This is a two part report. The first my summary of my Medellin trip back in early 2007, the second is my small guide to non pros in Latin America. I was in Medellin for about 10 days. This is my first report. I’m a young guy in my mid twenties. I’m all about the non-pros. Enjoy.


Medellin 2007:
I started off my making a few contacts over the internet. I had actually been chatting with a few girls online for a month or so. A few days before my actual trip I decided to check and see if I could get some last minute contacts. I sent out some emails and one of the cutest girls I emailed responded with her number, I’ll call her chica1.

Photo: Chica 01

I arrived three days before my buddy was scheduled to get there. We rented a small apartment for $10/day off of one of the apartment rental websites, I forget which one. As soon as I got to the airport I called up chica1, chatted her up for a bit, and let her know that I would be staying around calle 33 (that’s where the apartment was). Luckily for me, she was just moving into her place and she didn’t live to far away, so we scheduled a meeting for later that afternoon. The next thing I did was call up the contact I had for the apartment, and then I took a taxi into town to meet up with the people who were renting the place out to me.

When I got there it turns out that the apartment is really crappy. It’s right on calle33, which is really noisy, and the windows are huge, so you hear all the noise of the trucks, cars, and motor cycles. It was also very tiny. It was basically a 1 bedroom studio with two twin beds thrown in there. It had a small fridge, some drawers and a microwave on top. You could barely get around inside the place. Half of the closet was turned into a makeshift bathroom, and you had to duck just to get into that ½ closet ½ bathroom. I was disappointed because I had told my buddy to get us a nice two bedroom apartment with a kitchen.

So I tell the lady in charge that I might have to reconsider renting the apartment. It wasn’t what I was expecting. The thing is that there was some conference in town and I called up a few hotels and everyone was booked. I wasn’t sure what to do yet, so I asked the lady if I could leave my luggage there while I go buy a cell phone at the shopping center. She agreed to let me leave my stuff there.

I walked over to the shopping center and I went into the nearest cell phone store, there was a very, and I mean very sexy 40 something year old woman working there. I was contemplating asking her for her phone number but I decided not because I was only there for ten days and I didn’t want to waist her time or mine. I had a bunch of other girls lined up and there were younger, even sexier girls all over the place. After I bought and activated my phone, I called up chica1 and told her I was in the mall and that she could meet me here. She said she would meet me outside of one of the stores so I just walked around and did some window shopping for a while and then headed over to meeting place.

I met her with a kiss on the cheek, we chatted on the bench for 30 minutes and then I decided it was time to get something to eat. We ended up going to eat at a place that was right down the street from my apartment. As I got to know her better I realized this girl was very sexy, friendly and smart, she was studying medicine. I told her about my problem with the apartment and she suggested I stay at her place. I figured it would be a good idea to wait it out at her place until my buddy got in town and we could figure out where to stay. So after dinner, we walked over to the apartment, I told the lady in charge that I’ll be staying somewhere else until my buddy gets in town.

Me and chica1 hailed a cab, threw all my stuff in the trunk, and headed over to her place, which was 10 minutes away. We went up and I started unpacking a bit. She showed me around her modest apartment. We hung out for an hour or two and then we noticed that it was starting to get late and I was really tired from the flight, packing the night before, and lack of sleep. I decided it was good idea to go out and grab some drinks before it got really late, and she agreed so we headed out to El Poblado.

From there we walked around and ended up in a club which was playing a good mix of music. It was a Thursday night, so it wasn’t too crowded and we partied, danced and talked all night right at the bar, with a bottle of Medellin Rum. A few hours later we had danced some meringue, salsa, and reggaeton. We talked about a lot of things and got to know each other better. By this time I was feeling really nice from the rum and I think she was too, so I started squeezing her hands and she squeezed back. I went in for a light peck and she let me so I just kept pushing forward until we were making out.

We made friends with the bartender and took some shots with him, next thing we knew it was already really late and we had finished the entire bottle. By this time we had made out a few times and the reggaeton dancing was getting really hot and steamy. At this point I just let her do the driving, she mentioned we should shoot back to her place, that’s where I was going to stay the night anyway. I agreed because it was getting late, so we pay the bartender, catch a cab, and head back to her place.

Once we get there, I hop in the shower, since I hadn’t showered all day, and she burst into the bathroom, I forget why, telling me that “she has already seen me”. I knew that it was time to go in for the kill. She put on some sexy shorts that showed off her nice legs and ass and was waiting for my laying on the bed. The rest is history.

I slayed that ass two times, before passing out due to sheer exhaustion. In the morning when we woke, we went at it for round two. Then she got up and cooked me breakfast, I didn’t even ask her to, what a sweat heart… Man I love Latina America… it’s not just Medellin guys; you get this type of treatment in any place south of the border.

Anyway to make a long story short I spent the next three days with her until she started acting weird. Not sure what made her turn her cold shoulder, I think that she may have gone through my luggage and found the large pack of condoms in my suitcase, but to this day not sure what happened. But I wasn’t sweating it. My buddy was landing in town that day, and I still had to meet all of the other girls I had met online, so that morning we said our goodbyes and I went back to my crappy calle 33 apartment.

The only reason I called chica1 first, in the first place, was because I didn’t have anything to loose with her. I hadn’t chatted online with her, not even once. With the other girls I actually had more time invested so my thinking was that I would just meet chica1 fast and get it out of the way before I went onto the other girls which I really wanted to meet.

I really did like chica1. The sex was great, she easily had the most fun personality out of all of the girls, and I wish a had a picture of her ass… she was right up their with the Cariocas from brazil. That’s what I love about Latin America, I wasn’t going to spend time crying over what happened. Hey, if she got tired of me, who cares? I had a line of other girls waiting for me! Can’t say the same thing in the good old US of A.

Well that same day I moved back to calle 33 I called up one of the girls that had been expecting my arrival. We went out that night, to a place called de ja vu, it was a Sunday so it was a little slow, but we had a good time anyway. After a few hours of drinking and dancing I tried to kiss her but she wasn’t ready for that yet. I ended up not getting any that night, but the next day she came over we watched some TV and I sealed the deal. I’ll call this girl chica2. Chica2 was studying in the university and she was really sweet. But she had to go to class so she ended up leaving in the early afternoon.

Photo: Chica 02

That’s when I called up chica3. Chica3 was a really nice girl, but not really my type. She just wasn’t as fun as the other girls, so even though I probably could have kissed her and gone all the way, I didn’t. I don’t like to have sex with women for the hell of it. I really have to be into the girl to make it worth it for both of us.

Photo: Chica 03

Well by the time I met Chica3 my buddy was in town and we met up with him and went out to eat. Later on that night I ended up calling chica4.

Photo: Chica 04

Chica4 seemed like the shyest out of all of the girls I met, but she had a sexiness to her. And she was witty. Definitely my type of girl, in terms of the sexiness, not the shyness. We went out for drinks with my buddy and one of his girls. After a few drinks and hours of conversation me and chica4 decided we would go out to dance. So I took her to Palmahia. We danced, talked, laughed, and partied all night. And at the end of the night we ended up back at my place. Chica4 was a real sweat heart, originally she wanted too hook me up with her sister, but in the earlier days I had to cancel on meeting them because chica1 got in the way. So chica4’s sister got mad at me for canceling, but throughout the whole ordeal I really wanted to meet chica4 anyway, instead of her sister. It turned out that she was taking exams at the university so after the great night we spent together, she couldn’t hang out with me anymore because she had to study and had classes and stuff(remember I was only there 10 days). If I would have been there longer, this would have been a repeat.

Throughout next couple of days I spent most of my time with chica2, and then I met a girl in the mall and I got her number, I’ll call her chica5. I actually wasn’t planning on calling her because I had other dates lined up with chica2, but there was one night where chica2 couldn’t make it so I gave chica5 a call and she accepted to go out. On this night my buddy couldn’t get any of his girls to come out with us so it was just us three.

We went to Mangos and had a great time; unfortunately we couldn’t get a friend for my buddy. He got tired and left early leaving me and chica5 alone so we could get to know each other better. I ended up making out with her in the club later on that night we shot back to my crappy apartment. Case closed.

Before I left town I ended juggling my time between Chica2 and Chica5. It actually worked out great because chica2 had free time during the day, and she had night classes and chica5 had work during the day and was free at night.

Throughout my trip I ended up getting two other phone numbers, one in the mall that I ended up never calling because I didn’t have time, another in a club that I lost because I wrote the number on a peso, and then I paid that taxi driver with that money, I regret loosing that number too, that girl had an amazing body. I tried to get the phone number of this really cute waitress at a place I frequented for breakfast, but she wouldn’t give it to me. That was actually the only time I got rejected during the whole trip… I do the same exact shit in the U.S. of A and I get shot down all the time, What the fuck! Haha. Who needs these USA girls anyway, when you have all of Latina America, I’m moving down south anyway. Remember guys, birds aren’t the only ones who can migrate for the winter!

P.S.
I did end up meeting a few more girls I don’t mention here some of them weren’t my type and others just couldn’t free up time when I had time and vice versa.

I still talk to Chica2, 3, and 4 when I see them online. I’ve lost touch with chica1 and 5.

Also, if I get more time, I’ll write about my Rio trip (I had fun with the Cariocas. I didn’t even have time to go to one terma) and my trip to the coast of Ecuador.

I included a picture of one of the Cariocas I picked up in a club called SIX in Rio.

Photo: Rio Carioca

SHORT GUIDE TO NON PROS:
Why Non-pros:
• Honestly because I like the thrill of the hunt.
• Because there’s more non-pros then pros out there! If we talk about Medellin, out of all the girls in Medellin only very small percentage are pros.

Have The Right Attitude And Outlook:
• Know that in Latin America women are more open and friendly
• You must approach and take initiative. I’ve gotten phone numbers in buss stops, on park benches, restaurants, the mall, etc. I know for many of you coming from the USA or other Developed nations, where the women aren’t as warm and friendly, approaching my be difficult because you’re use to getting shot down, but trust me, down here it’s a whole new ball game.

You Must Give Her Good Sex:
• Whereas you may not really care about pleasing a PRO, you really have to try to please the non pros. Latin women love sex as much as anyone else, and if you give them a great time in the sack, they’re going to love you for it.
• If your endurance levels or something else is lacking for regular sex, make sure you make up for it with the DATY.
• Don’t skimp out on the foreplay, especially if she’s big on that. Get to know what she likes, play out her fantasies.
• Whenever I’m with a woman my first goal is to please her to best of my abilities. I try to rock their worlds and many of them love getting their worlds rocked!
• Also know that sex provides great please for both the man and the woman. This isn’t a one sided deal where the man gets all the pleasure so I don’t know why some of you guys feel guilty about having casual encounters with women. As long as you’re open and honest about that fact that you can’t commit I don’t see a problem.

Don’t Mislead Them
• Be open and honest that at the moment you are not looking for commitment.
• Put the cards on the table… you’re not looking for something serious. Remember that I only do the deed with women who I really like and I enjoy their energy, company. So I can sincerely say to them that I’m not looking to commit right now but I really like spending time with them, and if they feel the same we can just enjoy the moment.

Looks:
• Now I’m not a great looking, I’m average or maybe even below average in the looks department. But I do try my best to do two things in this department. The first is exercise and the second is grooming.
• Grooming goes a long way, cut those nose hairs, the hair on the back of your neck, ear hairs, trim that beard nicely, or any facial hair, get a nice haircut.
• Shaving the family jewls: I shave downstairs because it makes my fireman look bigger and stronger and the girls won’t have my pubes in their teeth when they go down on me. It makes the whole area seam cleaner and the girls will thank you for it.
• Try to exercise as much as possible. This will give you more stamina and energy in the sack as well as just over all better healthy feeling and you’re going to look more fit, stronger, and healthier
• Vitamins and eating well fall into this category too. By supplementing and eating well you will look younger, you will have more energy.
• Remember that all of this looks and health stuff isn’t necessary but the more you do it the better the response will be with the ladies
• The way I see it, in the USA and other places like the UK, Canada, Germany you can do all of this stuff and it really doesn’t help much in getting laid, but when you do this stuff down in Latin America or other developing regions it really goes and long way and the results kick ass

Language:
• Guys this is super important
• You HAVE TO, JUST HAVE TO learn the language
• You need to be able to communicate not just with the girls but just about anywhere. You can’t go out to eat with her and expect her to do all the ordering because you don’t know the language. You need to be a man and lead the interaction, you talk to the waiter, you ask for this or that table, you ask the waiter or waitress to bring the check, etc.
• You need to have some fluency in order to get around but also in order to establish a connection with the ladies.
• If you can’t speak the language you won’t be able to build rapport, you won’t be able to get to know her better, or tell her about yourself and let her get to know you better. Honestly, you can do just about everything else but if you can’t communicate with them, then nothing is going to happen.
• Learning a language is a small price to pay for being able to communicate in over 20 different countries across three different continents. Over 500 million people speak Spanish, 350 million are native speakers. That’s 150 million native women you will now have access to once you learn the language! Get with the program broham. I’m sure you guys have gone through worse pain then learning a language!
• Also don’t forget that the Hispanic community in the United States and other wealthy nations is growing every day. So learning Spanish can help you here as well!
• For practice I suggest looking into pimsleur lessons, rosetta stone, eating at your local Latin places and chatting up the waitresses, who knows you might even be able to sample a Latina, even before you go down to Latina America. Practicing with your online contacts, watching the Spanish channel, reading websites and books in Spanish or listening to the Spanish radio stations are all recommended. The same applies to Portuguese or any other language.

Final Thoughts:
• For those of you looking for a partner or a serious relationship it will be easy. The hard thing might be to stay faithful. Many of the non pros you meet will be open to the idea of a relationship.
• For those looking to date many women aim for open relationships. Don’t talk about, or bring up the topic of having a relationship with her, and if it comes up, just tell the girls that, at the moment you cannot be committed to anyone because for example you had a rough breakup, or because of your job, too much stress, or whatever your reason may be etc.
• When discussing an open relationship never have these discussions outside of the bedroom. Only allow her to bring it up after having great sex with her and not at any other time. The reason: women tend to be more open to persuasion after a steamy session.

Leave your comments and let me know what you think! Later!

According to an article in el Colombiano, the local #1 newspaper, over 70% of the younger girls in Medellin had, at one time or another, taken money for sex. That doesn't make them putas by any stretch, but that may cause you to think a bit more about your classifications.

And you may be able to call them all prepagos in one way or another.

Yeah, non-pros are not girls that have taken money for sex or donations. Not sure how honest guys are about what the purchased for girls or what "donations" they gave them. If they received money in some form, then they are pros.....just part time pros.

I just used the term Non-pro because that seems to be the defacto term to describe an ordinary girl who is not working at let's say the Medellin Mansion or some other similar place. I may be wrong in my assumption but you guys should be able to figure out what I mean when I say non-pros.

Basically, I met these girls either on the streets or online. Most of these girls were studying in college. Two of them were from well off families. To my knowledge non of these girls were prepagos or "working" girls, but then again it's possible they were.

We went out, yeah I paid for drinks most of the time, but some of these girls paid for food, sometimes bought me a beer, etc. There was no money in exchange for sex explicitly. If you want to consider my paying for the drinks as paying for sex, that is your call, but what man hasn't paid for a woman's drink in their life? And especially when you're in Latin America where the dollar goes a long way. I didn't give any donations other then the mentioned.

I'm no expert, just sharing my story and stating what I feel has worked for me in Latin America, if you find any of this useful, great!

By the way I did forget to mention a few things in the report. I do know how to dance salsa, merengue, bachata, and reggaeton, and I try to dress well (button down shirt, nice jeans, matching belt and shoes, geld up hair, sometimes an earing, NO jewlery or fancy watches), especially when I go out at night to clubs and bars.

Besides learning the language I think dancing is the second best thing you can learn. If you guys can take dance lessons back home or in Latin America, while you're there, then I would really recommend it.

I should have have included these things in the report. However if you pair up my report with 2003/03 Lamuerte - Non-Pro Action in Cali, Colombia Report I think you will have a very good idea of what it takes to get great results in all of Latina America...

Well all it takes to get non-pros is to be a traveler in your twenties. Had I been a monger in my twenties, It would have been easy to get non-pros. So to try to tell a monger in his 40's to get non-pros really isnt relevant on this site.

Got that right. I haven't found too many hot chicas 18-22 that wanted to fuck this fat, old guy for free. Of course I'm only 59.

When I was in my 20's, I was too busy trying to get the rent together to travel.

Dstylz:

The sex/chica part of the trip report was okay to good. But my favorite part is always the advice that comes in these type of reports. In this case I love the "button down shirt" suggestion. I'll buy a couple on my way to my salsa dancing lessons.

jj

Photos integrated

Actually the young Kid's report is pretty good. How many of us in their early twenties were mongering as Tom Tom points out? It is good to get a guy's perspective at that age, instead of always getting reports from old farts like us......

I loved this report. Thank you. It makes alot of sense. I have been with a lot of hispanic women in the States and it is really not that different.

I also add that doing simple stuff that makes them laugh goes a very long way also. A smile and a silly joke or jester goes a very long way.

So did you seal the deal with chica 4 or not?
She's HOT!
And chica 3, to me, is very nice too.
You should write a book on hooking up.

Tomtom, LOL. As a 49 year old (but at least not fat) fart, we have to be realistic about what we can expect when a chica looks at us. I just got back from two weeks in Medellin, where I hooked up with a beautiful morena (spent virtually the entire two weeks with her - I know, danger ++) but have not had such fun in over 20 years. I've got a little money, who the hell am I going to spend it on, might as well on a funloving Colombiana rather than some boring drip Canadian bitch. Dstylz, cannot agree with you more about the language. If you can't speak some Spanish, the rest does not matter. I have spent two years learning Spanish, still stumble along, but at least I have made the effort. Medellin has so little English, and they ALL want to learn English, that this alone takes you most of the way. The chica will help you with the rest (Christ, after two days she was already trying to make this slob (me) into a well dressed prince.) The little babe I was with spoke 5 words of English, nothing would have ever happened without me making the language effort. Biggest problem, once you've hit a good one, especially at my age, it ain't easy to give them up for someone else....

Dstylz -- which internet dating site did you use? Any comments on the various options--amigos.com, cybercupido, etc....

Dstylz,
Good report and you made excellent points regarding the latina non-pros and how to approach and treat them. I lived in costa rica for 1 1/2 years recently and the people there shower at least once a day. They are very clean with a few exceptions of course, so we should approach them with equally high standards. As you said they respect honesty and do not forgive a person who lies to them. Be upfront about your intentions and you may get repeat horizontal mambos with them.
As for the exercise I agree also. That will inspire me to visit the gym tomorrow as I have a trip coming up to costa rica in about 3 weeks so I will need some stamina hopefully. While there I will visit a tica family that I was very close with when I lived in the country. If I am lucky I'll get a home cooked meal while there.
But one must remember the hunt for the elusive peachfish must always take precedent. A great 2008 to all members!

Hey guys! Thanks for the all of the feedback! Sorry I couldn't answer your questions sooner, I was on vacation in Ecuador, maybe I'll write another trip report when I get some free time.

For all you guys who wanted to know what site I was using, most of my contacts came from amigos.

Yes I did seal the deal with Chica 4. Chica 3 I wasn't really interested in, when we hung out she seemed kinda boring, the other girls were a lot more exiting, talkative, and overall more interesting.

Just wanted to say thanks for posting. I am 34 and couldn't agree with you more, and have had my share of non-pros in different countries, and I must say, there is nothing more fulfilling then hanging out with some girl who had sex with you because she enjoyed your company, and shows you around, and makes you feel at home. Thanks again for a fresh perspective on travel, meeting women and of course the advice on language.

Dstylz

Great report. Really good advice. You are wise beyond your years. Wish I had known when I was your age. Gotta make up for lost time now.
Thanks
Stratone