The subject has come up again a few times this trip. Because it is so easy to fall in love with these women. Some of the guys think its posable, I don't. I think once a woman crosses that line she has passed thru a door that she cannot return thru. I think if you meet a woman in this environment the die is cast, no matter how hard you try to construct a "normal" relationship.

Not to mention the trust factor. Would you question her fidelity everytime she says I'm going over to my friends for a few hours?? Can you believe her when she comes home late pleading traffic problems??? No way, even if she WAS for real and a changed woman, you would always have that doubt in the back of your mind and THAT is a hell of a price to pay.

Possible, Maybe, If you know her for a few years.If she wanted to leave the business of her own accord.
If she got a real job. If she cut ties with her former life. A lot "if's" there
Best not to go down that road.

Not as long as she's in Brasil.

Run!

I have adopted a new strategy this trip... I have been lieing my ass off. I tell all of them I am here for 2 months to find an apartment and then go home to get my things and come back to stay and I am looking for a wife and settle down.
So far its worked, I have been getting a lot of great sessions, text messages saying I love you my love ect. ect. and no mention of time limit on dates in fact I had to tell two of them I left for Recife on business just to get some air. While they think they are setting up another "GOAT" for milking I will disapear next week pleading a family tragedy just like they do.

LL, first off, i think there are a decent amount of garota's that genuinely want a good man to love them, take care of them, sex them up and have a real monogamous relationship. i have met a real sweetheart named monique. she just had to do it for money. she had twins and no support. she would stay with me for 10 day trips, and we had a great time. i definitely would have brought her to America if she didn't have kids. secondly, i have used that lie about relocating and looking for an apt to buy. what makes it even better is that my friend is married to a 26 yo knockout and lives in botofogo. so they think i am their ticket to a real life and i have gotten plenty of free sessions with gfe(not counting food, drinks gifts).

I am so tired of listening to him bullshit the Garotas...he has promised to marry 3 that I know of! To make things worse he is double and triple booking "dates" and overnighters. On three occassions more than one showed, resulting in me personally having to entertain them, in one case, I had to take one off his hands and session with her whille he was with another...gives a whole new meaning to what are friends for. Last night one shows up, he meets in her car outside our apartment, the favorite garota shows and (thank heaven for heavy tinted car windows) does not realize this, comes upstairs and now I am doing a softshoe, he finally comes up, and then makes an excuse to go back down to give the other a gift! Holy crap..and he wonders why I am stressed. His handle should be CFIT (for non-aviation types: controlled flight into terrain!)He certainly is a quick study.
I have to go prepare for tonights circus...

cfk...how is the beach action?

HMMMMN, depends, first 4 days excellent, then 2 of rain so bad, today cloudy and so-so. Equates to: sun excellent, cloudy so-so, rain bad. Should be on the nightly forcast! See my post (chat) on Help I am posting.

LL,

So what happens when one of your garotas gets really pissed off at you? I don't recommend stringing them along too long, much less multiple garotas at a time. I think you have better ways to spend a vacation than having some jealous garota fucking things up, which is what is bound to happen.

Cat, I am going to make him read your post daily, thank you, I agree 100%

He is actually making me look good on this trip!

LL,
Sorry, but we(meaning us mongers) are the opposite side of the same coin. Just do that old trick of substituting men for women, guys for gals and he for she in your original post and you'll get what I mean.

LL,

Be prepared to be castrated (or just shot) by the brother of an angry GP next time you return to Rio. You know how GarotaNet works. She WILL find you.

I know many hombre's here have more experience then I in this subject. But I know of one GDP from 4x4 then L( Pauloa, cat tat over her pussy) who retired 2 years ago. She went and got married and now lives happily in Switzerland. Once or twice a year we exchange emails. She did marry a hombre about the same age as her, but I'm pretty sure she's not working anymore. Seems like all of them would retire at some time.

Blue,

If she was happily married and not working anymore, she wouldn't be emailing you. Not to say she's doing programs right now, but from what I've seen over the years, her GdP status is simply inactive at the moment, not retired. When she gets divorced, which will eventually happen, and she moves back to Brssil, which will eventually happen, she'll be back on the program within three days of returning.

Well there is one SPECIAL lady I have never lied to and I am completly honest with but she is the exception

Cool, so she's the one who'll get shived when one of the other NON-SPECIAL ladies comes after your ass.

Blue-

If she lives in Lugano/Canton Ticino, there is a high probability that she is still on the program and is lying about being married. I have visited Lugano and it is crawling with Brasileras working in the apartment/bars there.

Catocony has a strong point.

There's always the thinking that "my girl is different from the others".

As difficult as it can be, it's good to keep the right perspective on the P4P garotas.

They can be great salespeople (selling themselves with their superior acting skills) and we are their customers (pretending that the garotas are our girlfriend / future wife that we will try to rescue from their p4p life.)

Continue to enjoy the life.

CFK-My buddy Don Gringo used to do the same thing to me all the time. 2-3 GF's show up, he looks at me and says "hey bro, run interference for me will ya"? Bastard used to get away with it all the time too (and I got some pretty good action out of it as well).
Moral: Don't kick a gift horse in the mouth, just stay away from it's hooves.....LOL

Sandman.you can be my wingman anytime
ps:
CFK still dosn't get it, give him a few lessons will ya.

Sandman,

I seem to remember a time he didn't get away with it, and I'm sure you'll always remember that time as well

GDP's as girlfriends will work, as long as you prepared for her endless financial crisis, needing money for various reasons, and sending money down an endless drain, and that while you are outside Brazil for her to answer the phone telling you "Yes, honey I am going to sleep now" while some guy is lining up fuck her doggie style (I have been that guy lining up a few times :-), and that not matter how much money you give her to stop working - she most likely will not. I do not know how many GDP's that have told me that their boyfriend or finance thinks that they have stopped working when they have not.

So, in a nutshell - if you can honestly play with a wolf and do not honestly believe yours is or will be an angel (or think "she is different"), then go ahead and try (emphasizing "TRY") to pursue a very unlikely long lasting relationship with a GDP, especially if you have some cash burning in your pocket.

Personally I have never tried it, but I have seen many others do and always fail.

Now, as far as playing them and lying, i.e. making them believe you are really interested and want to get serious. Why? The girls follow money and if you are cool, playful, some will hang with you regardless and provide you with good attention. Why have some jealous GDP after you - the GDP network will certainly ensure you will have problems if you play - and it is a one way street. She after all is working and can do whatever the hell she wants, while she tries to keep you just for her!

unless you are bringing them back to the USA, why bother? the smart move is to just let them go. when you go down again, find a new batch of gdp's to play with. but in all honesty, i think if you bring them here, you have a good shot at having a normal life. while they are waiting for the visa and you are in the states, of course they will be out working, and i am sure the guy will be out fucking around too. that's life.

The purpose for stringing them along and playing 2 and 3 a night is
a) If they think you are ripe for milking they will lay it on thick and I have had more then one go overboard trying to satisfy me in bed to this end.
b) overbooking, because gdp's are notorious for no show or inexcuseable late thus have a backup.
All's fair in love and war I am just trying to level the playing field.
That being said, there is always the exception to the rule I do have one VERY SPECIAL "friend" I would never fuck over.

LL are you referring to your wife?

"By Latinalover on Thursday, April 17, 2008 - 09:03 am: Edit

Well there is one SPECIAL lady I have never lied to and I am completly honest with but she is the exception"

Where does she think you are?

LM, Cat, Sandman

I agree wholeheartedly. Having a whore for a girlfriend is like having a walking boat. As for trying to take her "outta the game" - you'd have better luck getting her to stop breathing because that's the ONLY way she'll stop being what she is.

Once they commodify their bodies it becomes a part of them THAT WILL NEVER CHANGE. Many will argue "my girl's different." Uh huh. Don't tell me that unless she's got 3 tits.

"Why have some jealous GDP after you - the GDP network will certainly ensure you will have problems if you play - and it is a one way street"

That double standard can get your dick cut off in some countries. We can't REALLY play "their game" because they hold most of the cards. The only trump we have is we can take our money and use it to fuck OTHER whores. Don't willingly give up your leverage trying to chase better service.

JR

If you bring a whore back to the US you've just transplanted your problem AND compounded it. You'd save money using the Eliot Spitzer mongering model.

E

What the fuck is a walking boat?

A boat is a bottomless hole in the water that you throw all your money into. Extrapolate from there.

The second happiest day of your life is when you buy your first boat, the happiest day of your life is when you sell it!

My Thai girlfreind only works cashire in bar, i send her money every week to pay for our house in Buriram,she is living there with her brother, when i went to Pattaya she said i could not see the house because raining to much in Buriram,
no one understands our love for each other.

CFK: Walking boat? Like having a whore for a girlfriend. It doesn't work!!! DUH!
How the fuck did you ever fly a fucken plane??

LL,

airplanes are like women; sleek, graceful, and respond to a firm but light touch. Agile, yet fragile, it was an easy transition!
And just like women, any careless mistake can be very unforgivng.
CFK

If you are good you can have a gdp fuck you for free and be emotionally attached to you...

I have had an ongoing hook-up, the only thing I bought besides dinner were a few dresses (she did not want me to buy them, I wanted to because I was tired of what she was wearing) and a plane ticket for $300 because I wanted to (she was afraid to fly). She never asked me for a dime. Lied through her teeth, though.

I stopped talking to her because I don't want one, I want seven...and seven different ones each trip.

fly a plane???

you stick it on autopilot, catch a nap, then wake up as you are pulling up to the gate...

HD, Orville & Wilbur would be proud.......

CFK

i'm the only male in the family that didnt become a commercial pilot...

comments like that are the way I can deal with hearing them bitch about working 2 days a week and making well over 100K/yr while I slave away 70 a week for less...

Hdogger,

there is no doubt that it is one of the best jobs in the world! The old saying " I have the best view out of my office window" definitly applies. Deep down every one of us really is thankful for having the opportunity to enjoy one of the most rewarding experiences known to man.

CFK