INTRODUCTION

Well….I just left Pattaya, Thailand a few weeks ago after cutting my vacation short due to family business. Nonetheless, I plan on returning in a couple of weeks and wanted to try and write this trip report before I returned. Originally….I wanted to wait and compile a longer report after I return from the next trip, but since I haven’t noticed too many trip reports being posted lately…..I thought I throw in one for the team!

As you may have noticed, I have been kind of quiet lately because I have been dealing with a situation that is probably a Monger’s worst nightmare!! This latest drama has my past drama incidents….. beat my miles!

To be honest, I kept it myself for a while…….but with the “Thai girl’s network”…..nothing remains discreet in Pattaya too long. I already heard a couple of rumors floating around…..so I thought I minus make it public knowledge.

Although the situation is under control right now……I been thru hell and back the last year dealing with it. I want to believe the worst is over…..but it may just be beginning!

I am just going to blurt it out……I fucked around and got a bar girl pregnant! No need to hear the “told you so” or how stupid it was…..as I’m already painfully living thru it!

It is against my beliefs to force any women to kill a baby…..and therefore, I offered to support this girl’s decision, whatever it may be. After a couple of months of stressful phone conversations with her……she decided to have the baby!

We have for the most part, agreed on certain things like ….financial support…..but have not agreed on what role I will take in the baby’s life OR what type of relationship we plan on having together. Obviously…..we have different views and/or plans about what the future holds in this respect.

Notably, she has agreed to financial support…..that isn’t as quite as lucrative as her former showgirl’s salary, but for the most part, I applaud her efforts in meeting me half way with the majority of the problems we were able to solve together in the past year.

Yes….I have seen the baby and based on the timing of the pregnancy and birth of the child, I am pretty much convinced it’s mine. I was reluctant to obtain DNA tests last month while I was in LOS…..because, to be honest, I wasn’t prepared to hear the truth and was kind of scared I was going to get caught up in some type of government loop hole, for getting a Thai girl pregnant. She was pretty insistent on taking the tests.

But given our current understanding, I believe I am prepared to get the final confirmation with a test next month when I return to LOS.

Given the personal nature of this situation, I am not going to write too much more about this situation at this time. It’s all still a little too delicate for me. I am also not prepared to post pictures of the bar girl or baby at this point either. Who knows……maybe I’ll feel different later, but for right now…..it’s a little too close to home for me and I want to keep it private.

After getting over the major hurdles of that situation, I found myself prepared to continue on with my adventures!! I can’t erase the past or let it take control of me……but I just have to continue to move on with my life and make the best of it! I just never thought it would happen to me…….how foolish!

I told myself…..I was going to try and enjoy by BIG 40th in Pattaya…….and drink all my problems away. To some extent……I believe I did!! Stay tuned for the trip reports, including an Awesome Birthday Bash!!

Priew

aka "Mr Pimp"
Mrrobj

Priew after personally meeting you in Rio I know you are a stand up first class guy. Myself and I am sure the other guys understand and wish you the best of luck. - Hemp

You've always impressed me as a totally stand-up guy as well. I've been hoping we'd meet up in Rio, but it sounds like I'm more likely to catch you during my annual Pattaya trip.

Good report thus far. Keep it coming!

BD

"I have been dealing with a situation that is probably a Monger’s worst nightmare!!"

A working girl getting pregnant? Come on priew... that a sleep disturbance, not a nightmare.


HAPPY BDAY!

(Message edited by donmarco on September 26, 2007)

Sleep disturbance!...LOL! Don Marco....you got me on that one!!

Thanks for the kind words Hemp and Bwana Dik, it means a lot to hear that from up guys like you!!

Priew

Priew,

I applaud your decision to take responsibility. First rate! You're making the right choice too. If you walked away, I'm sure the cowardice of that would haunt you forever.

Priew,

I applaud your decision to take responsibility. First rate! You're making the right choice too. If you walked away, I'm sure the cowardice of that would haunt you forever.

Well done, Priew.

While it may be tough in some regards, there's at least one silver lining, you have family in Thailand now.

Hey Priew,

Sorry to hear about your difficulty. But like the others here, I applaud your sense of integrity in this matter. You have always been a man of personal honor and this just reinforces my high opinion of you. Good luck.

I agree with the guys and applaud your commitment although, when you are prepared, I do recommend the DNA tests. You have already accepted financial responsibility and are working through the parenting roles. Might as well make sure you are doing them for good reason.

Just MHO!

If the DNA test results state that you are not the father, I dont recommend continuing to support a child that is not yours out of pure guilt. The crocodile tears will be in full effect if the results find out that you are not the father. Interesting that a prostitute would point out that you are the father when they are with 20-30 sex partners a month. It would seem as though it is an occupational hazard for girls who bareback their client. I would suspect it would be fairly obvious if the child was yours as opposed to other farang.

If the child is yours, its imperative that you support the child emotionally and financially as leuk kreung children whom are half black go through a lot of cruel punishment by other Thai people who are as xenophobic as they come and fairly racist against black and East Indian people.

You can order anonymous DNA paternity tests kits online and find them at many USA pharmacies. The samples need to be mailed to a laboratory for analysis. If the kid is yours, then you made an honorable choice on child support. If somebody else, get the official test in Thailand and cut her off.

Talking about cutting things off, have you considered a vasectomy!! My V is scheduled for next week.

Glad to see you back here, your reports are always exceptional.

The condom breaks and next thing ya know u r a daddy?!? Congrats!

Here's to the better life your child will be living cuz u're the father.

I just hope it wasn't Emma that had the kid!!

I too, applaud you for your actions. A similiar thing happened to me here in the States 13 years ago. Being involved in my Daughter's life is the best thing that ever happened to me. If the child is yours, there will come a time when you can't imagine life without him/her.

I did do a DNA test. 99.97 chance she was mine.

you are black?

Priew100 - never met you but fair play, you sound like a top man. And goin by your reports/photos, a talented Monger!

Asking the question on wether or not he is black, what the hell does that have to do with anything.