the government...welfare perhaps. The Laotians are notorious for abusing the state welfare and Federal SSI system...just curious.

Yea that's the crowd I hang out with here in San Diego. They can actually be allot of fun if you keep them in perspective. I agree with you 100 percent that "real" Thai persons have a lot more class than Isan or Lao but since the discussion centered around mongering I kind of left them out or lumped them all together when there should be a distinction. I do know a few "real" Thai women in San Diego and they certainly have more class than the Lao girls but they do of course still collect there husbands paycheck every week before he has a chance to look at it. Not a sign of submissiveness. I think they are all great and I have been to a few of those gang banger parties and had no trouble at all. I just keep things in perspective and all those ladies take great care of me. I write CNC programs but right outside my office is a whole gang of those girls working under microscopes all day long. Actually very productive workers in a mind numbing job. Every day when I come to work there are little offerings of "food" on my desk. They are very sweet to me, but.... I also know it has allot to do with my position in the company and they wont hesitate to flirt if they think it will help there chance at the next raise. Of the ones I know, most aren't on welfare. I think Hmong Laotians are a little worse about that.

Since this thread is comparing TJ to Thailand, here was an interesting situation involving both worlds. A year ago I had a regular Isan girlfriend for a while. I was getting sex from her about once a week. Then one week she missed and then next week she was on her period so she got very apologetic and said to me "I can not give you sex but I know you need, so you go TJ, I don't mine. Just use protection." She would want to kill me for flirting with another woman but had no problem with me seeing a whore. Very strange culture.

Patriarchal = male dominated.
Matriarchal = female dominated
most Catholic Latin countries are matriarchal societies.