First Day Together

As I mentioned in my Day 2-5 report, a mutual attraction had developed between a bargal (Dao) and myself. She’s a tad older (30) and has a little extra beef on the ass and hips, but I responded in a big way to her charms. Where others’ are demanding, she was easygoing, where others are abrasive, she was soft, she was outgoing and fun. Folks often comment about the quality of others’ picks in terms of beauty, which makes for a shallow discussion. There is much more to being attracted to someone besides some discrete physical variables. Yes, of course physical attraction is important, but how two people interact when in the company of each other plays just as an important role in the chemistry and overall experience IMNSHO. We hit it off A++ and I found her very attractive despite some obvious shortcomings.

One night Epi had barfined hottie at Peppermint’s and I opted to go solo that night. I ended up barfining Dao for the first time and we had a great night. After going out to eat, we did a little go-go hopping, and then heading for an after-hours karaoke club (not frequented by white meat). The evening consummated with a nice romp back at the hotel and we snoozed for a couple hours before waking up at 8AM in order to meet Epi and MX for breakfast. The only downside to the day was that I awoke to find a gelantous mess (clear with a brown specks) in the bed upon awaking. At first, I thought, “damn that was a hell of a load I deposited in her pussy”, but then I shuttered when pondering that I had stuck my dick in that cytoplasmic mess the night before. Her English was minimal, but she said she had bad stomach ache and after talking to Epi it become clear she had some 3rd hole issues—for the lack of a better term. Regardless it didn’t dampen her cheery demeanor and we both were looking forward to spending more time together.

Days 2- 6
We spent the next several days eating, drinking, site seeing, shopping, and hanging out with her family (mother, sister, daughter). I enjoyed the cultural immersion, her attentiveness, and affection throughout. We never had an awkward moment nor struggled to express ourselves even though we were working off an extremely limited shared vocab repertoire. Sexually, I enjoyed each session, although my numbers were way down from normal. Typically, we would partake in one extended session per day lasting roughly 1-1.5 hours. In short, quality was good, but quantity left a little to be desired. I’m a “go with the flow kind of guy”, so it was really a non-event to me and I used Lólita's to relive any mid-day hard-ons that I mustered up.

Epi had left for Bangkok on day 7 and I decided that it was time to send Dao off and get prepared for my Batam trip with Epi in BKK shortly thereafter. While I thoroughly enjoyed my time with Dao, I felt the need to move on to greener pastures and there was no sense in delaying the inevitable. We said our goodbyes and I jumped on the Dynasty shuttle to BKK. I had the van to myself and snoozed the entire ride as I was still averaging 3 hours sleep a night. Nice relaxing ride—HIGHLY recommended.

Day 8
This day I went barhopping with Epi. We made a quick tour of Soi Cowboy and then chilled in NEP till closing. My brain was clearly not in the game, as I didn’t find anyone that I was drawn to at all. I ended up calling it a night and went for a walk down Sukhumvit and ST’ed a freelancer that I stumbled across while she was eating soup. I was fairly exhausted emotionally and physically, so she obliged me and let me recline while she rode me like a champ. One hour later, after her shower, she was gone and I passed out on the bed ready for a long sleep. I’m not sure what time it was, perhaps 4:30AM, when my cell phone rang. It was Dao in Pattaya asking if she could come visit me cuz she missed me 2 much…Damn another 1.5 hour sleep night! In hindsight, I should have told her that I’ll see her in a couple months, but my alter-ego gave in and said sure- “no problem”

Day 9-11
It was around 7AM when I got my next call from her at the BKK BTS terminal, so I rolled out of bed and walked down to meet her at the Nana station. We then walked back to the hotel and she was feeling a little horny, so we commenced with a passionate session before meeting Ep for breakfast. I told her that that Epi was with his barfine/GF and I expect absolutely no BS from her (i.e. in the words of Epi, I told her to play nice). Thai girls have a way of carrying on with totally inappropriate conversations amongst themselves.

Breakfast went without a major hitch although it was a little awkward at times as Dao was an extrovert and Epi’s GF was an introvert. Soon after, Epi departed for Singapore while I extended my bkk stay until 1/1. I checked out of the Dynasty and into the Westin with Dao.

During the next 2 days it become clear that the only thing I know about Bangkok is where to get laid and my feet rubbed. I felt a little pressure to “entertain” Dao as she was clearly out of her element in bkk and it showed. I managed to kill a couple days visiting snake farms, the floating market, going to canal cruises, and to the movies until I decided that this wasn’t working out to my liking. We talked and she agreed that she should return to Pattaya. She said she missed her daughter and felt awkward in bkk. I agreed, and she should return home on the morning of 12/31. We talked that night and I’ll spare you all the musings, but she said she wanted me to be her boyfriend and that she would quit bar if I wanted. I said “sure” to the BF part and “up to you” regarding the bar question. The next morning before she left, she said she will quit bar, so I asked her how much she needed to live on out of curiosity. She said she wasn’t sure, so I walked her over to the ATM and placed her at the terminal after punching in my PIN. I had a $400 daily limit on it, so I wasn’t worried about her going crazy--- especially since I already owed her for 3 days barfine +tip. She first punched in 20k baht for two months (when I’ll be back)…. sorry HUN exceed daily limit, so she settled on 15k and said she could make it last. SURE—I’ve yet to see a Thai girl who can manage cash. After she got the cash, I took her on the BTS and waited at the bus terminal with her. She was a little teary eyed when the bus finally pulled up and we gave each other out last hug and sniff kiss.

Photos: Dao 21 22 23 24

Interesting story, thanks for sharing some more intimate details here. It sounds like you're STILL conflicted about spending so much time with one girl. Hopefully you were having a good time during the time you were with her, and if so, then who cares if you deviated from the he-man monger's code for awhile and got yourself a little whipped. I think many of us have been there and done that and fallen under a girl's spell for reasons other than raw sex.

Re: only getting laid once a day with your girlfriend, though, gotta ask why you didn't push for more? While you may have given out the ill-advised 'co-boss' status, shouldn't the pooying have been acutely aware that making you happy was her #1 priority?

Pork,

I'm not really so much as conflicted as I am baffled. I did enjoy each and every day w/ her tho so it wasn't anything I regret-- well I wish I skipped the bkk part of the trip and went straight to Batam.

Re Sex: I didn't push the issue cuz it wasn't an issue for me. I enjoyed saving a good load for my Lólita's gal's mouth and our 1x session was satisfying as well.

DM
How in the world can you settle down with one girl ?? I would never even consider such a thing !


Yeah, right. There is occasionally something about a girl that gets your attention and keeps you coming back for more. There is also something about being with one person day and night that sorta throws a wet blanket on the number of sex episodes at least. When I was with Da it was the same- one or two times at most each day, but each encounter was very passionate with more feeling than the usual one night ST.. The urge for numbers just isn't there as she is there whenever you want it. You have too much fun doing other things to be concentrating on sex all the time.


As to your jellyfish tale- it's stories like yours that put me off the three hole thing. If God wanted me to stuff my dick into someone's ass, he would have made me gay. :-)

BTW Dao is a cutie, as are most of your selections.

DM

"I did enjoy each and every day w/ her tho so it wasn't anything I regret-- well I wish I skipped the bkk part of the trip and went straight to Batam."

*ahem*

KM

"There is also something about being with one person day and night that sorta throws a wet blanket on the number of sex episodes at least."

When I'm with my GF we end up attacking each other 2-5 times a day. She can be quite convincing and exTREMELY vigorous!! Also, those sessions tend to extend WELL over one hour.

Normally my GF has little or no appetite for food. However, when I get her revved up, she builds up quite an appetite - she can eat more then ME, then ends up passed out on the bed for a few hours. And so begins the cycle again...

"You have too much fun doing other things to be concentrating on sex all the time."

Hmmm. Maybe I've got this all wrong, but the ONLY time we've NOT fucked for a significant part of the day is when one of us has been VERY sick or she's menstruating. Otherwise it's partytime.

"As to your jellyfish tale- it's stories like yours that put me off the three hole thing."

Dao is a DEDICATED 2-holer. That gelatinous mix was from the box. Yeah, DM probably ate her out that night too!!

I'm guessing her mens just fihished, but perhaps she mistakenly stuffed her box full of knox gelatin before they fucked, mistaking it for lube...

E

"Dao is a DEDICATED 2-holer. That gelatinous mix was from the box. Yeah, DM probably ate her out that night too!!"


Comment-- I've never plugged a 3rd hole in dao or anyone else. I have a hard time believing that shit came the box, but who the hell knows. It never come back tho-- phew! I was grossed out to say the least.



Re: sexual tendencies

Comment: For whatever reason, we exhibited the same sexual tendancies/characteristics that KM described.

GF update: She called today and said she would quit bar this week for me.... I replied with "up to you"

After going back and forth, I told her to keep her day job and if she wanted, don't barfine. I liked that idea a whole lot better since I won't have a dependent and I'm free to fuck and do as I please without the possibility of her laying a guilt trip on me... yeeehawww! Although I like her a lot, the idea of a GF still seems a tad suffocating now that I'm away from her spell.





(Message edited by donmarco on January 12, 2005)

Don't barfine same same as don't make money. She will call soon saying either she needs to barfine or needs ATM card. A test of how much you "love her". If you love her you would not let her barfine.
I predict the end game comes soon .

We'll see. She's calling me every day to chit chat and I know those calls are running 20b/m... I told her not to call so much to save money and I just got that... I miss u too much!! ...

I do get the impression she is quite sincere, so hopefully her enthusiasm wanes a little as I'm not used to all this attention on a daily basis.