I took a girl I met on the beach to my hotel for a short time, 2 hours tops. She wanted to see me again, so I told her to call the hotel. I figured I would be "out". She shows up at my room with the bell boy the next evening! I an so stunned that I end up taking her and her girlfriend for a drink. After an hour I said I had to go, goodbye, end of conversation. The next day I told the hotel staff no more girls to my room unless I prearrange. Next afternoon this girl shows up again, by slipping past the lax security. I told her I was sick and goodbye. A word to the wise.....make sure your staff knows who is and who is not allowed to come to your room. This situation caused me a major pain in the ass. Lucky I didn't have another girl in the room at the time. Why do I have to learn this shit by experience?

The best thing to do is tell them straight out you cannot see them again, or don't want to see them again. If you give them an in, they will take it as this girl did. You may feel like a dick for doing it, but consider all the crap you went through versus telling her at the time you had other friends to see and things to do and you didn't have time to see her again.

Archie29621,

As I recall you have that effect on these Asian girls. Remember "C" from Y-bar?... Your problem is you're too nice. Have fun with the girls but don't out of your way to make them feel like you're on a real date. Hehe... who am I to talk! See you in a couple days. Scooter said he'd email you his cell phone number. You get a chance to stop off at his restaurant?

...(prog)

Archie29621

I can help you with the "C" situation in Y-bar but I'm a little out of touch to run interference for you in Thailand. Good luck and don't fuck TOO many women!! Remember happened to me in AC!!!!

E

(Get me a ticket to an airplane, ain't got time to take no fast train, lonely days are gone, I'm a going home, my baby she wrote me a letter......The Box Tops.) Welcome to the continuing saga of "Why didn't I just go to a short time hotel to begin with!" I get the front desk with the program and no more girls to the room, but she does manage to slip a letter into my inbox. You would have thought we were ready to walk down the aisle with the way she said she loved me and I was the first farang she had ever been with and to please call her because she misses me so much, blah, blah, blah. All this after a 2 hour S/T. Hombres, DO NOT let this happen to you. It is a major pain, especially if you are not a cold, callous person. My mistake: I do not think this was a bar girl. I could be wrong, but things just don't add up. If I save just one Hombre the same grief, I will feel I have done my job!

Archie29621

Was she cute? If she's hot and you REALLY need some help I'll get on an airplane and go over there and fuck her for you - THEN I'll be a callous asshole and toss her out the door (making sure she doesn't bounce off anything first). You can always rely on me to do the dirty work!!

Just ask Prog about some of the problems he's had with bargirls. His grief was in the PI, but talk to him about "E" and he'll give you the full story.

BTW, if she accepted money then she's a whore. Granted, she may not be very good (or particularly lucid) but she's a whore.

E

I know what you're saying. I have always been an easygoing and friendly guy, and sometimes it is difficult to be that way when you know you shouldn't be(like dealing with working girls that latch on).

One of the girls on my last trip to Thailand seemed to build an unusual connection with me. She seemed genuinely confused about how she felt. I enjoyed spending time with her, but never was interested in anything more than our sexual relationship.

I received the following three messages, one shortly after I returned, and the next two a day apart a month and a half later. She was a really cool girl and I felt torn about whether to reply to her or not. I decided not to, figuring that if they were genuine messages, keeping in touch with would kind of be leading her on, and also further confuse me and how I felt.

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Hi
How you doing ? I'm doing good .where are you now ? oh !! do you still remember me or not ?I'am xxx now I'm stay at home . some time it to bore you know I need to have some friend I don't know why I can't forget about you . I hope I can be with you one more time . you told me before you will come back to pattaya right. so when ? you tell me ok. I hope it soon .
maybe this mounth or next mounth Thai new year frestival. I think it great time you will have fun for sure
well I have to go now . write me back very soon!!!!!!!!!ok.
xxx ..
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Hello

How are you ? this is xxx do you still remember me . I hope you are ok. I just come back today . my friend told me you came in bar . and ask about me right . I 'm feel very sureprise but have to be sad because I didn't see you . now I really want to see you do you still want to see me . so where are you ? can you come to see me at bar I beleave you are still in Thai Land right . I hope fully you can get my e-mail for soon . and will see you tonnight please e-mail me back very very soon!!!!!! ok. or you can call me any time xxxxxxxxx I will wait for you

bye bye

xxx
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Hello

How are you ? can you get my e-mail or not . why you not write me back . where are you now? you know I gon the crazy because you please write me back or call me tell me where have you been . I wait to know and wait to see you .write me back very soon ok.

xxx

The next email may be about her sick water buffalo.

Hmmm. Those sound quite familiar to some email I've been getting from PXXX (a bg from Nana in BKK). Allow me to illustrate:
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Hello. RastaMan(RM) How are you? I'm sorry not call you to long time. I miss you so must. I see already your photo. Want do you doing ? your working ok. now am not working again in bangkok so bad for me now. I want to go som where but am can not do. RM you know i have you number one for me you not forget me. now i want you stay in bangkok .

I know you can not do. you don't forget me

Take care. Pxxxx.
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I suppose nothing else needs to be said.

- Rasta

My original thought was to keep in light contact with this girl and tell her when I was in BKK for a few days. Then I would have a good stand-by. Now, I'm wondering if this attached chick could ruin my fun with the other chicks. Sounds likely! Maybe I should take evasive actions.?.?

absofuckinlutely...

Just a note to the curious. I am going to see this girl I met on my last trip. We corresponded lightly throughout the year. She "misses" me. ;)

I am in BKK from Dec 1 to Dec 4 and Dec 28-30. I am telling her about Dec 3 and 4. I'll see her then and maybe again at the end of the month if it goes well. Maybe I AM crazy!

Well, I was there 18 nights and have 4 of them that love me and send me email regularly. Only 1 was a bg, an old bg! (hey I felt sorry for her lol)I got an email from her through her friend and she told me she quit working (i think i was her only client)and she needed $1500.00 to "get her body checked and get passport to come to me" of course she loves me. The other 3 were not bg but still fell in love in about 3 days worth of "boom boom" Absence does not make the heart grow fonder, it wakes your ass up!

This is by FAR the funniest darn thread I have every read! OHH HELP ME I am Being stalked by a 4ft8inch 80 pounds Thialand Love Goddess. You kill me.

Very funny. I went to Thailand for my first time be over Christmas vacation and had a similar experiance. I met a girl in a bar on Walking street in Pattaya on my first of 7 nights there. We had a great time and were able to communicate even with my NO Thai and her very limited English. She showed me the town and I showed her my room. The next day we spent together and after she went home to change clothes we went to dinner and again had a great time but in the morning or was it early afternoon I told her I needed some time to myself. Well in her mind time to myself ment a couple of hours. When I returned from a wonderful trip to one of the big massage places on 2nd road there was a note under my door in terrible but understandable style that said she'd return later.
Not wanting to have a confrontation I quickly changed instead of the nap I had planned and left. I don't know if she returned that night or not, but about noon she was knocking at the door and when I opened the door she just walked in and sat on the bed and started a conversation with the current occupant. After about 10 min she got up and left and gave me a kiss on the cheek and said she'd be back later. Within minutes I was moving the girl of the moment out. I packed and changed hotels that afternoon. While Pattaya girl No. 1 was lots of fun and if she was local to me I might have kept her around longer I didn't fly half way around the world to be tied up with one LBMF when the streets were packed with so many others.

Guys -

The first-time I fuck a chica I will fuck her in a short-time hotel room, MP or a brothel. Only after I've fucked her a few times and determined she is okay will I ever invite her to the hotel where I sleep.

This tactic doesn't cost that much and it will save yourself from a world of grief if you wind-up with one that is Not Quite Right (NQR).

AJ