2001/09 Dear Hunter - Labor Day Weekend 2001

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By Dear_Hunter on Friday, September 07, 2001 - 07:03 pm:  Edit

Spent three fantastic days in BT. Can't (or won't) give up any info on my novia, but my buddies did have some rather good times with a couple of the regulars and one new girl.
Unlike the girls in TJ, the girls I am about to write about want their names mentioned on the internet. They know there are places on the net that talk about BT, they just don't know where. I am known as a computer guy because I gave a computer to my girl and her kids a couple of years ago. When Ruth found out about this she even asked if I knew she was written up on the net. She said she got business from it. I have even had girls I have not been to room with ask me to write about them to help them out.
On the last trip down, one of my buds did an all-nighter with Lilly from Tamykos. He had a great time with her and will repeat but said one night out the weekend is enough as she is quite manic. We went out to eat and dance, and she laughed and talked all night. In the room my bud said she was very professional and tried very hard to please. She is tall, slim, black-headed, fairly attractive, thirty or so. One of her favorite lines is " I'm not crazy, just happy." Probably worth checkig out.
On this trip my bud did an all-nighter with Brenda form Papaguayos. This girl is very easily recognized. She is very short, black headed, very pretty, usually wears white. But her trademark are white boots that come above her knees. It was my girls birthday and we spent a night at the Santa Maria. Brenda and my girl made an outstanding pair of lookers in the restuarant there. In the room my bud says she was a tiger, worked very hard to please him, and eveidently enjoyed herself also. (This bit of info passed on to me by my girl later.) My bud said he will try to repeat with her on our next trip.
Met a new friend on this trip. He has a very different kind of a job but since he may join our board I will leave it to him to tell about it. He met a new girl at Tamykos and was quite smitten with her.He made several trips to the room with her over several days and was very happy with her performance. Claims to be twenty two, dish-water blonde, maybe 5'4", very attractrive. Also quite a flirt. Her name is Angelica. They were suppose to hook up for a day trip and possible all-nighter but she slept thru it. This girl might be fun, but I have a feeling she won't be along timer.
I have some more to add, but it may be several days. Good times.
Dear Hunter

By Rodetrip on Monday, September 10, 2001 - 06:59 pm:  Edit

DH:

Glad you had a good time, but didn't you feel a little weird taking some whores to the Restaurant at Santa Maria? That's a really upscale place, even by US standards. I have done the same myself, but almost never with another Gringo and another whore. It's too obvious from the way they dress and the usual difference in age/appearance, etc. I also seem to think it's disrespectful of myself to take the whores in there knowing full well there's plenty of families (with kids) there celebrating various events. I'm net lecturing, just letting you know the vibes I get in the place with obvious whores. Maybe your gals had a little more class than some I have taken in there. Yes, they're all whores to me. There's very, very few I would respect enough to call a Lady. Hell I don't want to marry them, only want to fuck them all I can and have some fun doing it.

By Balam on Monday, September 10, 2001 - 09:58 pm:  Edit

Rodetrip, I haven't been to the Santa Maria but I too have found that the chica's age, style, and ESPECIALLY the fact that she's with an older and more affluent Norteamericano, can make it VERY clear to others the nature of the relationship; and if you run into people who aren't OK with it--or if YOU are somehow not ok with being seen in that position--well it can get uncomfortable.

But the part about not respecting them--geez I really have to part company with you there. I DO see differences in style/culture/life experience/etc., and maybe I would be nervous about marrying someone so different from me like that. But I honestly DON'T see any deep-down difference between them and any other women in character or in human worth. Yeah there's the good and the not-so-good among them, but ditto Vassar sorority girls or Daughters of the American Revolution or whatever you're into. It really grates on me too hear the word "whores" for these girls--you can say "well, that's what they ARE." but the word "whore" doesn't ONLY describe 'selling sex'--which IS what they're doing--"whore" ALSO carries a lot of gratuitious negativity and I don't think they deserve that negativity any more than any other random group of people does, and probably less: These girls hold a special place in MY heart because they practice the ULTIMATE "helping profession." I get a lot out of that help and am grateful. I'm also thinking of how we clients, too, are handed a lot of the same gratuitious negativity as they are, and that makes me feel some solidarity with them--like if I'm dumping on them I'm dumping on myself too. I'm sorry if it sounds like I'm coming down heavy, but this board is a good place to air the issues and I wanted to say my piece.

By Rodetrip on Tuesday, September 11, 2001 - 04:20 pm:  Edit

No offense taken. Each situation is what we make of it or what we want to make it.

It's only a sex thing for me (that's obvious).


And we all need to admit what we do is not a very good thing. If most of us had other alternatives I am sure we would use them (or maybe even expoloit the situation much like we do in Mexico). I certainly admit it. (no big news there).

Fortunately some people are able to do what we do and turn it on/off. Some others are not that fortunate. That's all they live for. It's really sad.

Myself, I enjoy getting a little bit of strange pussy. The variety is great. Price is even better. We all pay one way or another. (Okay, is it obvious women are good for one thing to me ?). But my Mother's a Saint (HA!)

take care and watch out for Middle Eastern towel heads.

rodetrip

By Balam on Tuesday, September 11, 2001 - 07:14 pm:  Edit

Sounds then like you're an Equal Opportunity Employer, and that's cool!

As for whether mongering is a good thing or not, well, I don't feel bad toward THEM as long as I feel like I'm occasionally making someone's evening a little brighter than it would have been if I hadn't come along. And bad toward MYSELF? Well there I truly agree that it's "whatever you make of it." Right now it works for me 'cause I know I NEED the variety and the exploration, and I'd just never pull that off among the civvies. Down the road who knows...

Take care too and hope we all can get across the border (AND BACK) now that so much hell is loose.

By Dear_Hunter on Sunday, September 23, 2001 - 02:05 am:  Edit

Rodetrip,
The only thing wrong with your post is all the assumptions you make.

The first thing is who said anything about age difference. I'm in my low forties and my girl, out of respect for her,I will only say is in her thirties. There was not much more difference in the other couple either.

My gal also knows how to dress whether she's working, we are at MacDonalds, or we are at the Santa Maria. I don't think children have a clue what my gal and I are doing and, with no disrespect meant to anyone, I couldn't care less what their parents think. I would sit down with the pope with this woman without thinking anything about it. The only place I have felt out of place with her is at church because "I" don't belong there.

My gal's job begins when she walks through the doors of her club and ends when she goes walks out them. She works 15-20 hours a week. She doesn't do all-nighters away from the club. ( I am the obvious exception for reasons I won't go into here.) Her friends don't even ask her to go any more when they need another girl because she always says no. I do lots of work around her house but have never stayed there at night because she thinks it would be disrepectful to her boys and brother. And yes, all her family but her youngest son knows her job. So you see, the other 150 or so hours a week she is a daughter, sister, mother, aunt,woman. If you feel the need to label her, pick one of these please. Respect is something that I feel is earned not just given, and I respect no one any more than this LADY.

Mexico is just one of many options I have for entertainment, relaxation, therapy, or whatever I do when I'm not at work. I make use of all them. And I will never admit what I do in Mexico is wrong and my many friends in Mexico wouldn't think so either. If you have "concious" problems in Boystown or else where in Nuevo Laredo, knock'em out. They got to be cutting into your good times. But please don't think these feelings are widespread among the other hobbiest, because after 28 years of partying along the boarder with hundreds of different people I can honestly tell you they're not.

None of this was flame. It's just to show how we all approach our boarder fun with different attitudes and we what each feel individually cannot be attributed to our group as a whole. It just won't fit everybody.

I am hoping to make the October 12th weekend, and if I can, several of the rounds are on me. Good times.

Dear Hunter


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