I know these games too well but I only allow them to take place for my benefit, as I often have alternative motives as while. This being, she had a few other girls at her bar I was interested. Moreover, I like to hang out on Soi 7 anyways. Therefore, I didn't mind stopping at her bar, buying a few drinks and playing a few games of pool.....my favorite past time.
I started to hang with Ice off and on for a couple of months and it all seemed pretty good. We had a pretty good understanding. She indicated that she didn't want a boyfriend and I was fine with that. She has two babies by a guy that still lives in Pattaya. The odd thing with this is.....he has full custody of the babies and allows her to visit from time to time. She claimed they have family nites.....where they get together and take the children out to zoo and other places. She also claimed she was considering going to Finland with the guy who just left, but wasn't too sure. Odds are.....this guy is still sponsoring her, but she is trying to play her cards out, as most of them do.
What's odd and always hypocritical with these girls....is the fact that they could openly play the game with you and butterfly at will....but at the same token, appear to get an attitude if they realize you are doing the same thing. Clearly, a double standard but this is Pattaya, love it or leave it! I started to notice how our open and free relationship started to take a turn for the worse.....when she started getting attitudes after realizing I was still seeing other girls on a regular basis. No matter how good you believe you have it.......it usually never last!
As much as we don't want to admit it, when you start seeing a girl for longer periods (months or years)....the condoms eventually disappear. When Ice realized I was banging other girls, she would start insisting on seeing the discarded condom wrappers.....serious!! When she couldn't find a condom wrapper in the garbage, she'll play this “angel” role.....and act as if she is the only girl in Pattaya disease free....further insisting that I always wear condoms with other girls.
No problem with this attitude....but I started to realize our relationship was taking a turn for the worse and drama was about to unfold. Believe it or not, I’ve become better in dealing with drama. A few times she would call me.....and the first words out of her mouth would be.......”you have girl or not”. If I stated yes, she would immediately get an attitude and hang up the phone. Curiously....I knew for a fact that she was still seeing other guys....but somehow, this never counts in Pattaya!!
Trust me......don't ever try to figure out these bar girls in Pattaya! You will drive yourself crazy. I learned this a long time ago. Just try to go with the flow and enjoy yourself. If you see drama coming....avoid it all costs and move on. This is the best advice I can give to any newbie. But often....sometimes you have to learn for yourself. The problem I have is.....I can't afford to continue to change girls every day, as I’ve been staying here for longer periods of time. The longer you stay, the more chances you often to repeat with a few girls. You are obviously bypassing the “the 3 day rule”.....and this is when drama begins. Therefore, I am learning to walk delicate lines to maintain my sanity here. Furthermore, you are human....and you will get feelings with some of these girls on some occasions, unless you are a cold hearted son of a gun. Obviously, any emotional component will further complicate matters.
Back on the subject of Ice, I happen to stop by Tequila Reef on Soi 7 on this particular evening and was eating with a friend of mine. Thereafter, I decided to stop by Ice's bar on Soi 7. It was close to 10 pm and I knew she usually doesn't arrive to the bar until after 9 most days. I park my bike and enter her bar. I didn't immediately notice her, but I realized sometimes she is in the back or upstairs getting made up, eating or on the internet. The girls know me at the bar and asked if I wanted a drink or not. One of her friends indicated that she believed Ice was enroute but she would call her and let her know I was at the bar. I eventually realized they started to cover for her....and make up subtle reasons for her late arrival. The girls at these bars are real good at covering up for the co-workers.....especially when they know she is with another guy. I kind of sensed that she was out with another guy but kind of thought it was a perfect opportunity to get in good with one of her friends at the bar. Midway thru my drink......her friend tells me that Ice was with her kids and probably won't make it to the bar until later that nite. I knew she wasn't with her babies this late at night.....but I played into their little story. Her friend asked me if I wanted to play a game of pool, as Ice apparently instructed her to keep me company for a while. This also the same friend that came to my condo with Ice in the past.
I played like I was kind of hurt....but inside, I was thinking about how this maybe a good opportunity to get with her. I've been trying to get at her for a while now and this just may be my lucky nite....LOL!! After a couple of tequila shots with her, she started getting real friendly. Ice eventually called back and stated she had to stay with her babies and she would call me tomorrow. Fine with me I thought!! Little did she know, her friend was a devil in disguise. And to my surprise, the tequila started to bring out some demons. She started whispering in my ear.....that Ice was actually with another guy that just arrived in town. She indicated that the guy had big money and wanted Ice to escort him around town and search for a house to buy.
Again, I acted surprised and hurt......although I already knew she was with another guy. We continued to have drinks and I inquired about her thai boyfriend. “Oh.....we have big fight and I not want to see him anymore...”, she claimed. But reading between the lines.....this may really mean that she is still with him but indicating that the door is open for a little butterflying and fun on the side...LOL!
Now....I knew if I wanted to get to first base with her....I had to get out of this bar, as she is not going to let me make any real moves on her. She will not show face to her friend at the bar, although her friend is out with another man.....cuz that doesn't count with them. Therefore, I realized I was going to have to be real delicate on how I approach her. I was sure she was into me......by the way she spilled the beans on her friend and her thai boyfriend and how we flirted in the past. I knew the door was half way open.
I proposed we go to walking street for a drink or two......further indicating to her that Ice told her to keep me company. I had her admit that Ice already gave her the okay and that it shouldn't be problem, right? I jokingly asked this!......With a slight hesitation, she agreed that it couldn't hurt and admitted her friend was okay with her keeping me company at the bar.
I knew in my mind.....once I got her out of that bar and on walking street.....and get a few more drinks in her....GAME ON!! ….I'll have her in my room before the nite was over...guaranteed!! I agree to pay her bar fine and we decide to hit Insomnia and smoke some 'shee saw'. This shit usually really fucks me up......and I also knew it would completely relax her as while.
We hit a couple of spots on walking street.....and my plan appeared to be working! She was joking, laughing and flirting with me the whole nite. At the same time.....I am thinking about how I was going to be fucking her real soon. It was something about her innocent face that had me really turned on.
Photos: Friend - Club Insomnia 20 21
Well.....I am off to perfect start and I am on cloud nine.....then my cell starts to ring! It's Ice! She calls several times but I don't answer. Her friend jokes that she knows I am a big butterfly and she doesn't mind if I answer my phone. I tell her.....”no problem, just friend asking where I am”.
Within ten minutes, her phone starts to go off.....but she decides to answer it. With a devil's grin, she admits that it's Ice. I knew from this minute, she was going to crash our party. I couldn't figure it out.....what the fuck is she doing calling, especially if she was with a guy that just arrived in town. I thought by now the guy was fucking the shit out of her, or least keeping her occupied for the nite. She talks in thai with her for a minute or so.......then she hands me the phone!
Shit.....this is all I need, I thought!.....I answered the phone with hesitation.
”Why u not answer phone?”, she instantly blurts out!
“I am sorry baby.....I not hear phone.......where r u?....are you still with your babies?”, I ask, while trying to change the subject and flip the script.
“No....my babies sleep now, I come see you now, okay?”, she stated with a little attitude.
After she hangs up the phone, me and her friend realized we were just busted. I felt like my dreams were just shattered for the nite......I knew this nite was too good to be true. I figured at this point.....I got nothing to lose....I am going to put all my cards on the table and try to salvage this situation as best as I can. Yes, I could have put my foot down and blew off Ice, but I was certain her friend would not go with me under those circumstances. I wanted her friend, if not that nite……maybe another nite.
I tell her friend......”listen, baby.....I like you, I not lie......I liked you the first time I seen you with your friend”, I innocently plead with her.
She looks at me in a curious way, but appeared to be somewhat interested in what I was saying. Then I tell her....”come on, u know your friend is playing on me, right?”. She doesn't answer but kind of grins a little bit, as if she agrees with me.
I ask her to give me her number and proposed we hook up some other nite in private. I convinced her that her friend will never know anything.....we'll keep it a secret. I told her, “trust me......me and your friend fight all the time and I think she not want to see me much longer!”
She continues to listen to me and I kind of noticed she was hanging on to every word I said. She pulls out of her phone, but I could tell she was real uncomfortable. I realized this.....so I continued to lay it on real thick. “U R so sexy......I think me and you can have a lot of fun together”.
“Okay.....but you cannot tell my friend I give you my number, right....I think she like u too much...and we have big problem if she know”, she states. She then asks me to put my number in her phone......and under the table, I shake my hand and thought to myself, “SCORED”...LOL!
Shortly thereafter, Ice arrives.......and it was obvious that everyone felt a little awkward, but we played it off. I kind of felt her friend was just as disappointed as me. This next picture....tells it all....
LOL!.....some pictures need no explaining…
Photo: Ice/Friend - Club Insomnia 22
Nonetheless, she cheers up for the next picture, as I ask them to give me the peace sign and smile....her turn will come soon...LOL!!
Photo: Ice/Friend - Club Insomnia 23
Obviously, I went home with Ice that evening. I kind of felt like I was getting sloppy seconds, as I knew this other guy probably just finished fucking her. He just arrived in town and more than likely was horny. Curiously, she continued to stick by her story that she was out with her kid, but I knew the truth and didn’t care. I can’t lie, I always enjoyed fucking her little petite tight body.
I swear it is a double standard with these girls. She even tried to get me to admit that I wanted to go with her friend.....but I played the same role she was and insisted that we were just hanging out. I claimed I could never fuck her friends. Fuck it, I thought......we can play the same mind games as they do...LOL!!
As you guys probably already know, it's just a matter of time before I hit her friend. Anyways, the friend factor was pretty much already eliminated. It is not a question if she’s game or not, it's just getting her at the right place....at the right time!!
Moving on to another delicate subject......I have to tell you guys about another crazy nite I had with my partners at the MIXX club. We all have heard these horror stories over and over and over! Nonetheless, they continue to happen. Most of the ex-pats and veterans know these horror stories all too well......however, some newbies usually have to learn the hard way.
We all realize that getting into altercations with the Thai guys....is clearly not worth it! On so many occasions, guys have a few too many drinks and tend to push the issues and it always end with the same outcome. The farang newbie is literally pounded to death by a gang of thai guys.
I have been coming to Thailand for close to (7) years now....and I’ve never been into any fight type of fight with thai guys. However, I must admit......I had a few incidents with bar girls....LOL!!
Contrary to what some believe, I believe the thai guys pretty much tend to respect us in the bars and discos. I usually treat them with respect and, for the most part, I tend to believe they will treat you with respect in turn. Sure, I'll get a few jealous dirty looks from time to time but it usually never amounts to anything. I realize that this is their Country and I will give them the benefit of the doubt. Realizing.....these guys are watching us spend money like water, fucking their girls and probably very envy of us OR laughing about how may get taken as fools. On the same token......we all seen some real stunners with thai guys as while and I am sure they are not paying what we are.
But, if I could give out any advice to newbies......I would tell them to avoid these fights as best as they can. Swallow your pride.....and just walk away. You have to realize.....these thai guys will protect their own! You can probably knock out one or two......but you can't fight a whole army. And trust me when I say this......if a thai guy sees one of his own in a fight, he will help out....regardless if he knows the thai guy or not. Every motor bike taxi thai guy in the immediate area will be there in literally seconds. I can’t fully explain it, but maybe it’s a good manner from them to release all their built up jealousy with us.
On this one night, my partner's black friend from Iraq is out with us and he had a few drinks in him and appeared to be in an agitated mood. It was obvious he was trying to pick a fight with everyone he seen. Now.....this was not your ordinary guy. This guy was literally 7 feet tall, stocky and very well built......not someone I would want to pick a fight with. We kept trying to cool him down.....but it was obvious, this guy was headed for trouble.
We enter into the MIXX and we are walking thru the crowd. A girl sees him and stops him and states, “I like you”. I have to admit, she was a little bit on the heavy side and not too attractive. My black friend looks at her and states, “damm girl.....you ugly as hell”, and attempts to keep walking. However, the girl was obviously hurt by what he said and throws her drink right into his face. He turns around and throws his drink at her as while. I believe the alcohol must have gotten right into her eyes or something, as she starts to bend over, starts to cry.....then creates a huge scene!.
Thereafter, she runs to one of the thai security in MIXX and from my understanding, she claimed the black guy hit her. This is when all hell breaks loose. They start flashing their lights on him.......and then all of sudden, all of the thai security in MIXX start surrounding him. He starts to talk shit with them and they advise him that he had leave the club and then start to escort him out. He continued to talk shit....and we continued to try to calm him down, but our efforts were fruitless. He asked us to stay put, as he didn't want to rude our evening and stated he was going to meet us later at a spot he usually hangs out on Walking street.
I felt the situation was going to turn to worst and told my partner that we should leave with him. My partner insisted that he will be okay and wanted to stay a little while longer. I agree with hesitation. Moments later.....I convinced him otherwise, I just had a bad feeling about this.
I did not see what took place outside.....but a bunch of bystanders filled us in. Apparently, as he was being escorted down the escalators at the MIXX, he continued to talk shit with the thai security guys and next minute, one of them took a flash light club and hit him on the back of the head, from behind. These guys will always fight dirty. Mind you, any other guy would have probably been knocked out by this, but as I previously stated, this wasn't your ordinary guy. He was huge. From my understanding, it didn't knock him out and he turned around and hit the thai security guy and knocked him out cold.
Thereafter, two other thai security guys went at him and he literally knocked them out as while. As expected, almost every thai guy in the vicinity came to the thai guys' rescue. They supposedly came with everything they could find and managed to get him on the ground....and at this point, they were literally trying to kill him and he was clearly outnumbered.
Luckily, a bunch of other black guys were in the area (army or navy) and decided to try to break up the fight, as they realized it was not a fair fight and that they were clearly trying to kill this guy. I have to admit, I rarely seen this.......cuz usually, everyone keeps their distance and does not intervene. As the black guys are trying to break up the fight......the police start arriving and the thai guys start to run in different directions.
We catch up to him.....while the police were still interviewing him. He had a gash on top and back of his head......and his shirt was pretty bloody. Nonetheless, he was still standing and bragging about the fact that they couldn't finish the job and that he knocked out a few…. before he went down.
He admitted that he couldn't get them all and was confused as to where all the thai guys came from. He repeatedly joked that he wasn't going out like a punk....and that he didn't go down easy. It should be noted in his favor, the first thai guy he knocked out, apparently did not recover too good. He was still was on the ground unconscious when we left the MIXX.
Despite the outcome of this incident.....I rarely seen this happen. The majority of the fights I seen in the past, the farang is usually hauled off to the hospital unconscious, after nearly been beaten to death.
Notably, the thai girl he was with convinced him to go to the hospital and get his wounds treated. We stopped by his hotel the next day and he was pretty swollen.....but still talking shit. I have to give credit to the thai girl that was with him though......as literally got hit on several occasions trying to save him. She actually stayed with him for the rest of the trip.
I must say again, fellows......be careful out there. We are here to party and fuck beautiful girls......not fight.
Stay tuned......as I have a crazy nite with a bunch of girls from Babydolls Go Go!!!
Mr Pimp
aka “Priew”
