Hello fellow travelers, I am pleased to give you my report on Angeles City tonight. It was as usual a rewarding experience and I hope you find my report entertaining.

First a little about me, I am HUGE on the girlfriend experience, really get no pleasure at all from a girl that shows no attraction to me on at least some level, no matter how beautiful she may be (see my report on the Ukraine for more information) so you will notice in my reports that I spend more than a usual amount of time (and money) to get to know the girl or to make her more relaxed.

A few rules I follow is this...If I walk into a place and immediately get pawed or crotch grabbed, I leave, It indicates a drink clip joint and I'm no mark. I never touch a girls breast, crotch, or ass outside the hotel room, and I dont kiss on the mouth unless they indicate it's alright. Even though for 30.00 they will be licking my balls while one hand jerks me off and the other is finger fucking my ass does not mean I have the right to treat them different socially and on some level ALL girls will respond to this, it may not translate to better service but it certainly will not lead to poorer service.


I always spend a little time with all bargirl prospects, of course I always acnowledge during the first drink about mens or cherry situation, if I'm interested in someone I always buy the waitress a drink and also the mamasan or head waitress if they are outgoing and friendly in conversation, This is all designed for the girl to feel at ease, lets face it there are a lot of jerks out there and until this girl realizes I'm not one of em I wont get the service I require. And when I leave with or without barfine the waitress gets 200 to 300 peso tip and friend or head waitress gets 100 to 200. now the prospect sees all this and even if she thinks me a generious fool, she will make sure I'm a happy generious fool in the morning.

Now before you lecture me on prices consider this...between airfares and hotels I'm in about 2000.00 even if I get my nut popped 10 times this week that is still 200.00 each...do you think I care about another 20.00 here and there to make it as good as I can get?

O.K. now that your convinced I'm a total weenie lets get on with the report. Instead of going day to day I am going to go girl to girl because I may see a girl 2 or 3 times before barfine ( the seduction of the hunt) so day by day discription would be confusing.

Tuesday July 1st 7:00 pm

Arrived Wild Orchid....between Vegas, Hawaii, and the airtime and layovers its been a 34 hour jaunt with little shuteye, but a night in A.C. cannot be wasted...wake up call for 9:30, by 10:00 showered, shaved, and hit the streets.


Wasn't going to be overly picky tonight, was tired and it has been 2 years, needed to get back in the groove, went to a favorite from last trip the las vegas club. Now I am more a firm boob and body man than a face man so I zeroed in on danella (I think thats her name) right away.
She was reserved as most girls are at first (except those crotch grabbing sluts which I have zero intrest in) I inviting her friend over and the waitress and after about an hour of my normal routine she was doing her best to lick the back of my throat...barfine.

Photos: Danella 01 02 03

Back at the room things were going great and had a great 69 going on then all of a sudden she arches her back, squeeled, and I got both barrels... been a while since I had a squirter and it really took me by suprise. well needless to say the rest of the night session was great but we moved to her side of the bed because I'm not sleeping on the wet spot.

Next morning was a good session but not as intense (I'm not getting a facial before breakfast) Not she goes into the routine of how much she likes me, yada yada routine but then goes into saying she doesnt want a butterfly man ( I've only been in town 12 hours I cant believe were having this conversation) I avoid the subject, I tip her tell her I have leave to meet some friends and I would see her later.

Tuesday I'm with "shy" girl, Wednesday night (early) I fall in love, Wednesday night (late) I go to las vegas club to see Danella, I'm not 2 steps in the door and there she is all over me. As soon as we sit down she asked where I was last night, she said she waited all night for me and starts in on that butterfly shit again. I skate the issue as best I can and we settle in to a good time and another good barfine.

The 2 girls you see in the center of the picture drank with us and I know they werent really barfine material but they were fun and pleasent so I invited them to the pool the next day.

After a couple of beers at the pool the next day they said I could not tell Danella they were here because she would be mad, they said she has fallen for me. I said my intention is not to misslead anyone and the last thing I want to do is hurt somebodys feelings and I would not be going back in there again.

Photo: Danella 04

Friday night I'm in the Dollhouse with my "love" girl and I look up to the front door and I see Danella coming in with another girl (oh shit) I engage in intense conversation with my party, when I look up again I did not see her.


Wednesday July 2nd...I fall in love.

I'm out doing the barhop thing lookin for talent and I wander into Bedrock...motherload of hotties....now there is so much talent here I wait a while for asking any down for drinks, even bargirls don't want to be 2nd choice so I'm drinking with the head waitress and mamasan getting some feedback. the two I pick for drinks looked like cherry girls but mamasan says no there not, and there sisters...(I know what your thinking but I didn't want to cross a line and chance fucking something up) so we drink and have a really good time, I have never seen a bargirl with so much fun loving energy..and being that kind of guy myself, I got smitten.
Her name is Joan, unlike most her English was not very good, so conversation was limited but she acted responsive toward me. After a while I asked to barfine her, she acted funny about it, I talked to the head waitress, the music was so loud I couldn't really hear but she indicated there was a problem, I acted like no big deal had another round and left.
I have never been turned down for a barfine , never had a runner, never had a situation like this, may sound really pompous but my feelings were hurt....went barhopping found shy girl.

Photos: Danella 05 06 07 08 09

Wednesday July 2nd ...shy girl

Didn't really see a lot of lookers Wednesday for some reason after I got let down (frame of mind was off I guess) because every night after that when I was barhopping with a girl I saw at least 20 very barfinable honeys working but tonight picking seemed to be slim after the bedrock, went to the roadhouse, just wanted laid tonight not really looking for a award winner, spotted a nice girl seemed shy and flat chested but I saw the shy as a challenge so let the games begin.

She was shy (don't remember her name) but again we go through my routine she becomes more open and laughing. I get around to asking if she wants barfined and if she wants to barhop to where her friends are working, she liked that idea, and by now she is very handsy and long kisses. we hook up with a friend of hers named Rose at the bunny ranch and have a few drinks, when I took a picture she didn't want me checking out her friend, her friend invited me back another night when shy girl went to the restroom. I did go back for drinks another night but ran out of days for a barfine.
You can see even in the picture she was shy even for the camera, so we go to bed and I'm given the pussy a quality licking after a while she raises my head up to hers and says, and I quote..."I want you to fuck me hard in the ass"..............OK..........I guess we got over the shy.

Photos: Shy 10 11

Photos: Joan 12 13 14 15 16

Saturday July 5th

The next morning I asked if she wanted to go to the mall for lunch and a movie..she liked that idea and we did..she never tried or hinted for more money or gifts while we were in the mall ( I look for those signs) .

We got back about 4:00 I asked if she would like to spend Saturday night with me also..she said she would like that, I would be by about 8:00 (the pics you see with her in the white T-shirt is Saturday, she was barfined already with me so she didnt have to wear the bikini outfit).

Saturday night was an experiment for me...a majority of you reading this will not understand or agree...but after the generic treatment I recieved Friday I wanted to see how I was treated Saturday without my infuance..let me sum it up ....here is a girl who I barfined just so she could go home and feel better, took out and did my best to show a great time, lunch and a movie next day, went out barhoping that night to see friends, back to bedrock (where she seemed happy) to dance and more drinks..after that back to my hotel..I made no advancements, I wanted to see if she felt any obligation or passion for me....everything was her call...I didnt get any

I knew with just a word I could get almost, if not all, that I wanted from her, but I wanted her to want it as much as I did. I was really attracted to her attitude as much as her beauty and I am sad it didnt work out.

Sunday July 5th

Kind of bummed out but we cant have everything so we work with what we have, in my bar hopping this week there is about four that I feel are barfinable and ready to go, this is my last night here and I leave tomorrow at 2:30

Its about 2:00 in the afternoon and I spot a cutie in one of the ST joints and decide to have a beer and check her out closer...looks good...so 600 pesos for a nice nut pop in my hotel room, lets go.

Her name is Christine and she was very nervous, so I offered her to take a relaxing shower, then well have a couple of beers and watch some T.V....After about 30 minutes she really opened up, said she had a bad session couple days ago a guy fucked her in the ass against her wishes and she was pretty shook up over it. But now she was relaxed with me and it turned into one of the best sessions on this trip, really wish I would have found her earlier..would make a nice daily 2:00 pop session.

Photo: Christine 17

Rita at the owls nest was my top pick for tonight, flat chested but a nice chinese looking facial features that turned me on. So I went by and asked if she wanted barfined tonight, OK, will be back about 10:00 (had to go see the others and say goodbye)

Photos: Rita 18 19

About 9:00 started getting really tired, went back to the hotel for a quick nap, around 10:30 picked Rita up and went to the cambodia club where a friend of hers worked...now of course the bedrock is right next door so we went over so I could say goodbye to everyone, we had a good time, everybody wished me back real soon (you get that kind of treatment if you spend 6000 in drinks, 2000 in tips and 3 barfines in one week LOL ) of course they have to sing me a farwell song ( would have paid another 500 for them to stop) I did buy Joan a couple of drinks, I would like to think she was jelious that I was with another girl but of course that is just a fantasy.

Went back to the hotel about 2:00 and I was dog tired, told Rita I'm sorry lets try for some fun in the morning.....Rita woke up about 8:00 stating she had her health check up that morning and would be done about 11:00...I asked if she wanted to come back for lunch..yes she would like that, and she would like to ride along with me to Manila to see me off ( 1st warning bell )...I joked if you fail the STD test dont come back.

I must have drained myself of all body fluids because I didnt really care if we have sex or not when she comes back and this airport trip thing was suspisious...so I decided to give here a long leash and see how far she will go.

At 11:00 she shows up with a friend from the owls nest (friends gotta eat too right, and makes it difficult for any boom boom.. LOL ) so we go to the mall and they suggest jollibee, screw that, lets get real food so we go to kenny rogers chicken.. after that we walk around the mall..they want to look at cell phones , I comment that on my next trip I need to get a phone and I also comment how can anybody live here without a phone...Rita says she doesnt have a phone and points out phones that she hopes to get one day ( 2nd warning bell )...I see a brownie stand and asked the girls if they would like a brownie...of course..I pick a brownie, Rita's friend picks a brownie, Rita get the 12 piecs assortment gift box ( LOL )...now we head back to the hotel to watch some T.V. I'm sitting up with my back on the headboard her friend is laying at the foot of the bed, and Rita is laid across me..her manner is more flurting that sexual...she starts talking all kind of weird shit like how she wants to come to america to be with me and work in my restaurant and be with me etc etc. ( almost forgot, in the mall she said mamasan gave her permission to go to the airport with me for another barfine...LOL..not happening )...after a while of her rambling I laughed and said "based on the fact that we havent even boom boomed yet, arn't you getting a little ahead of yourself ?"...soon it was time to break up this little party so I could finish packing, Rita grabed 3 juice boxes from the icebox and asked if she could have them...I just laughed gave her a kiss goodbye and wished her well.

Trip summary...

I had a good time, cant wait to go back again...every trip like this I learn more about the girls and more about myself...This thing we do is of course is a fantasy, a great virtual reality...we go to a bar.. we invite a pretty young girl to join us for a drink..we are hitting it off, she thinks I'm funny, attractive, and desires sex as much as I do....this appeals to generally two types of people..the ones who really lived that way in younger days always good pussy around anytime...and the ones because of a variety of curcumstances never lived that way.

Its very easy to forget the obvious when you get caught up in the game, I allowed my feelings to be hurt when I turned the fantasy off in the hotel room. In the future I will still always treat the girls with the utmost respect and never try to take there dignity, I will still crave the GFE and enjoy the hunt...but I will not leave the fantasy for reality in the future til I get my teabag treatment.

Thanks for reading I hope you enjoyed it.

Thanks for sharing your POV. You've illustrated that there's no real downside to being kind - you'll get either an appreciative response; a compliant response based on her opportunistic understanding of your context; or you'll (eventually) realize you've erred in choosing one who only cares about taking advantage. Either way you will have behaved honorably while making the world a slightly better place. ;-)

We all sometimes disregard our radar when the hormones kick in, and maybe someday it will actually sink in that these girls are generally interested in only the Three Fundamental Goals:

1. Extracting as much money as efficiently as possible.
2. Hitting the jackpot (someone who will rescue/sponsor her & her family).
3. Having a real good time.

For some reason this part of the story didnt get put in my original post, this part should be right after shy girl session.


Wednesday July 2nd...I fall in love.

I'm out doing the barhop thing lookin for talent and I wander into Bedrock...motherload of hotties but one in particular stands out now there is so much talent here I wait a while for asking any down for drinks, even bargirls don't want to be 2nd choice so I'm drinking with the head waitress and mamasan getting some feedback. the two I pick for drinks looked like cherry girls but mamasan says no there not, and there sisters...(I know what your thinking but I didn't want to cross a line and chance fucking something up) so we drink and have a really good time, I have never seen a bargirl with so much fun loving energy..and being that kind of guy myself, I got smitten.
Her name is Joan, unlike most her English was not very good, so conversation was limited but she acted responsive toward me. After a while I asked to barfine her, she acted funny about it, I talked to the head waitress, the music was so loud I couldn't really hear but she indicated there was a problem, I acted like no big deal had another round and left.
I have never been turned down for a barfine , never had a runner, never had a situation like this, may sound really pompous but my feelings were hurt....went barhopping found shy girl.

Thursday July 3rd

It really bothered me so I went back the next night picked up the party where we left off, when I had a chance took the head waitress outside to properly explain and to hear her response. Turns out Joan was in mens right now and would not be able to barfine til Friday but she did want me to barfine. Now I feel a lot better, a little while later Joan and mamasan have some words and Joan seemed upset, I asked head waitress what was wrong she said Joan was cramping really bad and wanted to leave, mamasan said no had to stay and dance. I got Joan and mamasan together and said I would barfine Joan for tonight so she could leave and relax and get better, and if she felt like it I would barfine her tomorrow to be with me (shut up, I know) if she wanted to.
Well of course she did and seemed very happy about it, I felt really good had another round with the crew and went off to see las vegas girl.

Friday July 4th

Kicked around for the day got a non eventful ST from one of the side joints, laid by the pool, played poker, and looking forward to Joan that night.
A couple of the door guys from Orchard I remembered from my previous trip said they wanted to go out some night so I thought this would be a good night with Joan to do that, having locals join us would make her feel more at ease and I really like these guys (tony and danny) anyway I tell them to hook up with me at bedrock at 8:00... I'm there at 7:00 and barfine and fill Joan on the details, when they show up we head for a couple of joints at the mall then to the Doll House, having a great time and I tell the guys if there is a girl they like I will buy drinks so they can meet them, Tony says no because he is married, Danny also says no because of marrage but Tony breaks in and says he's single.. just shy...I dont know what to think until a friend comes up to say hello and I quickly confront him on Danny's marriage statis...HE'S SINGLE...Now we got to get him a girl, I INSIST HE PICK ONE OUT...He does pick a cute girl, but he is so shy he has a hard time putting his arm around her..if I didnt think he would freak and not do her I would have paid the bar fine for him....How in the hell can a guy who works in the heart of fields avenue be shy???????
Anyway thats about the time Danella from las vegas club was spotted.

Now we break up the party , time for some alone time with Joan.

We go back to the room, the usual shower, turn down the bed, watch some T.V. routine...Then to bed, some cuddling and I ask for a blow job...and she responds ..sure whatever you want she says.

A good session by definition but I wanted and expected a little more...sure I got head, my balls licked and a good fuck but I expected and was hoping for more.

Kemper,

I had a similar happening with Joan from Bedrock on my last trip. However, unlike you I never pursued her after the initial barfine refusal. I did see her swimming at the PB pool a day or so later and she was with a guy considerably younger than I. I assumed that she was a picky barfine and would probably not be great company if I pursued. Your report confirms my initial hunch. (Although she does have a SMOKING hot rack that I would dearly love to explore with my tongue!) There's too many other fish in the AC sea.

I tend to be very laid back when in AC and don't let stuff like this bother me. I also try to be nice to the girls. However, there is a distinct difference between being nice and being in control. From what I read, you were nice, but NOT in control. You need to realize that most of these girls WANT you to be in control. (By control I don't mean controlling, just in charge of the situation.) That's that way they were raised - to expect men to be in charge. When you fail to take control of the situation, many girls see that as a sign of weakness and they will take advantage of you. It would seem from your report that you experienced a little bit of that. For what it's worth, I believe that you can be nice AND be in control at the same time.

There's an old thread on this site entitled Latinas 101 written by Hombrecito (I believe). Althought written specifically about girls in Latin America, I believe that it applies to PI girls as well. This thread and its sister Latinas 102 should be required reading for all "nice guy" members.

In any event, I enjoyed your report. Thanks for taking the time to put it up.

EA

Thanks el apodo good advice, as it turns out I was not refused it was a mens situation and I realize now about the in control part, I believe you are right.

Kemper,

your honest report was eye opening. your hunt for girls seems fun. and more than anything, you know as we all do, you win some and sometimes it doesn't work out but at least you know exactly what you want and how you will go about going for it. the GFE is something i haven't tasted yet (have only been out and about on one trip) but will be hunting for as well.

anyway, thanks for the photos and information. i'll be there in the early part of august after a couple weeks in Pattaya. let me know if you are around! would love to buy you a drink!

Thanks for the report. I don't know how I missed the Kenny Rogers Roaster place, but I did. Was the chicken anorexic or was is good?

I always thought when they grab your crotch it meant they liked you. I never knew they were actually just trying to get me to buy more drinks...;) You have to respect a woman who just goes for the crotch. I havent met many women in the world who are willing to just go for the gems...

What is a barfine ?

>>"I want you to fuck me hard in the ass."

OK, names and termas for THOSE kind of PI girls!

Hi Kemper
I have to agree with you that being a gentleman doesn't hurt. I also prefer a GFE but I don't feel that you have to flash a lot of cash to get it, normally a little respect, kindness and laughter do the trick. I also like the fact that you don't make promises you have no intention of keeping that is another sign of a true gent thanks for all the info.

Agree 100% with your GFE comment.

I find treating the girl as a GF and not a bar girl does wonders.

I've had a number of girls who "will not" BF anyone when I'm in town, "will not" even accept a drink, even from a regular when I'm in town and they've showed me all the texts of guys asking what's wrong, why they're being so stuck-up.

Pretty amazing, Surprises the hell out of me when it happens.

When I treat the girl like a BG there's a clear difference in her GFE back to me.