Recently had a guy send me an email asking how I interviewed girls in Angeles. Apparently, he has been experiencing more rejection than he would prefer. I gave him a few hints, but am hardly an expert as I still get rejected WAY too often. I thought I would open up this thread to see what works for some guys. Obviously, the manner in which you ask the questions plays a HUGE role in doing this, but it's always good to have a couple of good questions lined up.

So what questions do you ask a girl in a bar and what are you hoping to find out by asking that question?

One question I always ask is "How many babies do you have?" I'm trying to confirm several things with this question 1) I tend to prefer girls who haven't had a baby, so this pretty much affirms that. 2) I'm re-affirming that the girl is not a cherry girl - which I already know if I've done my due diligence but have been known not to do that.

If the girl says she doesn't have kids, I ALWAYS give her shit about being a cherry girl. This leads to cherry ass, nose, ear, etc. comments in a joking way. It gives me a good idea of what's on the menu with this girl. Eventually, if I'm looking for something specific, I'll just ask. Often, I'm just trying to gauge the vibe.

If they do have a baby, I ask "Where the baby is now?" If it's in Angeles, there a higher percentage likelihood that she's going to want to leave early to "take care" of the baby. Definitely a bad thing!

On my last trip, I heard several guys open up with the following: "Are you available for barfine tonight?" They were not asking if they WOULD barfine, just if they were AVAILABLE. A "no" answer got them thrown back onto the scrap heap.

So let's hear it, what are your best interview questions and why do you ask?

EA

These are MY questions for MY own reasons. I enjoy watching them sing. I won't dwell on looks - but for me attitude and eagerness to please are more important than if she has a mole on her face. My goal is to see her "come to life" - and maybe invoke a desire to "go with me."



1. Do you like Metallica ? Regardless of answer, "Their guitar player is Philippino." Do you like to Kareoke ? If I take you to R & B disco club - will you sing for me? These ladies love to talk about music, their sing along Kareoke skills are fun to observe. They have memorized a lot of the lyrics to popular hits. This instantly gets the lady to open up to me.

2. Have you been to the Pacific Breeze before?

Here you will get a response of "I likes duh Pool to swim," or "I go many times."

3. Who is the best girl here? [Hit the jackpot on this one at Lollipop last trip] I told her that I wanted the best nice lady for a barfine. She happened to be a door-girl and I did not mean to manipulate here - and she said "I am." - This was after a couple of drinks - but it was a reverse negative close technique. I bought a drink for the doorgirl and she and I discussed music - and when I asked her opinion for the best barfine -she said herself - and I got super lucky.

4. Can you teach me billards (pool). Most will laugh and say "I am shy" - but most also kick my ass. This is also a great way to see how seasoned the lady is - as far as the bar seen - the better she knows pool, then the more barfines she's been on.

5. Will you go to SM Market with me to buy groceries? - I need soda, fruits, bla bla bla [Sounds super corny yes, but last trip two Dollhouse ladies said "no." I saved my $25.00 - and choose other ladies who at least appear motherly.

In 2006 I stuck with one primary lady - and no rejections. I have had 1 "runner" from Carrasel in 2007 - and two rejections from another bar for reasons of "I don't go with foreigner," and "bar hop only." - meaning to say that sometimes it might be the culture of the bar. Also recently had one Dollhouse lady ask me if I used condoms, instantly after I bought her a drink. [I considered that a rejection].

Conclusion - I build real and genuine rapport by talking about music and singing. When I find a winner I barfine multiple days...

I know a famous monger here asks blatant short questions - about their menstration, babies, etc. For me, asking them if they want to teach me to play pool, sing kareokee, or go grocery shopping has worked well. I think a lot of these ladies are bored to tears in the bars and want a simple guy to have fun with.

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(Message edited by metal on January 25, 2010)

Didn't Derekh have ONE interview question:

"Do you know BUD?"

Negative response = GAME ON!

Of course he found out that when he pointed OUT who Bud WAS, the girl had erred! OOPS!

(Message edited by porker on January 25, 2010)

Me: "I'm so sad na, my GF break my heart. BOO HOO HOO"

Her (Filipinas LOVE GOSSIP): What happened?

Me: "We had a big fight when she said p30,000 a month wasn't enough pera. BOO HOO HOO!"

Her: "U wana make a baby with me?"

Me: "Maybe later, how bout we bang ur ass to postpone that decision?"

Her: "YES, PLEASE, THANK YOU!"

SIMPLE!

I only saw derekh with one girl the whole trip, so don't know if this is a valid question. On the other hand, having a girl who has not been "spoiled" by Bud WOULD be a bonus!!

EA

EA, spoiled=well trained!


I seen derekh with two girls, and one of the two was living with me at the time.

Bud

I ask them, the usual,

Q: Tell me something negative about yourself (surprisingly honest these gals, " i have small boobs", "big butt").
Q: what would you like to be doing five years from now (married to a foreigner, not good).
Q: What do you think about your last "date" (if she complains, red flags)
Q: You have any special recogniations or certficates (i.e. Ms. Kokomos Pool Party -- Best Breasts 2009)
Q: Do you follow directions well (obvious)

I'm not sure what is meant by being rejected. For me the purpose of the interview is for me to decide whether I reject them or not.

My process is fairly simple.

1. Physical-- if she doesn't strike a cord, I don't waste time interviewing.

2. If she passes muster with 1, I watch for some cues such as her energy... does she seem outgoing, friendly, having fun?

3. If she passes 2 AND there seems to be a little chemistry brewing, I'll either call her over for a drink or if she has came over on her own, I'll buy her a drink and chat it up.

3. I'll have a little fun chatting, groping, etc and watching her body language thru-out. I'll use the gopes to check for any sign of a baby, like stretch marks, skin condition, teeth, personal hygiene. Scratch and sniff easily deterines box condition.

4. Depending on my mood, I'll ask her if she enjoys giving a good bbbj.

5. depending on the venue, I'll ask for a sample.

6. If she made it this far, I'll going to bf her and have some fun drinking, eating, etc... then back to the room.

Things may have changed in the last two years, but I never had a bg walk out. Usually I need to kick them out the next day.

If it isn't obvious, most of my first few days on the ground are spent surveying and focusing on #1 and #2.



(Message edited by donmarco on January 26, 2010)

DM Nothing has changed. They still cling to you like orphans if you are at all nice to them.

Hell
I still have your hand me down GF Grace and lil Yum Yum e mailing and chatting with me on Yahoo Messenger. Grace still says she misses me and loves me too mut .

I always grab their pussy and ask, "is your pussy working"? While checking for pads or a recoil reaction to pussy handling.

KM, being nice is an important part of the equation as you said. In the end, it comes down to whether or not a bg enjoys spending time with you or not. There is no magic formula for that, but being nice/fun to hang with certainly pays off.

Sancho,

That's always a good way to do a rapid stinkypuss verification as well.

Epi would just dip is finger into the girl's pussy, poke and stroke a little bit, and then check for toxic odors. Surprisingly few girls objected.

Anecdotally, after a long run of pussies that smell like flowers and even increasing examples of anti-microbial pussy wash, alas, I became complacent and this last trip my streak was broken. In just 4 short days I encountered not just one but two world class cases of stink pussy. Hopefully just an anomaly but it is back on my radar.

Bwana, they usually only objected when he used that finger to stir their drinks afterward...

DM,
The real test was when he'd ask the girl to lick his finger. No lick, no barfine.