As I was planning this trip. it promised to be unlike any trip I had made to Thailand since the early 90's when I found myself shuttling back and forth trying to help secure the fiancee visa for my future wife. I was trying to do the whole thing myself without a lawyer or other help. Not the wisest thing to do , especially on the Thailand end as the US embassy is in no way Thai national friendly. Any way this is not about my ex wife. I was to spend vitually all the trip with one girl, someone I had come to think of as my new wife already.

Since my last trip in March, Da and I had been in constant contact. 3-4 phone calls per week and frequent e mails. Over the distance everything seemed to be going great. Da spoke of herself as my wife and we seemed to be making plans for the long term future. She constantly told me how much she loved me and missed me. She could not wait until I arrived and wanted me to find a way to live there full time.She spoke of having her 2 year old daughter stay with us for a sizeable portion of this trip so I could get to know her and vise versa. Da said her daughter had never met a farang and was afraid of farang. Obviously we needed to work through this obstacle. We were planning on going to Chaiyaphum to meet her extended family and introduce me as her husband. All seemed to be perfect as far as I was concerned.

I landed at Don Muang airport after an uneventful flight where once again I slept most of the way with the aid of a few Ambien. Da was to pick me up at the airport. A big advantage to first class travel with Thai Airlines is they escort you thru immigration quickly and my single peice of luggage was the first off the plane. I was quickly walking through the line of people waiting to meet friends and relatives as well as the vulture tour operators looking for suckers to fleece. Anyone who has been to LOS knows exactly what I am talking about. I got to the end of the line and no Da to be seen. I tried to find a place to wait and be out of the way. I must have been approached by 50 people asking if I needed a taxi, hotel, tour guide, young girl for the night , and lord knows what else. It's like a shark feeding frenzy when these lowlifes see a farang who looks like he does not know where he is going or has no one to meet him. I had to laugh as I watched old dudes and other single farang males being met by oh so obvious bar girls , hugged and greeted as if they were long lost lovers. Some of them had been dropped off by Thai guys who quickly disappeared. My cell phone had an expired SIM card and of course none of the pay phones in the lobby worked so I could not call Da. I forgot I had her old cell number in my phone anyway so I could not contact her. I waited about 45 minutes, and as I waited I saw a Thai girl I know from LA who was apparently on the same flight as me. She has a huge house just north of BKK and had a freind meeting her. She offered me a ride to my hotel, but just then Da showed up. She said she was circling the parking lot for an hour and that there was no where to park. When we walked to her car I saw she was telling the truth. The lot was a mess and she had actually parked in an illegal spot as she was getting desperate.On the ride to Sukhumvit there was zero traffic and Da drives as fast as the mad taxi drivers so we were at President Solitaire in no time. No time to unpack, we took a quick shower together and soon were making up for lost time. Everything seemed perfect. The next morning we again got re-aquainted and took a walk to Foodland to stock up on essentials. Da is a great cook and enjoys cooking so she likes a full refrigerator. In fact I had planned on staying at Sathorn Ascott on Sathorn road as it was a brand new serviced appt. building and looked great on the web site. Da checked it out first and said she did not want to stay there as " no Foodland " nearby. It would be a hassle even with a car to get groceries and supplies so back at PS we were.

There was an Hombre who said he found pics of girls cooking sexy and wanted more. I cannot remember his handle. These pics are for him !

Photos: Cooking 01 02 03 04 05

Our first few days were great but there seemed something different about Da. She was not as passionate as before and somehow seemed a bit distant. When I asked her about it she said she was just worried about her daughter and was getting some trouble from the father of her daughter again about custody. Seemed to be reasonable. She told me her ex boyfriend now had her daughter with him, and she would not be staying with us this trip. Good news, bad news for sure. If she stayed with us we would also have Da's aunt with us so we could go out whenever we wanted and have someone to care for the girl.This would put a serious damper on nocturnal exercises . Even though my room at PS was a suite, the doors between the bedroom and living room were not meant for privacy. Sliding glass door and not at all soundproof. So I guess mostly good news for me. We were able to come and go as we pleased and had a few great nights at Coliseum and Hollywood disco. She was still playful and was great in bed but still something was missing.

Photos: Chang 06 07 08

A Thai girl can never have too many cell phones. I took these while Da was not aware. Transferring numbers between phones.

Photos: Cell Phone 09 10 11

As I had posted when I was there we had made plans to go to Isaan . Da's Aunt owns a huge tour bus company and agreed to let us use one of her minivans for the trip. We were travelling with Da's father and his new wife. her sister and another Thai couple so a regular car was way too small. No charge for the van so seemed like a great plan. The night before we were to leave Da got a call that the van was involved in a serious accident in Kanchanaburi and was undrivable. Her aunt wanted Da's father to go and help with the driver and take care of getting the van fixed. I decided to tag along as Da was going with him- she takes care of some of her Aunt's business as well it seems. We left at 2 AM - I slept most of the way there. Indeed the van was a mess. The driver fell asleep at the wheel and wrapped the van around a tree. He had a broken leg and was in the hospital. Fortunately he apparently was not piss tested as he was hopped up on Ya Ba as are most truck and bus drivers in Thailand. Even Da's father admitted he took it frequently. Their shedules are such that they drive for extended periods through the night and without aid would fall asleep even more often. As it is this is a not uncommon event in Thailand. You see constant stories on TV and in papers of truck and bus crashes. The roads in LOS are anything but safe. But, I digress. In the evening Da told me she would be staying in Kanchanaburi with her Dad for 2-3 more days and said I should go back to BKK so my trip was not ruined. Nothing to do there for sure. I gladly hopped on another one of her Aunt's busses and went back to civilisation. My first night back I decided to go to Patpong and see an old friend Pa who worked as a manager at King II. I told Da where I was going and she said no problem, just do not BF a girl. Well that was my intent but there were a whole lot of young Isaan spinners there that night and my freind Pa kept saying - just one night ST " No problem ". Famous Thai words indeed. My little head won the argument and I barfined a little cutie named Bee. We went to one of what seems like a hundred ST hotels in Patpong and had a great session over a couple of hours. I did not want to bring her back to PS as all the door guys and security know Da very well by now and there was no way I would not be outed. ST was all I wanted in any event and I was satisfied. This little event remained a secret thru the trip and was never a problem. The next day I got a SMS from Don Marco that he was in town and wanted to hook up. He also said that Walkindude was in town and we would hook up at Long Gun in Soi Cowboy. This has never been a favorite bar of mine- not because of the talent but the bar has to be the worst layout of any bar in BKK. The seats are built for midgets. At 6' 6" my legs come nowhere near fitting behind those silly tables and benches in that bar. Da called several times to ask what I was doing and I told her I was meeting 2 friends at Soi Cowboy. Again no problem. The three of us finally met after several phone calls. Turns out we were sitting on opposite sides of the bar and did not see each other. had never met before . I was getting very friendly with three little service girls by then and they were pissed when I left to go to the other side. They cannot leave their posts unless bf'd and I had no intention to do that. In most bars I like to play with the service girls more than the dancers. In general they are a lot more fun and appreciate the attention more than the dancers. I rarely barfine any of them however. My barfines are usually dancers as for the most part they are better sexually. That being said however. one of my all time best barfines was a Hello Girl from Hollywood carrousel 3-4 years ago named Muay. Perfect body , great tits, and one of the tightest pussies I have ever experienced. Wish I could find her again. She quit Nana and worked the night shift at Golden Beer bar briefly. Likely taken away by some farang- lucky guy if he did. Again I am getting sidetracked.

We finally hooked up and decided to move on. Had a blast with both guys off and on during the remainder of the trip. Both guys are super friendly and great to hang with. I love it when there is no hassle about checks. We kept one check at most places and had to wrestle with each other over who was quickest to pay the tab. I would recommend to any other hombre to grab the chance to meet either of these guys.Walkingdude is laid back and has the perfect personality for fitting in in Thailand. Don Marco has some kind of pheremone thing going and attracts Thai pooying like a turd attracts flies-- may not be the best analogy but works.

Enough ass kissing --we sampled several bars in SC - none of them with much to look at. DM said he had seen many cuties at Dollhouse 2 nights prior so we headed over there. Slim pickins indeed. Either everyone barfined already or he had been in an altered state. With the useless 1AM closing time we were getting to the deadline for go go action so we quickly hopped over to Nana. Walkingdude said he had a rendevous planned with a dancer at Rainbow II around midnight so we headed first to Hollywood Carrousel to check out the talent. This has become one of the better bars in Nana in terms of consistent talent. There were indeed quite a few girls in the doable category and above but I was not hunting that night. I should have remembered that Da has a lot of friends in Hollywood. but it did not cross my mind as I was behaving myself and only talking with the girls. There was a girl named Wan dancing above us. Wan means sweet in Thai so I asked her in Thai if her pussy was Wan as well. She and her friends broke up and we flirted for a while-- she was very good looking but I was not buying that night. DM and Walkingdude were appropriately mauling several pooying but I was on good behaviour. Eventually we headed for Rainbow II which used to be one of my favs but is now Little Tokyo. 90 % of the crowd was Yippun, smokin like their lives depended on creating huge clouds to hide in . There was literally no where to sit, but they of course wave you in and cram you into a small section where you have little or no room to sit down. WD was met by his companion for the evening who brought several friends with her. One was older and plumper than my taste runs to so of course she latched on to me. It took some pretty rude behaviour to get her to realize I was in no way interested. Another quickly took her place and while she was very attractive I was not to be tempted this night.She sat on my lap the rest of the night and did lap dances that would put the $20 per song garbage that the girls in the US do to shame. I love having a spinner in a g string and tiny bikini top grinding away on my lap- what's not to like ? She was doing her best to break down my resistance and almost got me. I was determined to remain celibate that night though as I thought Da was coming back the next morning.My little sweetie put in enough effort though that I did pay her BF and gave her a bit of " taxi " money in appreciation. She was thrilled to say the least. The easiest money she has ever earned. I have done that fairly frequently over the years if a girl sits with me for quite a while and I have no intention of taking her back to hotel. It certainly makes you popular when you return. The girls see what you did and word spreads quickly in those bars.

As I said, Da has many friends in Hollywood and the next morning I get a phone call from Da wanting to know why I took a girl out of the bar with me. I had done no such thing-- at least that night-- and I asked her who told her I had a girl.She kept saying her friends told her I was at Nana Plaza and I had told her I was going to Soi Cowboy. She admitted she was not told I barfined anyone but she was sure I did, When I asked how she could be sure all she would say was that I told her I was at Soi Cowboy but really went to Nana so I must be hiding something. Now that kind of logic is hard to argue against and I got no where. I kept assuring her I was only sitting in the bars and had taken no one out but she would not believe me. She told me she was back in Bangkok but she had no intention of coming back to see me. She said she had gone to the hotel last night and the door guy told her I went to Soi Cowboy. Big deal, I had already told her that I was going and she did not tell me she was coming back that night, but she tried to make it sound like I was cheating on her and should have been there when she showed up. She said she wanted to surprise me even though she knew already I was not there. None of this was making sense. She said she might go back to Chaiyaphum by herself for a few days and I could do whatever I wanted-- she did not care. We were now playing big time games, either she cared or she didn't she could not have it both ways. I asked her why if she did not care was she so upset about whether or not I had a girl last night. This went on for quite a while and without getting into a lot of personal stuff , I finally steered the talk back to what I percieved was the real problem. There was a distinct difference in her behaviour and I believed she had not explianed it adequately. There was a lot more to it than her daughter obviously. She finally admitted that she was not sure she loved me enough to commit to a long term relationship. Said she liked me and cared a lot for me but was not sure about her love. Now this was 180 degreees away from all her e mail and talk over the phone. I asked her if all she cared about was the money I had been sending her since my last visit.She denied that she had ever played me for money. I had to believe her as she had never asked for the money although you could argue that a smart girl would play the game well enough to get the farang to think it was his idea in the first place. I did not think she would play that game for a year and a half with no money coming in without some feeling that she loved me but who knows ?? She told me I did not need to send her another baht but she wanted to stay friends. Basically I told her that there were about 5,000 pooying in Thailand who wanted to be my friend and if that was all she wanted it was best if we said goodbye. After the emotion I had invested, there was no way I could think of her as only a friend. She said that maybe she would come to love me more as we spent time together , but I was not buying that.

With those events unfolding I quickly packed a small bag - called for a taxi and headed for Pattaya without telling Da. Don Marco was already down there and I was heading to meet him to make up for lost time and maybe a little revenge ?? It certainly got Da's attention as I got at least 50-60 phone calls and SMSs over the next two days from her.

Will continue the sad saga later -- if anyone wants to hear more of my pathetic tale.

master khun-- keep it comin'!

Work sidetracked me this week, so my pattaya report is still in the works...

-dm

p.s. Long Gun seating was mighty uncomfortable for my 5'11 frame and short legs-- I can only imagine what it's like when yur 6'6" ;)

DM

Work ??? Thought you just worked when the whim grabbed you ?
Guess you gotta make up for several 3 week absences during the time you agree to hang at work eh ? Damn I wish I could turn around and go again as quick as you , but my partners would put out a contract on me for sure.

Look forward to your continuing adventures as well. OH to be lounging in Soi 6 again. My mamasan misses me so much I'm sure.

KM, sorry to hear about Da, it's definitely her loss for sure. I've never had a serious relationship per se with a Thai girl, but in my dabbling here and in LOS, I know how adept they are with the games and all. Their SA and LATINA counterparts can't hold a candle to them in the gamesmanship thing.

Anyway, thanks for the update and sharing your personal story, it definitely sounds like you had a great time in LOS otherwise. Then again, it's pretty hard not to have alot of fun. I wish we could reconcile our schedules so that we can all be in LOS at together.

Wow...this brings back some bad memories from my trip a couple of years ago during Songkran. I didnt know she had a kid too. The only difference is that I made a trip to the Philippines instead of Pattaya...I should have stayed in Pattaya. I have a ton of questions and lots of potential answers but I will wait to hear the saga play out if you are going to post it...if not, I'll ask in private.

KM, this was rather gut-wrenching just to read, can't imagine the emotions that must have been involved living through it. Of course I always think guys are happier when they're back chasing tail, but that may just be my personal feelings about relationships coming through.

It takes real BALLS to talk about such intimate details on this board. Thanks for sharing your situation.

KM...it does take a lot of guts to share as much as you have about this experience. Just wanted to wish you all the best.

Solid

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Photos integrated.

Khun_mor. Sorry about your story. Easy to feel bad. However, if you enjoyed your time with DA, view it as a lesson. So many of us have made this lessos. If the long run, it might help you keep you head at a different place in the future.

Good luck, and don't feel so bad.

MM

KM: Good report and a good lesson, at least for me, to see how a more seasoned pro handles that sort of thing. As you've pointed out before, just that bottleneck entrance to NEP is bust-city --hard get in or out without being spotted.

I would like to hear more about your trip. It never occurred to me that bus travel in Thailand was at all hazardous until I saw your post re: yaba on the chat board. Wow.

Khun Mor,

I am sorry to read that your emotional investment has taken a bad turn. Like Blazers I think I can guess what is coming next, but my guesses are often wrong.

I also did not care for the Long Gun the one time I was there. My 5'8" frame doesn't sit well in those seats. The biggest problem with the place IMNSHO is that the layout just isn't good for interacting with the girls. Sucks in fact. Now the place across the street Tilac (I believe) has a great layout for chatting up the girls.

I leave for LOS next Saturday. I started packing today and I only have carry-on. Hope to run into you there some time. Again sorry about the situation with Da. Hope the conclusion of this story, which I look forward to, is not bad to the point that it clouds your better memories of her.

You have been a good friend to a little known virtual identity with your advice and I wish you well this Sunday.

G

Hey ----the upside is I cannot count how many PMs I have gotten the past 2 years asking for Da's phone number or where she could be found. Without her most recent farang ATM she may well be forced to go back into the game to afford her current lifestyle. Certainly her investment in her bus company will not pay her bills. All you hombres who were interested may soon have your shot at her. I suggest you decline but " up to you ". I only ask that you do NOT mention my name or anything about this board if you ever run into her.

Thanks guys for all the kind words and support. In future installments you will see that like the nimble cat I resemble so much , I land on my feet and in fact may be a lot better off now. I keep a stable of old flames in BKK and this certainly came in handy this trip.

KM,

I'm not sure if Da's ratings got tanked for what transpired... I found two pics quite nice in particular-- cooking03, and cell09!

Paying the barfine of your lap girl was a real class act. I tend to think they are more impressed with the gentlemanly gesture rather than easy cash pickins... I regularly pay barfines for girls if I suck up a lot of their time and consider coming back for them (either that night or in the future). The girls do have amazing memories and I try to use this as much to my advantage as possible.

Hope all is well.

-DM

KM,

I am with Porker on this on, it takes BALLS to share intimate stuff like that, BIG BALLS!! If your appendage is of equal magnitude you can capture any woman you want!

Seriously, we all learn something from posts like yours, thank you for sharing it.

CGE

Hey dude, for some reason I think it was Don Gringo who had the fetish for photos of women cooking. Among other fetishes of course.

DM
I give a crap about the ratings. These were hardly glamour shots but were candid pics taken when she was unaware. I included them mostly for effect and some comic relief.
I had a brand new camera but made scarce use of it on this trip. I will post some other pics in future episodes- No nudes as I have not done any nude pics in the past few years.

I'm afraid I got you in a bit of hot water when I paid the BF as the girl who was with you seemed to expect the same treatment. I tried to make it a subtle move but these girls see everything that goes on without exception. $20 is a WHOLE lot more important to her than it is to me and she did waste the last 90 minutes of bar time grinding on my pole as opposed to hanging on the chrome pole fishing for Japanese tuna.

KM,

After reading this post I am damned impressed with the great attitude you showed in Pattaya. While it was clear you there was some drama only going on for you, they way you Rocked and Rolled through Pattaya with such a light attitude I only suspected there was only a slight bump in things.

This is quite a contrast from myself. While we were in Pattaya, I let the ongoing demise of a less significant relationship put me into a bit of a funk and slump at the beginning of the trip.

However, I do like the idea of a "Theme series of pics." So here is one my outgoing one doing some cooking. In this pic an Indo girl is frying something other than her brain cells.

Hey Khun, if you are still in Pattaya, there is a go-go bar you MUST visit, considering your report. Heaven, in the Diamond Plaza upstairs from Superbabys. Why?
1) You are 6-6. In here you sit on couches, so you can actually lay down and stretch your legs all the way out!
2) You like lap dances...the girls here are most willing once you get comfortable.
And the selection of girls is quite good. Now that you are single get in there are go for it.

Khun, that water was mild at best...

My trips to LoS have become an excercise in tip toeing my way through pooying. By the end of the trip I can hardly walk down a road without some past bedmate claiming ownership. To complicate things, this last trip I even ran into Bee (the only thai pic I posted) from last year. Ouch-- she wasn't happy running into me on the street.

Wow....got Ida to cook for you at the pad....must be nice getting Indo hotties to come to your pad in Sing to play house for the week.....Did I mention what a lucky bastard you were...especially after seeing pics of Sofia.
I think you and Epi are a couple of liars. You guys always talk about the ugly girls you guys bang but all I see are hotties when you guys post pics....I a not fooled.

Blazers IMHO I think I bang pretty much only hotties (according to Western eyes) these days in Indonesia, and although I still have my moments of banging fuglies in the PI, I am doing pretty well there these days. However, in my three trips to Thailand I have yet to fuck a pretty girl. Of course, looks are way behind attitude and nastiness in my selection criteria. I am pretty forgiving of looks as long as she has a big smile or banging body.

MX Thanks for the pic LOL !!

She's fine for sure.

As to my attitude in Pattaya I am usually much more animated in the bars. This trip I was not all that much into harrassing the talent in the bars and two nights actually went home solo. Not to say I did not do my share of girls ST all day long. It was at night I became a bit more morose. One of the reasons I let you and DM continue on your barhopping without me the last night you were there.

Hooking back up with Joon in BKK certainly helped repair my attitude however and all is well with the world again. If you were in a funk and slump at the beginning of the trip then Buddha help the girls when you're up to par.


Cantgetenuff

My appendage is quite average thank you ,but still appreciated by the Thai pooying. Hey-- maybe that's why I like Thai girls so much. Only there do I hear -- OOOHH you so big -- go slow !!

MX-- that gal you banged that night your original pick passed out was pretty darn cute...

MongerX, all I gotta say is "wow!" I love her body. I could cook with that all night long....

DM,

That Soi 8 bar girl is by far the best looking girl I have banged in Thailand. She did have a have a decent face to go with the pretty damn good body. So I do stand corrected with my Thai stunner count at a generous one.

Also notice you don't have anything nice to say about the looks of my other "dates" during the week. Don't get the wrong idea, as I had a great time in Pattaya, and girls like Soi 6 Tip and the Original Drunken Girl provide the sexperience I am looking for. My Thai evolution just hasn't acheived the level where I picking winners with btoh great attitude and stunner looks like your multi-night barfine Pom (or is it Pon?)

KM

that's why I like Thai girls so much. Only there do I hear -- OOOHH you so big -- go slow !!

B/S. 6'6" and "average" translates to humongous to 99% of the women in SEA. Lets see Dr, rich, obviously knows how to please a woman sexually, big c*^k. Ummmmmmmmmmmmmmmm
Boy! That Da has some really high standards for a Essan gal. She must have believed you when you said she could be a super model. Shes got the attitude down already

CGE

CGnuff
I've given up trying to guess what these girls think. Logic and reason are totally absent in any of their thought processes. I thought after 4 years of marriage I had my Thai ex wife figured out. Boy was I wrong on that count. Da gave me just as much surprise. Thai women operate on a basic very passionate level in my experience. Logical thought is counterproductive to trying to understand where they are coming from.


MX

I cannot believe you forgot the name Som. DM's looney but oh so sexy bargirl. What a piece of work she was. I cannot wait for DM's further trip report to hear more about her- if there is anything left to hear that is. Between her and DM I think I already know every move and position they did for several nights. I still remember sitting on the bahtbus at 2AM with DM and his Som with several " good " Thai girls on the same bus watching Som maul DM and continually saying " I want boom boom you NOW ! "

Good times for sure !

Her name was Pom.

As for my comments and/or lack of them... We have different tastes or priorities in the selection process. I'll add a short chapter in my trip report about DM selection philosophy to bore the general readership

-DM

DM You had 2 multi night BF's ?? I thought you only repeated with Som. I do not remember Pom.

KM, my dick is finally recovering. She texted me last night saying something like:

"Mahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhkkkkk!!How come u don't call me? Next trip we go to chiang mai. I'll show u around and u can meet my family. I hope u good and not tired, I'm going to boom boom u all night!"


Indeed- she's a real piece of work! And yes, there's a few stories I left for the trip report I canceled my trhip to chicago later this week and will pump out the pattaya section then..

how's your PTD coming along????

-dm

typo-- Som!

Pom was the freelancer in bkk -oops!

Som was definately one for the record books, perhaps my funnest time on the trip was when DM with Som and I with Tip went to Living Doll Showcases. Both of our girls had total winning attitudes and were showing us a great time. One thing I remember about Som was that it of the greatest importance that every girl in the Go Go personally check out DM unit.

Great fun! However, Som was none to happy that night although she hid it well in public. She was getting a bit peaved at the other girls getting touchy with me and then when the little bouncy spinner LDS waitress walked up and asked me why the heck didn't I fuck her instead, that was when Som started playing some of her own games.

The whole dick thing was her way of polking fun at them... she gives me wood then asked the girls hovering around to grope me. I don't get the point of it all, but instead of touching, I would of preferred if they all sucked it


Then she started escourting me to the bathroom to ensure I wasn't giving anyone a quicky in the head.

Once the night was over, she bitched to her mamasan about the girls there for at least 30 minutes straight... She then proceeded to screw my brains out once again to make sure she sapped any energy stores I had built up during the night. I even tried one levitra and one cialis that we obtained earlier in the week and she burned throw any effect those two had in a couple hours.

I should have the Pattaya report complete thursday...

"I think you and Epi are a couple of liars. You guys always talk about the ugly girls you guys bang but all I see are hotties when you guys post pics....I a not fooled."

Blazers

Take a GOOD, long look at my sub-3 rated photos and TELL me AGAIN that I don't bang dogs!!

E

Whoever that monger was that liked the images of girls cooking would have jizzed himself watching Roth (#7 from Dollhouse Agogo) cooking me up some fried rice dressed in nothing but a bath towel. Unfortunately, she's not a big fan of pics.

I also learned why BKK girls may enjoy being bar fined even if you're not leaving with them. One gal told me she has to work 6 days every week. If they've already made enough $ for the week to pay their expenses, they might appreciate being barfined just to get the night off.

Phoenixguy
I have some much hotter pics of Da cooking in considerably less attire but cannot post them here. I will still rspect her wishes even after recent events.

For many years I have been in the habit of paying barfines for girls I have no intention of screwing. Sometimes it's just someone I have talked to for a while and something about them touches me. Many times I will barfine multiple friends of my intended bedmate for a barhop, dinner , or partying at Hollywood etc. Certainly adds to the enjoyment. The mamasans like you because you end up BFing girls who rarely are BF'd . You get a quick reputation in that bar as someone who is " jai dee maak " Thai slang for "very big wallet." Not really but close.

You are right - many of the solo girls I have barfined just go home and rest or whatever. I don't care what they do , but I cannot remember ever seeing them back in the bar that night.Most girls work seven days a week with rare days off. A free barfine without having to screw for it is a thrill for them.

Yeah KM...this way they can go home and boink one of their Thai bf's on the payroll and not feel guilty about it and not be sore...lol...I have a feeling these poor girls get no nights off with their abusive boyfriends.