sorry but the girl i saw the first night was a specialist and i do not want to share some secrets....anyhow, last night i arrange for the firecracker from solid gold to meet me....we had a great time on wed. and i wanted a repeat without paying the club prices....she shows up around 11pm and we go for pizza, she is so cute and dresses casual tonight - perfect...i do not want to drink too much for the evenings festivities and am looking forward to a nice 2-3 hour party. this girl had a great attitude and was a pleasure to be with. she says she has a headache and i offer two non-asprins for her discomfort......WRONG....within minutes she goes to the bathroom and comes back saying she is having allergic reaction....and it shows....we hustle off to hospital where she gets a shot, while i talk politics and sports with the cabbie...now i know the shot is to help her breathing and hives and offer to send her home with some pesos for her trouble...she says no and maintains a sweet attitude throughout....back at room she showers and her beautiful skin looks like something from a grade b horror movie...i feel guilty and again offer to send her home, but she falls asleep and i put her to bed...now i am thinking just leave it alone and try to sleep...i start to wonder if i hear her breathing - i know a little about allergic reactions, my ex was a nurse, and reach over to check her pulse....whew she lives! i really do not need a big problem 4000 miles from home....i would have blamed the food....about 4 am she wakes up and wants to party...well i am a little unhappy and grouchy from no sleep and worry....this sweetheart calms me down, tells me it is not my fault and spends the next thirty minutes relaxing me...she has a mouth of honey! after we finish she asks for a tip and i tell her no because it was a very expensive sleep. i pay her the agreed upon rate for three hours - which was generous and within hombre guidelines....i never over pay or underpay and try to live up to agreements especially when things not under our control occur. we leave hotel and go to corner for cab...it is about 430 am. no cabs but a manager from a new club right next to affairs offers his help and runs, runs mind you, one block, hails a cab and runs it back to us....see what i mean about service. my little patient is off to her home, i tip the gentlemen 2 pesos for the cab, he gives me his card for a free drink in the club and i return to the hotel safe and sound...my irish luck holds up once again. tonight i think i will try some ads from the clarin....prices look good and i might get a great deal like a garage sale as i want a double.....to continue

Glad she was ok. Thanks for the good report.

I had a similar experience with a chica I took out in SJO Costa Rica a couple years ago. She had just started working at Eros, a club there, and was from El Salvador. I'd had a few good sessions with her, so I decided to take her out for the day at about 1 pm. We head back to the Presidente and have some lunch and then upstairs for an afternoon session. In the room she starts acting funny and stays in the bathroom a long time. When she comes out, I can tell something is wrong, she's doubled over cramping up, pale and is sweating. After a minute I could tell she was really sick and not faking. I asked if it was something she ate, and she said it was a "infecion de rinones"..I couldn't belive her-that means a kidney infection. It turns out she's had a recurring kidney infection for some time. It probably hadn't been treated correctly because she didn't finish antibiotics or she never got them. She was taking a bunch of medicine from a pharmacist.

I couldn't take her the the local hospital because she wasn't a citizen and the wait would be forever. She was from El Salvador with a Nicaraguan ID. Since she was in bad pain, I carried her to a cab and took her to a private clinic. A doctor tested her and confirmed the kidney infection. I told them I was her boyfriend and the doctor pulled me in the room after the exam and chewed me out for letting her take all these pills from the pharmacist-some of them had speed in them and most of them made things worse. The doctor gave some shots and prescribed some antibiotics-So I bought them and paid for the clinic. It was about $150. I took her home and had her roomate look after her the rest of the night. I looked in on her the next couple days and made sure she finished her antibiotics. She got better in 4-5 days and went back to work.

I had paid the club up front for the day, and I suppose I could have asked for a refund, but I really didn't think about it. Since there was really no other option for her I helped her out because I thought it was the right thing to do under the circumstances. She had only been in Costa Rica a short time and had just started at Eros. I don't think she knew where the hospital was.

I figured that doing what I did would earn some points with the chica. However, I was wrong about this. When I eventually saw her again at Club Eros, she hit me up for clothes, money, everything, and wouldn't stop. My next trip to Costa Rica she tried to have me pay her $1000 upfront for a week with her. I told her no-how about I pay you daily? For some reason this wasn't acceptable, so I said no and she had a meltdown. 2 days later she left town and was gone the rest of my trip. The next trip I ran into her at the club and chewed her out for trying to scam me. She swore she had an emergency at home and she would have given me that upfront money back...yeah right. Then she tries to get me to pay her a grand for another week...I finally just gave up and quit talking to her.

I think the problem was that she didn't see what I did as an act of kindness. She saw it more as a rich Gringo giving her something for nothing, which she was going to exploit to the fullest. I still think I did the right thing taking her to the clinic. I wasn't going to just let her suffer like that when I knew I could help her quickly.

HC1

Nice what you did for her, and good for you for not giving into her for the other things.

You did the right thing by our standards. A Latina looks at it slightly differently. It's more of a 'Since he did that for me, let's see what else I can get"

There's not even an evil intent behind it, it's just the mindset - and it's not limited to working girls...

HC1, you did a good deed something that you will be able to sleep good at night about, I on the other hand have learned LONG ago that some of the times the girls want to TAKE AND TAKE AND TAKE MORE FROM YOU WHEN YOU DO NICE THINGS.

I am glad I learned that LONG ago now I have and some people minds have began a HARD ASS, but I don't give a damn, but I still treat girls with respect and gladly do the right thing but, as SOON as I sense or SMELL someone trying to take me or PLAY me for a FOOL I step into and turn on THE 6'4 1/2 235 lbs MONSTER that they don't WANT TO see coming.

HC1, but you did the right thing, I would have done the same thing, and then tell her ASS OFF when she came back with her BULL SHIT.


KidCisco

Actually, you two (KidCisco & HC1) are two of the FEW people on this board who handle chicas the way I do.

It's all about respect. If they respect you, you can have a great experience with them. If they don't, get out your wallet.

Bonvvnt, glad to see I am not along with mine way of thinking, I really think if MORE would think this way it would MAYBE cut down on some of the BULLSHIT that the girls would try to play on some of the guys (GRINGOS), I KNOW THAT WANT HAPPEN just hopeful thinking I guess?

It will always be girls out there that will try to prey on others just the facts of life (THE STRONG OVER THE WEAK).

Some of us will make sure that it want happen to us, ALMOST EVERY GIRL IN RIO KNOW ME BY MINE SAYING "I TELL THEM VERY QUICK AND TO THE POINT THAT I RUN THIS MOTHERFUCKING SHOW", after that they smile in get comfortable and the show begans.

98% of them have told me they love the way I TAKE CHARGE AND CONTROL THE ACTION, they even tell me how much it turn them on and makes them HOT they love being around a man that TAKE CHARGE AND KNOWS WHAT HE WANTS, the other 2% I just give them a few reals for taxi and show them the door.

I know most of you meant not like the way I act or the things I write I don't really care trust me I don't stay up at night thinking about it, but to each his own it works for me, I been doing this since the late 70's (GOING TO RIO)along with other places and I never had any problems if anything the problems comes when I try to get them to leave and go home.


KidCisco

In Costa Rica I had a standard speech I gave to chicas if I ever repeated or spent time with them. That was if they ever started whining about going to the mall or buying shit, or about baby clothes or sick mothers, I was just going to point to the door. Most usually got the idea pretty quick.

I think the problem with the sick chica is that she was from El Salvador and grew up very poor compared to say Costa Rica. I doubt anyone had ever taken her to the hospital, so she probably wasn't expecting me to. After I did it, in her mind I'd be willing to do anything, but that wasn't the case.

I agree with Bonvvnt and KidCisco about being in charge with Latinas. You have to be, although I try to be more subtle in showing it maybe than KidCisco. Still, it's imperative you do this with a Latina. In Latin America, women aren't raised like they are here, the women aren't taught about "community property" and being co-equal spouses, making half the household decisions, etc...Latinas are taught that men should be in charge of these things, so a Latina expects this from a man, whether she likes it or not. Most will respond favorably when you do take charge and fill a dominant role.

In a relationship with a Latina, either you or she is going to be in charge. If you don't know whose in charge, she is. If you're not in charge of your relationship with a latina, my advice would be to just give her your wallet. It will save you the trouble of taking it out over and and over and over again.

HC1

Thomaso, good job, sounds like you handled that well.

Hombrecito1, I think you've hijacked this thread. Bummer of a story, it's too bad she tried to take advantage of you like that.

Bonvvnt, I think there are probably far too many people on this site, many of which don't post or don't post regularly, to say there are few that treat girls the way you do.

Kidcisco, how tall are you? How much do you weigh?

D'Artaganan, I am 6'4 1/2 HT. (barefoot) and I weigh 235.

KidCisco

D'Art, I didn't think I had to add 'of those who present an opinion'.

If they don't post, they might not HAVE opinions. Or they go somewhere once a year, don't speak Spanish and could care less about 'ongoing relationships' or 'adopting a city/country'. If the object is to have as many new ones as you can once or twice a year they might not care if the girls respect them as long as they get theirs.

When I start going someplace (Colombia lately) I have to deal with the fact that I will probably be returning... and if you get a reputation as a patsy you might as well find a new place to go!

It's still all about respect. I'm a little more gentle handed than KidCisco but it has to be done.

Anything else is ignoring the girls cultural imperatives.

KidCisco. Do you also wave the flag (US of course) when you are in charge, or do you do the Tarzan thing?

It is hard to swing from a tree in CopaCabana, but you probably could in Manus.

(HA,HA,HA,) I JUST USE THE BIG (FLAG) BETWEEN MINE LEGS, it have always have work in the past when I TAKE CHARGE.

KidCisco

Is it Red, White, and Blue?

Blue until he gets there...

KC,
Irony and sarcasm are lost on you. It does amuse me though.

Kid Cisco: With your size and weight you would make an excellent tour guide--as long as you let your "buddy" do his own thing. I am going to be in Rio arriving Jan 3rd and will stay for about three weeks. Are you going to be in the neighbourhood? I will bring the Maple Leaf flag and maybe we can hoist it under your Stars and Stripes provided your pole is long enough and can support both.

LARRYB3, That want be a problem just ask any of the girls when you go to "BARBARRELLA'S" or any of the "TOP" 5 "TERMAS" they ALL know all about mine (BIG FLAG) and the (LOOOONG POLE), that's what they most LOVE about ME ALONG WITH MINE HEIGHT I am very close to 6'5 (6'4 1/2).

The girls Love to place their small foot up against mine (BIG FEETS) AND THEY LOVE TO MEASURE mine SHOE size (13 1/2) or place their small hand up against mine LARGE PAWS, what's really funny and make me laugh is watching them almost FIGHT over reach will be the lucky one's to leave with me sometimes I will take up to 3 at the "TERMAS" or I will take up to 2 at "BARBARELLA'S"= ($$$).


The only and BIGGEST problems is getting them to LEAVE and GO home they want to set up their BASE CAMP at mine apartment, the ONLY WAY they are allowed to stay is they MUST (COOK/CLEAN/AND WASH MINE STUFF) ALONG WITH A LOT SUCKING & FUCKING (ha,ha,ha,).

KidCisco

Bonvvnt:
You stated that a latina chica sees it as "If he did that for me, let's see what else I can get."
Well, this has been my experience in about 10% of the time.
I feel this attitude has little to do with the cultural upbringing and has more to do with immaturity, or someone preying on another.
Although I feel the economic difference does play a part in this attitude, I do feel you're making a gross misrepresentation of the latino culture in general. Remember the latinos are more apt to give with an open hand.
We can't forget that we are dealing with girls who sacrifice their bodies to make $$$, not your average working, more educated girls for the most part. Let's also not forget that the american woman is out for the real blood ($$$).

On the other hand many may have had a life of struggle and see the people with $$$ to burn as being unjust. IMO