I learned something very quickly my first few days in Thailand: First of all there is a very big communication gap with the Thai women but this really isn't a problem. In the Thai culture the women don't really talked too much with their men. This being said all these women, I've had sessions with, loved to show off their Farang men to their girlfriends. I just spent my first night in Pattaya. I barfined my girl from a gogo bar across the street from my hotel. She had a blast just having me sit next to her while she talked with her Thai girlfriends. She would massage my back and legs and kiss my neck and back as I watched a Thai kick boxing match. In the rooms they seem to be shy at first. I began our sessions by giving them a massage, then proceeded to play/kiss their privates... Needless to say they quickly loosen up and provide a great session. Thai women love oral sex given to them. They do not seem too kin on returning the favor. That's okay however. A session with a Thai women is 100% GFE..They also like cuddling all night. To the Thai women looks are only secondary - they look for men with "good heart"... (prog)

Progman,

Glad you're having a good time!!!

Two points.

First, taking out a Thai BG is viewed as 'renting a girlfriend' in the context of the Thai bar scene. Different context from western views.

Second, often 'man with good heart' is translated to 'man who is free with money'. Just be aware of that fact. If you take out your Thai g/f, and all of her friends, AND you pay for everyone, you have a good heart. But, if you seek to pay only for your g/f and figure that her friends are paying for themselves, you will NOT viewed the same way.

Again, different cultural context between Thailand and the West.

Sounds like you're learning about some of the cultural differences, And having fun doing it. That's the best way!!!

Just remember, TIT. (This is Thailand) Keep your wits about you.


StrikeEagle

Prog:

I think the Thais ( not just bg) know and understand a lot more than they let on.

They seem to know how we think, and use it best they can.

they give out a lot of B.S. ( but it does not smell like the B.S. we get here), ( I'm sure you get the idea)

Thats why we keep comming back for more.


Live large, live the fantisy ( there anyway)

prog: ready to come home yet ???!!!! Don't forget to go to J-One and get #25 when you get back to BKK. You will not regret it. I'm going to add some detail in the massage section today if you need addtl info.

Buick,

I can answer your question with one word: NO!!!

(prog)

Pasathai,

Well Said! They know and understand our culture, and us far better than most of us will ever know or understand them or Thai culture. At least on the superficial level that counts for most of our interactions, I would suggest that this is true.


StrikeEagle

StrikeEagle:

thanks for the feedback, I am sure a lot of mongers realize it, but dont consider it enough. ( the thais knowing how to manipulate us by our standards and sensibilities. ( and by the short hairs too).

But agin, they b.s. us, but its nice bs and we keep comming back for more.

Pasathai & StrikeEagle,

It's great BS. These girls really do know how to pull on your heart strings. Not only are they beautiful but they wait on you hand and foot while you are with them. It's very addictive. Takes a lot of self-control to keep from falling for it...

Last night I didn't sanuk but, instead, had dinner with a very lovely girl from Misty's A-Gogo. When I barfined her I told her I only wanted to take her out to dinner - no ST or LT. There was no charge. I just paid for dinner (which is very, very cheap here). She knows what she's doing - she was sweet and very submissive. She, of course, asked me to come back tonight and barfine her again. She was 20 yrs, small, and had the most beautiful smile! (LOS).

... (prog)

Might as well add my comments...

It is great BS, gotta agree with all of you.

Most common things I heard:

1. "You have good heart" Gotta fully agree with StrikeEagle on that one. Seems to be in the national phrasebook.

2. "You handsome man" I mean i like to think I am at least average, but I was told this so many times think it replaces hello. Works the same in Thailand, Cambodia, Vietnam. I had the exact same phrase said to me by a Vietnamese girl in Vietnamese, since I speak enough. LOL. Must be in some manual.

3. "I love you." Out of my limited experience in LOS I got this one two out of three times. Kinda actually freaked me out. Tears accompanied both times. Think this is a dastardly deed to pull on the unsuspecting farang. Had to make a break for it at that point.


So I have to agree that these lines are universal among most girls there, but I figure they are doing what they have to do to survive so, so be it. As long as you are aware of it, no harm no foul. Pretty much had this confirmed by a friend of mine over in Thailand, non-working girl who does translation for these girls letters to their farang b/f and vice versa. She said basically exactly what Pasathai did, they know exactly what works (spoken, etc...)to get the most bang for the buck, or better yet the most bucks for the bang.

So as long as you keep your wits about you and realize it is all fantasyland. I think we all make out ok.

K

If you want to play a little game on the BG's.

( and save ur self some $$) try this.

( plays on there plan to show you how nice/honest they are)

tell ur "special friend" you dont know how it goes, are new, ect. and would like here to take care of things for the evening ( or however long you are there)

give her the bht. ( be sure to figure out how much you expect to spend for the time, food, drinks, her, ect).

tell her she is the "big boss" with the money, and can pay the "bin" and whatever is left over at the end of ur time togeather is hers.

really fun to see how far they go to "prove" they are honest to us. and once it sinks in they get the most by saving $$ you will seen them examing the bar bill. food bill, ect. like and IRS agent working on commision.

got some real fun times, watched some heated arguments, haggeling, ect. and did not cost me any more than I planned. ( some even show you how much they ended up with, like a kid showing a parent a "a" on a school project. ( and want to be sure it is theirs)

Getting a thai ( not only BGs) to show how honest, sincere, ect. they are seems to "turn the tables" on them.

( somehow, also, I think there is a BG manual being passed around to show them how to play us)


anyway, works for me