Ok. I thought I'd start a topic about this since I find Colombian women so interesting. This thread is dedicated to anybody who wants to say anything about an experience-good or bad about Colombian women. I'll start. Why is it that Colombian women fall for a man quickly or is it that being an American impresses them so much? I have been e-mailing this really cute girl telling her about my upcoming trip to Cartagena. I can tell you that she treated me like a king since our first conversation-by the third phone call, her whole entire family and friends all got on the phone and introduced themselves to me and it seemed as each gave me a 3 minute interview. I thought it was cute, but I was just not used to that. Anyway, I like this girl-but man,. she wants me to meet her mom so badly it scares me. Are all colombian girls like this? From what I've read on some posts they are really into their men. Anyone wnat to share some thoughts on this? Also, my best Costa Rica expereince was with a Colombian woman. Now I have been to Argentina and Brazil many times-but Colombian women seem to win my heart in a different way-they are very passionate and you truly feel-well kind of loved? Is it just me or are all of you having similar expereinces?

I don’t know what it is about the Colombianas.

My last trip to C.R., I was with 6 Colominanas and 5 of them were total GFE experiences. I’ve wondered myself whether this was just luck, and it probably was to some extent, but there was something about them that made them special.

My 2 favoritas were Paisas. I found that at first they were both very well spoken, polite, but reserved. When we got to the cama I thought at first that they would be cold, but found that after spending 10-15 min with foreplay, kissing, etc..that they just went wild. It was like turning on a switch or something –they would get this crazed look in their eyes and proceed to fuck my brains out. BBBJ’s, rimming, facials, all were common.

Here’s s few of the things I heard from the Colombianas on my trip:

• I want you to come in my mouth
• I want you to fuck me hard from behind
• Do you want anal ?
• Don’t put on the condom

You could go your whole life in the US and never hear those things. Overall, I’d say that Colombianas are like a “turbocharged” Latina. I’ve heard the same thing about Brazileras, and I may have to see how things in Rio compare, but I’m afraid if I go to Rio, I might never leave.

Suerte,


HC1

Let me add my two cents by starting with a disclaimer. I have a GREAT deal of experience with one particular colombiana which ended in not only a divorce (papers filed by me) but a restraining order as well (papers filed by me). As horribly as this particular experience turned out, I am far from turned off by the thought of getting involved with another colombiana. I hope to sample as many colombianas in early October as possible.

Part of the dynamic is, I'm sure, the extra emphasis that Colombians put on class/status differences. I don't remember ever meeting a colombian who didn't introduce himself/herself with something like, "Hi, I'm Xxxx, and my grandfather on my mother's side was Swiss." The most important fact about themselves is their connection to Europe and/or the U.S. The fact that you are not Latin brings the heat up a notch, and then if you are an American who is blond (in Colombia, "rubio" meaning anyone whose hair is not 100% jet-black), you are Michael Jordan stumbling into an NBA-groupie convention.

To "score" an American, and hang onto him, the colombiana will do WHATEVER it takes; hence the urge to please and the sexual enthusiasm and adventurousness that might not be displayed towards a countryman from a good family and CERTAINLY not towards someone TRULY unworthy like a (god forbid!) Mexican.

I wish I knew more than I do about these ladies. I believe they are perhaps more prone to "worship" than some other variety of latina, and it's interesting to find out what one's tolerance might be for abject adoration. I am certainly not going to write off the whole bunch because of one bad experience; not until I've sampled at least three or four dozen more, anyway.

I don't get it-why do they base so much on US and Europe-I mean we all have our problems. I'm just trying to understand them. I never met any American who says "Hi, I'm John Doe III son of John Doe II, who was advisor to King George I" So-what makes it being tied to an American so special and why to they class/stus..so tell me, what makes you high clkass in Colombia-being blonde or just plain being American-even if you have black hair.

Please remember that the typical disclaimers apply to this observation. YMMV, survey of one, my experience may not apply to your situation.

I dated a colombiana, Magdalena, a few years back. Non-working girl. Very intense, passionate, active in bed.

What I learned is that sex was equal to an engagement for her. The fact that I agreed to have sex with her meant we were on a clear path to getting married, that is how it worked in her culture. She was from Bogota.

As we moved through our relationship she became very frustrated when she understood that I did not make the same assumption. She spoke to her brother who had been in the states longer and he explained to her that people in the US date, have sex and have no assumption of marriage. She was shocked and told me "its different here than in Colombia" "Sex doesn;t mean the same thing."

So, in your case the fact that you're being introduced to the family and the mother in particular suggests to me she's on the path. I'd be very careful about the ground rules if you have sex with her. Especially in Colombia. With the whole family and extended family knowing who you are and where you're staying.

I'm not saying you shouldn't go after her and again, my experience may not apply. But, I'd definately talk about what having sex with her means and doesn;t mean, before the doing the deed.

Ix

I found that the Paisas and other Colombianas I was with were aware of social status, but I don't think they were looking at me as hitting the jackpot. I was never hit up for $ for relatives, sick kids, baby clothes, etc..They all seemed to accept the nature of our relationship. I think that my favoritas and the other Colombmianas I was with really liked me and that's why they opened up. At the same time we all understood they were working and they all have goals of what they need to earn for their families back home.

I will say that the Colombianas seemed very discriminatory towards Mexicans and Puerto Ricans. Both my favoritas said they wouldn't even talk to a Mexican. They also had a very low opinion of Ticos (Costa Ricans) and made several comments about the slow service and inefficiency in Costa Rica as well.


HC1

Hombrecito/Ixtoc,

you guys made some really interesting posts. I figured that Colombians do not like the Ticos very much-I saw this for myself when I visted Costa Rica and spoke with a lot of Colombian girls and Ticas. They really can't stand each other.

Ixtoc-what do you mean about her family knowing whay hotel I'm staying etc-it just so happens that Claudia, specifically told me that if I visted her mother first-she can easily travel anywhere with me w/o any problems from her family, but if I do not meet her family, she cannot ravel with throughtout Colombia-what is the difference. Why is it that meeting her mom automatically makes it ok for her to travel and even stay with me at my hotel? I don't really understand...

Batman:

I'm sure I'm past my ability to comment accurately since I don;t know more about your specific situation.

For my one experience, sex was the expressway to marriage. Meeting the family would definately get my radar up if I were to go after another colombiana.

But, on the other hand, you may have found a liberal family here that just wants to make sure you don't look obviously dangerous.

Good luck.

Ix

That sucks! You mean if we have sex she expects marriage? Why? i mean its just sex-nothing more. I have actuakky been warned that many girls look forward to marriage if you meet their family-regardless if you have sex or not. As far as my expereince-I have not me this girl in person, but have talked a lot on the phone and her family insisted on speaking with me by our 3rd phone call-heck theyt even knew a lot about me already to my surprise! Anyway, I'll just make sure that meeting the family is a big no-no. Sex only is what I will tell her!

Here's a question-do all women have sick relatives in the hospital and need money to pay medical bills in ColombiaI am communicating with a girl who wants me to see me in Cartagena from Barranquilla, but is not working now and has no money to pay for the trip costs. She said if I can send her 200USD she can come see me in Cartagena and take care of her mom and family with food, clothing etc for the time she is gone. Mind you this is not a pro-nor a semi, I think...anyway 200 bucks is not a lot, but I don't want to be fooled..need advice...any thoughts?

The OLDest trick in the book. I{ve seen fake medical records get passed around too.

Please do not fall for this scam.

If the observation that Columbian women melt for gringos because Columbians are so caste conscience, my question is: Why is that?

Does any one know of any historical reasons why Columbians should be more status and skin conscious than say Ticos?

In fact, does any one know of a good book on Columbian history, or any novels that incorporate this question?

1. Try almost any books by Gabriel García Márquez
2. Reguardless of what you hear or read there is prejudice against indians and blacks.
3. Talk to almost any Colombian, especially female, and you will hear, "Oh yes, we (meaning the original family) came from Spain."
4. Colombain women "melt" for gringos basically for two reasons: one is that we treat them far, far better than their own men and two, gringos, if hooked, mean financial security and/or the possibility of leaving Colombia for the United States.
5. Ticos are into this also.

Very simplistic but there it is

If you go to Cartagena spot all of the gray haired gringos and Colombians on the street sporting their 2-3 wives on each arm. do the gringo speak Spanish? do they understand Colombian culture and customs? They can say "hola" and have money so its "a la orden siempre."

The Tallman spent 4 months in Bogota in the summer of 1990. Wow 12 years have past, many memories of beautiful Colombian women.

Following up on GATOR's comments, as I recall, us Gringos treat these women heads and shoulders above any native man. Almost all the women I dealt with told me so. Second reason is financial.

As a rule, from my experiences back then, all Colombians that I came into contact with are warm and very hospitable. It's a shame what that FARC (sp?) has done (and the drugs).

The Tallman

A lot of woman from the highlands like Bogota, Medellin,Bucaramanga are more into marriage. They look at the character and finance stability as their aim is to found a family. The ideal Colombian family is patriarchal and can only be sustained with some economical and or political power.
In Colombia a white upper class of descendants of the Spaniards from the colony times and recent European immigrants that get wealthy as the power. White is on the top.Everybody in Colombia know this and nobody wants to change the system. The only sure and immediate way to improve is through marriage.
Colombian society is very traditional and the
social barriers are very rigid. For a Colombian woman of lower class, especially the instructed
ones to marry a European/American is the chance to found a stable own family. Also important
is that she can escape from a the control of
her own family. If she only considers you as a potential husband you have won she is interested in you and you can play the game.In Colombia
that kind of girls appreciate that a man is
reliable, hardworking and has no vices as drug
addiction and regular excessive drinking (which
in Colombia is associated with visiting casas de
putas).
Such girls go with you because of sympathy and
not for greed of money and they and their family
won't extract money from you. Normally this people
is very hospitable and if they offer accomodation
and meals you would offend them if you pay.
(You may make them a present when you leave.
If you give presents to the girl this is enough.)
The people of the Coastal zone like Cartagena,
Barranquilla etc. are similar to Dominicans.
You often have to pay for everything and
a lot of people are after your money, they beg you to help them (sick mother, nothing to eat etc.)
In a manner the women there exchange sexual favours for money or clothes. If you have a girl
she expects that you help her financially and
she is under pressure from her family too.
The girls of Cali are between as they like fun
and you really must be at least an acceptable
dancer of salsa etc. otherwise you have no chance.
They are the most sexy woman of the world and
they expect also here men that do their job.
The Colombian men are skilled and expert womanizers. They know exactly what the particular Colombian woman wants.They know if she wants romance, fun, travelling. They take enormous
efforts to get her to bed. She loves him but
after this he dumps her. Or the man is jealous
and makes a hell of her life because he is
suspicious she betrays him.
Especially the beautiful women have made this
experience. There are a lot of Colombian men
that have a not so beautiful girlfriend for that reason, so they have a secure home base and can
go chasing the more beautiful girls in the discos and the bars. They are also a lot beautiful girls, especially students that are the lovers of married rich men.
Colombia is a country where the man is ruling and
if a man has nothing to offer to a woman he has
no respect, so simple is this.

a fair assessment!

Well, I can't dance so I guess that leaves Cali out.

Tight Fit, don't get desperate on dancing. Yes,
if somebody cannot dance, he is quite limited in
approaching women and attend to social events.
Cali is the capital of salsa and the hottest
girls have music and rhytm in their veins. They
enjoy to be invited to the disco and then after
dancing they are hot and very open. They enjoy
the flashy ambiance in a modern disco, dancing
in that places make them forget their precarious
financial situation.
The typical entertainment of Cali is to organize an evening party called rumba(most Friday/Saterday night.)
Normally, a family or somebody who has temporarily a flat for his own buys beer, food,
aguardiente and make invitations to neighbours, relatives,friends, sometimes also the employer is invited. The main attraction is music and dancing. A foreigner is an attraction in Colombia and if you are good in conversation you easily make contact with people. Making contact with
people put you in the centre of the attention
and you can impress a lot of girls with this.
After such an event the girls speak of you as a
possible target which is your goal.
They know you and you can go on further. So you
can overcome your lack of dancing skills.
But you have to speak Spanish well.
There are also girls of other Departamentos
(provinces) of Colombia and they are studying
or working without their families and friends.
They feel inhibited with the Calenos and they
prefer go out with other foreign people.
Last but not least there are many girls that fall in love with white-skinned foreigners, espacially the mixed-Indio girls.It is a pity to miss to go to Cali. The girls are really extraordinary.
The most beautiful came from Buga and Palmira ca. 50 to 100 kms. in the North. Most are tall white skinned (like ivory) honey-blond beauties.In Cali you find the most beautiful women in size and colour in the world, and they make you hungry because they have a lascive rhytm moving, eating, speaking... and loving.
If you are in Cali you have to make the Chiva tour. This is an old-fashioned bus which makes a tour to several bars and discos in Cali. You can book a seat in the major hotels of Cali and they pick you up. The tour is very cheap and you meet Colombians of other cities than Cali. This are all middle class people and they are all keen that you enjoy the journey with them. You are also more easy to contact the chicas at this places because you are in a group. The cost of the tour includes standard drinks which is enough for the whole night. I made the chiva tour some year ago and the prices are US$ 20.
For sex there are the various high-marked places like Flores Frescas etc but the locals go to bar/discos where the waitresses and hostesses are putas. A session on the premises costs 10 US$ or less. There are also real brothels where there is a room with sofas with the girls. They normally have very cheap bar service. On weekdays there is no big action, there are only two or 3 girls. If you don't like them the lady who manages the place can organise you a girl in half an hour time. You order what you want,age,size and skin colour. At this places there are girls in all ranges. At weekends it is busier. If you are
satisfied you give a tip of 5000 pesos.
If you make a local friend tell him you want to go for women in such places. He guides you to his places and you have no hassle and don't get cheated, because you pay the local tariff and the
girls make all efforts to make the gringo happy.

In the South of Cali there are upmarket establishments with shows of fashion and modeling and beauty contests.
For people who like cultural events the best is to go to Medellin where you have a lot of arts and literature. Every year they have a big international congress of literature attracting a lot of interest.

Etitigere, I am pressed with your knowledgable posts! I have several questions.
1. Why are the mixed-indigo girls more interested in gringos?
2. Have you ever been to Panama City, and if so, are the women there like Columbian women?
3. Is the goal of most of these women marriage or the romance?
Thanks for your insights.

I just got back from Cali and can verify for the most part that all Colombianas no matter where they're from, consider dating an American or European hitting the jackpot...I am currently dating a HOT 25 year old girl from Cali who can easily make the cover of playboy next month, but I know that she is with me because I stayed at a 5 star hotel, American and can really improve her financial status if we were to get serious....with this in mind, I proceed with caution. Now, I'm in my mid 30's 6'1 and average build...still...it's very easy to walk any street and catch the eyes of many girls...my novia even has to be careful from her own friends trying to get my attention...thinsg are pretty bad in Colombia...the economy has colapsed, the avg salary is 300USD/month and work is few and poorly paid...It's a shame really..despite all of this, they manage among themselves to smile and party a lot! I encourage anyone to go to the feria in Cali..you will have a good time.

And what happened in Bolivia? Any comparisons? My SA experience is limited to Rio and Santa Cruz. I'm going back to Rio in March and may consider another trip to Bolivia or Colombia as well.

Batman,

When exactly is the "Feria" in Cali?

Thanks!

Maverick...so sorry I have not gotten back 2 u with Bolivia info..the scoop on bolivoa will cme soon..I'l get on it...

Bkkguru, the feria in Cali comes once a year from Dec 25 thru Dec 31.

What is it? I can only compare it to a latin version of Mardi-Gras...partys on the street, concerts and of course beautiful, drunk women from just about every city of Colombia in Cali to party and get a some action!! It is wild!! It's fun and of course sex with a girl whom you just met is very common after only knowing her for about 20 minutes...YMMV of course. I can't wait ti get back next year!!!

About Colombian women disliking Mexicans, Puerto Ricans, and other latinos. I'm not familiar with the history of the colonization of Colombia by Europeans, but one thing I know is that is was the Europeans who created the different classes that now are in placed in Mexico. There is the Indio (Indian) who is at the bottom of the barrel as he was the most abused by the Conquistadors. Remembered that song by the Beatles "No one likes you when you're down" (I think).
Next, come the mestizos (at least in Mexico) as I'm a Mestizo, which means there I have I'm a mixture of Indio and European (Spanish and Tetoteca Indio in my case).
Then on top are, of course, the Conquistadores themselves who are whitey white and have the blond hair and green or blue eyes going for them. They were in power for many years so it was natural for them to look down upon a Mestizo and kick an Indio without any ill-regret.

The process of enculturation is a shared one pass from generation to generation, so it would come as no surprise to me if the class system in Colombia is very similar to that of Mexico.

I'm being very simplistic, but I think that's the right approach. How would you see this fit into what you have observed?

The last note added by Zerped catched my eye. Colombians dislike mexicans. Well, being mexican I can partly agree with this. However, it also, might have to do with Mexico being South of USA, as compared to every other latin country in the Americas being south of Mexico.

Hi guys,
I'm a new member to Clubhombre so i'm throwing in my 2 cents worth about Colombia/
I'm Jamaican but of white/portugese descent , I lived in Bogota from 1996-2000 and have just moved back 3 weeks ago for work with another company. I remember as a college student in Miami meeting Colombians who disliked Puerto Ricans and Domonicans.
When I moved to Colombia in 1996 I saw the class situation up close being in contact daily wiyh Colombian executives. All Latin American countries have some class/color predjudice. I dated a girl at the Mexican Embassy in Bogota who told me when she visited Los Angeles she would only speak English and would never associate with Chicanos (she was white and blondish), upscale Mexicans consider Chicanos the poor refuse who had to go to the US to live better.
Colombians who are well-educated and European-looking consider themselves at the top of the status quo, but some issues arise form regional matters .Bogotanos don't like people from the coast, they consider them lazy and crude . Coast people(Baranquilla and Cartagena) think Bogotanos are cold and snobby and they thinj people from Meddelin are racist.
Some girls I knew in Bogota would never go out with aguy from the coast because they say they're too chauvinistic.
I understand these petty ideoloigies as I grew up in Jamaica and all the Caribbean islands are like yhis, However I know for Americans the concepts seem strange and stupid.
I remember in my college days in Miami black Jamaican college students just arriving from the island would never speak to black americans (same race differnt culture), instead the Island kids (Trinidad Jamaica Barbados), all of different races (Chinese,white Lebanese,Indian, black and mixes thereof) would stick with each other or with white American kids .
I digress , I remember finding very interesting the prejudices of Northerners in the US for their southern countrymen. Every country has it's quirks !!

Also you'll find lots of women in Colombia trying to scam you for money(sick relative)!
But you have to know who you're dealing withI had a Colombian girlfriend for 2 years when I lived here before and she never asked me for a dime,BUT she was an executive and came from a financially stable family. 3 weeks after I met her i invited her to Melgar for a weekend(a small vacation town near Bogota) and when i got there and was taking the bags out of the car she got to the registration desk first and whipped out her Visa card and registered it. I told her that I invited her and that I would pay , she replied that she dosn't need a man to pay for anything for her(except Daddy)and she was trying to show me that she was so glad that I invited her that she wanted to pay for the room for the weekend and she wasn;t taking no for an answer and if I wanted to repay her I better fuck her 4 times a day for the weekend(it was a holiday weekend).
Lesson 1: Girls who are pros are pros, don't expect more.
Lesson 2: when marrying a Colombian(or any other girl) marry one who loves you not one who needs you. Know whos for fun and whos for a relationship.

Amen to that Nickster! I just got back from Colombia nd had a fantastic time..and though I met many beautiful women..it is tru that one must distinguish between lgetting laid material..and bringin' home to mama material...big difference. However - enjoy the lif e as you only live once...

Nickster, nice posts. I wish I could get an expat assignment anywhere in S.A. Oh well, at least I get to fly down to S.A. every couple of months.

Enjoy your assignment, and even more, the hot Colombiana's! Hope your open to do some "tail chasing" with us CH'ers? Let us know:-)

As I would like to visit Medellin, "cum" October? Something about them "Paisas" for me!

Reading all these posts I wonder if a dark skinned guy visited Columbia (I look Indian - from India that is), would he be shunned by the chicas ? I have not had a problem elsewhere so far.

You won't have a problem in Ctg, some parts of Colombia yes, but overall no.

Hunter

I know this tread is pretty old, but a little note about Columbian women or as a a matter of fact any South American woman that might be your "girlfriend"

My Columbian friend recently visited Barranquia (sp?) and met a girl with a young child, around 4 years old. They hung out for about 2 weeks and things went well. He helped her set-up an e-mail account on yahoo to stay in contact. He later returned to the US. After about a month and half, he started receiving e-mails from her telling him that her child is sick, needs medicine, bla bla. The old send me money trick.

He decided to try to logon to her yahoo account. To his amazement, she had not changed the password. Within her e-mail account there were two other e-mails from other guys living in the US responding to her similar requests for money for her sick child. Apparently they had already sent her money.

He is playing along telling her that he is broke right now, but will visit her soon to help. This way he can get another free fuck out of it.... No, he will not give her money.

I wonder how many "sick children" are being supported by sucker gringo's out there without the benefit of knowing so. Luckily my friend's girl apparently is not up there in the intelligence level otherwise she would have changed the password.

The moral, don't send money! Don't ever assume an exclusive relationship unless she lives under your nose!!

I have a story to add to this one. I knew a girl in Panama whose father died shortly after I met her. On another trip months later her mother was sick and died soon after. Several months later on another trip she told me that her father was sick and was probably dying. The sick relative ploy is not uncommon. I talked to a Panamanian (escort)friend of mine here in Georgia who told me that her own mother has pulled the "I'm sick and need an operation" routine on her.

Funny, I have a Colombian GF and her mom is sick, and her grandma is sick... but she never uses that fact to ask for money (she never has asked for money)... but they are always sick!

What worse - my Colombian wife now got calls here in the U.S. telling about some family member who is sick. I am lucky that she knows the story there and she is not buying any of it. In fact I have been impressed at how stern she got with the family very early on. That unfortunately does not stop them from bringing up the hardships of life there when the time seems right and they are expert at lying on the guilt.

I was previously married to a Dominican and it was the same story. You must make it clear that you are dating or marrying HER and not the rest of the family's problems.

Hi, well i want to share a bad experience i had with a colombiana. I met her at this latin personal site called latinamericancupid.com. First of all, your going to find your share of dishonest colombianas the thing is you have to know the signs and pay attention to details. I have to say i fell for one, but im not talking about love i just fell for her scheme. When i first met her she was all sweet to me and loving, holding my hand and all. Im a sucker for very attractive latin woman. To make a long story short, when i came back to Florida we kept in touch and she was able to pull some cash from me and gifts only to find out she didnt want nothing from me in terms of a relationship in other words, She was nothing but a fraud. BEWARE! of dishonest colombianas they are out there. Dont get me wrong theres a lot of sweet colombianas that are willing to have a serious relationship with you north american guys. I still have two friends of mines that are tru friends to me and honest.

I am black american from Miami, Fl. I just came back from Rio, Brazil....and wow!!! Bunda grande... I love attitude of the garotas in Brazil. They go all night long. They told us they love..."black americano." Well, I want my next trip to be Columbia...maybe December or January.

How does this compare with Columbia? What are Columbian women attitudes towards African-Americans? I just dont know the image of African-Americans from the U.S are to Columbians. I am planning a week trip to Medellin or Cartagena.

From the pictures, it seems Columbian women are top heavy as in larger breast than Brazilians. I am a butt man. How do the women compare in terms of bundas?

I think a Brother would have a much better time in CTG then he would in MDE.

My two cents worth, as I'm not Black. But I've been all around Brasil and a few places in Colombia.

Colombian chicas in general do have nice busts, and nice bundas too! Many could pass for Brasileras.

If I lived in Miami like you do, I certainly would make Colombia a frequent place to visit.

Also something to consider, X-mas and New Year's in CTG is high season. Plan your trip accordingly?

Hope this helps!

I've talked with a lot of girls in MDE. They prefer lighter guys because they will make lighter babies with them. It is more of a European flare to to MDE than other Colombian destinations.

Not to say you won't be successful with the girls, just not as sucessful as a white guy. No judgement, just that is the way it is.

In CTG, I don't think there is a problem either way.

Why do so many people mis-spell Colombia?

C-O-L-O-M-B-I-A

I can't imagine the number of Mongerers that step of the plane in Columbia Maryland looking for Paisa's.

HAHAHAAHAHA!

Taboojw....I am a brother as well and spent 8 days in Colombia..4 days in Medellin and 4 days in Cartegna. I had have heard stories about the treatment of Blacks in Colombia and they do exist. However, you're an American and it makes a hell of a difference. I loved Medellin and plan to go back soon. The woman are bangin' and the price is right. I'm headed down to Brazil in a few months and would like to get the skinny from you on how to get started/situated.

There is a class and race system in Colombia. There are colombian women who would never date a black man whether he is american or colombian. There are colombian women who would date black men because they prefer darker skin against theirs. I have experienced this with two women in Bogota who are white colombians but their preference is black men. Sniper is correct that the average paisa would prefer a white man over a black man but there are a few out there who would not care what race you are. Colombian women are probably the best women on the southern continent. Brasilians just happen to be better freaks in bed. IMHO.

Sly is a Colombian pro, hes been many times. He's also a big black guy.

He seemed to get his share of hot chicks, so I would not be overly concerned about it if you are going to MDE.

Sly, I'm headed back on September 6th if you are going to be around. I'll be staying in my apartment.

Well, I have planned accordingly...I will be visiting Cartagena, CO for Semana Santa.

I hear Cartagena is a little different than Medellin. But I found a couple of nice girls that really rocked my world.

What is the best advice for sticking with a budget for the women?

Should I do the 100k pesos Max rule, including short time or TLN. Is this feasible?

The 100K pesos would depend upon where you look. In LDV you will get nothing. On the beach and street you will do fine.

Semana Santa is jammed with tourists from other parts of Colombia. If your Spanish is passable, you could get very lucky, very cheaply.