Every monger has different requirements that may shift within a particular trip or even day by day. This is a discussion board so I welcome the comments. I have posted my pics and brief synopsis: warts and all, and have read the replies. In general, no surprise to me, I feel I am more lenient by 1 point above the norm but in the correct neighborhood. Since non of the photos are naked, I feel comfortable posting them even if Captain-save-a-ho's show the pics to the chicas.

I am not a connoisseur of the BJ so I don't negotiate for it. My main thing is kissing on the mouth. If she doesn't DK, I usually won't maintain wood for long (10 minutes?) even if I am hopped up on ED meds. Normally I like to get to the 'main event'. Chicas get extra points for being accommodating and for enjoying themselves in more than one position.

I do enjoy a skillful BJ as an appetizer. Covered or BB, my criteria for a highly rated BJ are ...

smooth shaft work, sucking more than just the top inch or two of the member.

'corn on the cob' style licking or sucking gets extra point.

good amount of saliva without spilling down to the pubes a plus

not a big fan of sack work, most times it tickles or hurts

the less hand stroking while sucking the better, the mouth should do the work

eye contact gets extra point

not a fan of rapid sucking or 'skull fucking'

an attempt at CIM gets extra point

I am neutral on the 'cheek scraping' or 'hitting the side of the face with the shaft' initiated by the girl, interesting PSE distractions nothing more. Shows what a dirty girl she is?

I rate a session highly if . . .

the girl is accommodating and let's me put her in positions that I enjoy. Some of my favorites are COWGIRL and she is sitting & moving up and down catcher style; she is on her back with legs up around my ears and in DOLPHIN (jejeje) her legs together on her side creating an extra tight opening.

she is naturally lubricated, extra point

she fucks me back

she comes and wants to return the favor

she DOESN'T ask me why I haven't come yet after 5 mins

Maybe I am just weird.

You are weird but you are correct, LOL!