Hi,

I am arriving in San Jose THIS SATURDAY for my first visit...I am trying to do something a little bit different than the standard "mongering" trip I read about here on Club Hombre with much interest and some jealousy, by which I mean I have been e-mailing two women in Costa Rica through one of the introduction service, the one that begins with "My" if you are curious, and trying to form a real GFE experience for my visit to Costa Rica that could lead to a serious relationship. These women I am e-mailing are not pros, I should make that clear. In fact, there is some risk they won’t put out all at which would be just awful!

Also, here's another difference, I am seriously looking for a wife. So I am hoping to form a bond with a Tica and to take the first steps in building a serious relationship, of course, along the way I want to have a great, sexual, time at the beach with my Tica lovely.

The idea was to form some kind of relationship, even if at first "virtual", before even arriving in Costa Rica, as you may have guessed I invited one of the two young ladies to come with me to the beach resort for a 5 night stay. It took a bit of convincing since, of course, she doesn't really know me and from her point of view I could see where agreeing to go the beach with a near stranger would be worrisome. She has seen my pictures.

The plan is for me to stay two days in San Jose so that we can get to know each other and so that she can feel comfortable that I'm not a serial killer before we head off to the beach. So, there is still a chance that after meeting me in person she may decline going to the beach with me which was the whole point of this exercise.

If that does happen, I figure I have two fall back positions to avoid going to the beach alone and resorting to giving myself hand jobs...which would be an expensive disaster...call the other girl and say "surprise, guess what I'm in San Jose, let's meet" and then try and close a quick deal with her, or try and meet someone at the Blue Marlin and take that girl with me, bottom line, I do not want to go the beach alone.

Here's a little secret, just between us, I've heard so much about the massage parlors and the BM that it would be a shame not to try them on this visit.

In any case I really want to sneak in a visit to New Fantasy or some other "in call" place. I think I have to avoid anyone coming to my hotel room since it would be too easy for one of the two girls I've been e-mailing to run into my “guests” and if that happened you can just imagine the fireworks, cat fighting and name calling.

What's the story on short time hotels, are there any clean ones that could be recommended? Again, I don't want to have any of my extracurricular activities exposed to my potential GFEs, plus the regular hotel I will be staying at is in the suburbs, Escazu, and I am not sure of their guest policy. Besides, all it would take would be for some asshole desk person at my hotel to spill the beans to my GFE and my trip would take a very negative turn.

Can anyone advise me on how much cash to bring and in what currencies? Can I count on being able to use my credit card in Tamarindo? How much local currency do you suggest I keep on hand?

Hi Scrow,
Glad to see it worked. Also sounds like you remember my mistakes on my first trip. I think you got it going on. I guess you are there now having a great time. Hope you let me have some of the details. Hope you have a great time.