After 15 hours plus and Your plane is finally landing into metro manila and once the plane has almost come to a complete stop your weary eyes and body and much needed brushing of your teeth and messed up hair really doesn't matter at this very moment as the excitement now begins to just surface, Then the airplane door lifts upwards and as you walk thru from plane to terminal IT hits you the musk smell of the PI it almost has a remembrance to it kind of like when your better half finally left you and you were moving and found that old can of Lysol that has been hidden in your pantry for some years and you spray it around your living room trying to push away bad memories of the past and as walk thru this airport a sense of belonging and yearning comes about you your mind is now beginning to race will my ride be here will immigration lines be long will my suitcase filled with my best cleaned clothes and little gifts of candy and trinkets for those creatures that I have dreamed of on a nightly basis since my last journey of bliss will that be intact should I cash in a hundred spot to have pesos on me and once these tasks are completed you arrive thru the doors of the airport thinking of a nice relaxing rest on your ride to the Matrix but as you find out your 2 hour taxi is anything but relaxing to your mind now it really begins to pump with many thoughts and as your subconscious begins talking to you in many ways will she be there is she out on a barfine will the creatures of lust and beauty be better then last time will the lineups of last Improve, Is that one bar I went still have a great happy hour will my drinking buddies be there I hope the hotel resv I made isn't screwed up, IF she gives me problems I will butterfly this time for sure because last time I gave to EVE and the serpent that rolled down that tree I told myself I wouldn't do that the boards always say don't do it the so called true vets of AC say don't do it but can I , This trip will be different I feel it I am a true butterfly I am my brothers keeper and no one little creature of the night can change that. AT that moment you arrive your final destination your hotel the compound where you will stake your prizes and claims because you are a true man and no one little 100 pound creature can hold you back from your manhood, You check-in everything this time goes smoothly is this a sign that this trip will be different, It is now half past midnight you are tired your eyes are glassy your body feels like you just came back from WW2 as the little man carries your luggage turns on your lights your aircon and gets you settled in and the hotel room door closes behind you its now for real it finally sets in you are HERE. The cold sweat from the long day and half now begins to hit you a tad you begin the countdown as you unpack in your head many thoughts are now racing so fast its almost like you a dsl provider information is now moving at light speed as you finish up with that long awaited shower your fresh clothes put on its now close to 1:00 am you now you are behind the gun somewhat the little creatures of the night are now starting to make homes for themselves as you walk thru the streets the stares at you are becoming more and more THEY know you are fresh into the MATRIX they can sense it by the way you are walking looking and smiling they know you are to be gotten they know you are here on a mission they know you feel that you a mans man you are the supreme butterfly no one little person is going to get in your way you are too strong or at least you think you are, Its now 3:15 am you are in deep 10 or so SM. lights the creatures of the night are starting to show there blood thirst for you the tiredness is setting in the alcohol is now talking to you ,, GO ahead take her it says she is the one she will make you feel special she will be there for you all of your needs and desires of the past few months will now be fulfilled thru her she is your destiny and with one quick swoop of your Huge ATM wallet she is now yours to do what you do best make her bow down to you, your the boss now, ITS 8:30 am you awaken from your jet lagged sleep you turn over and there she IS the little one from last night The one that made you feel like a true man the one whom bowed down to you then one who did what you told her the one whose eyes were so innocent and almost doll like the one whom skin feels like the soft soap you use on occasion in your home country when you are getting ready for a date the one who's body is so light to the touch and her butt almost feels serene You cant remember the last time you have felt something like that its been so long you actually get a headache thinking about it and as you are touching this little creature of the night she rolls over into your arms and snuggles closely as if you are her King her provider without you she is nothing she cant live she cant breath she cant eat You are her God and you feel like it you know you have the control and when she opens her almost like doll eyes and her soft unspoken smile of bliss comes across her face right then you really are in the Matrix. AS time pass by Your trip to AC is now coming to a close the final hour of countdown begins your soft little creature that you meet at 3:15 am 2 weeks previous now has that look of abandonment on her small but yet doll like face the last 2 weeks have been a bliss of time as you are staring into her eyes your brain is now on total recall where did it go all this time why so fast is it really over am I leaving now and as your taxi pulls up its 5:15 am your plane leaves in 4 hours you look over to your doll like little creature and tears are rolling down her eyes almost like the waterfalls you see on the discovery channel from time to time you give her the final hug you clinch her like you are going off to war and you know you will die for sure and never see her your heart is pounding your brain is now scrambling to find home your body language is crying out you feel like you did when you were 9 years old in the playground and you first see the girl of your dreams that you have a deep rooted crush on all thru grade and high school the memories are now hard on you and as the taxi door close behind you, Your little creature has been paid in full plus an extra little tip and trike ride money home and as your journey begins home you feel a sense of relaxation over your body you know the plane ride home is going to be long and you are going to be tired when you back to your homeland, You finally arrive home with that smirk half ass smile to yourself your proud and aren't scared to show it .ITS now 24 hours later the jet lag has set in full speed its 4:30 am in your home country you have been awake all night what is she doing is she on a barfine is she touching someone like she touched me her smell I miss it her soft smile I miss it and mostly she isn't her to roll over on me when I awaken, BUT worse WHY wasn't I the butterfly I was supposed to be why did I fall in love with HER it wasn't supposed to be, However in the Matrix nothing is real.

IF you have been to AC you know exactly what I am speaking of ,,, IF you have never been this serves as a warning Once you GO,, There is no TURNING BACK. YOU HAVE BEEN WARNED ......
A.K.A. MRSTEIN.......

Mr. Stein

AC is indeed intoxicating. The women are wonderful and caring and attentative and magical... and whores.

You want to know what your girl was doing after you went to the airport? She was looking for her next barfine.

Many guys go there and meet an "amazing girl". She is the ultimate courtesan, making them feel like a million bucks!! However, 99.99999975% are exactly the same. They see you as a way of making the rent and/or getting money for their Filipino boyfriend and/or drugs. Really a shame, eh?

When you start thinking that "this girl is DIFFERENT then the other bargirls" is when you get into trouble. Remember, do not think your girl is ANY different then ANY provider ANYWHERE in the world. Whenever someone talks about how "their girl is different" we all just laugh. Don't tell me your girl's different unless she has 3 tits...

Experience is what you get when you didn't get what you wanted. You just got some experience my friend...

E

PS - Personally, I bring my BF to the airport with me so she can blow me on the way there...

Dear Mrstein, Wow! other than not having enough comma in your letter, and way too many run-on-sentences, your story is fascinating. I really feel it for you. True, Epimetheus is right when he said every working girl is the same. All they cared about is your wallet. I know it's true. You know it's true. But how come once in awhile we all have this love-sick feelings for these whores. Right now, I'm going thru the same thing you are with a girl down in Tijuana. I can't stop thinking about her. I spent every week-end with her, at the bar, stay overnight with her and I just love waking up in the morning with her hugging me. And the smell of her soft skin is too mind boggling to describe.So Mr. Stein, I really really feel it for you. You must misses her soooo much. At least I only live an hour away from my Whore girlfriend. For you, I can imagine the loneliness feeling that you are experiencing. Like you, I am a big time player all of my life.I am what most women consider very attractive, and I owned my own business, making well over six figures. So girls come and go for me like changing my underwears.Nice girls from good families to talented girl that was on an olympic swimming team, I fucked them all. But one day, this PUTA came into my life down in TJ at a bar. Ever since, I've spend alot of money on her and the payback I get is alot of great sex, but also, many many lonely feelings when I am not with her. The worst feeling of all, is when we said good-bye each week, she would say that she LOVE ME. But as I goes on my own way and busy with my daily life, I cannot help but thinking and knowing that she would and will say the same thing to the next guy that threat her nice and have decent money. And how she would spend the night with them, holding them inher arms. This is the feeling that kills me right now. What the fuck is wrong with us MrStein??? I know that one day, I will wake up and be totally over her, but as of now, the feeling is horrible. I wish you alot of luck MrStein. Try to keep busy and not think about her. I know it's hard, but you got to be strong. Also try to get out and meet new people in your community. Drop me an e-mail if you wish, or if you want the board to feel your pain, then just respond right here. Good luck MrStein!

you guys crack me up...enough said !!!!!!

Mr. Stein, Have you considered decaf?
E- "An education is what you get when you read the fine print, experience is what you get when you don't"

Archie

Experience stings - whether it's a hit to the head or a hit to the wallet (oftentimes both!!).

E

It's not just the hard-core putas from the Philippines. I had a girlfriend in the states who was born there (came here as a little girl)and she made me feel the same way--but she could not be loyal. Something about how their women are raised and socialized. I know, I know, they're not all like that...but there's a certain element of Filipina culture that produces killer nymphomaniac dragonladies. Best girlfriends in the world, so long as you understand it's only for "short time." Good thing I never married the little temptress. And good thing you got back on the plane and brought your bewitched ass back home. And I mean bewitched quite literally: there's a whole lot of brujeria going on in PI, and those little girls either practice the craft themselves or employ someone on their behalf who does! Tienen mucho cuidado--Be very careful.

I think it depends on the guy more than the girl. Look at the girl...if you have no chance at landing her in the states, it's likely she is telling you what you want to hear while being repulsed by looking at you or listening to your boring stories. If you could easily land her in the states as a normal girl, it's likely her feelings for you may be genuine...just be careful and tread lightly. Most mongers do not like to admit this but it's the truth.

Blazer, I like your approach!!!

I was base in the PI, for years I seen many sailors that never been away from their Mothers or never had a real girlfriend in their lives run off in marry WHORES they picked up in the bars and brought them back to state side most of these guys NEVER had or FUCKED pussy or a (10) they didn't have to pay for and when they would go out to sea I would see these little WHORES bringing drunken sailors back to their apartments were I stayed making extra $$$ on the side turning tricks.

But, I have seen guys and know a few that been marry for years 15 to 20 years to girls from the PI that they met FAR AWAY from the buy me drinks bars and the WHORES on the streets or massage parlors, so their are some good ones but don't marry a bar girl and then be SHOCKED when she cheats on you.

Because if she wants some $$$$ for some shit she sees that she wants from the stores OR IF HER FAMILY writes or called her crying about how they NEED some $$$$ for food or other things TRUST ME if you are not around or if you are at work she WILL go to a bar or next door or to the pool area were you live and SHOW THAT LITTLE BROWN ASS of hers that a lot of American Gringos haven't seen before and want to try out in the bed in are willing to pay big $$$$$ to have some of that PI pussy, saving them a LONG ASS trip to the PI.

I have FUCKED some of these whores and bar girls that were marry to Joe blow the dumb sailor, THESE girls are very child-like and need more attention then the avg. girl you would met here in the states unless you have the time to put in the work on these girls FUCK them share a few drinks and MOVE ON, but DON'T marry them.


KidCisco

KidCisco methinks is right. Heed his warning. My old girl found some rich dumb guy to marry her, too--just by SHOWING THAT LITTLE BROWN ASS of hers, which was oh so fine! And he went hook, line, and sinker, proposing marraige by the end of the first week, without knowing anything about her (or how many other guys she had been fucking that same month they met (myself included). That PI poonani is some potent stuff, don't get addicted (at least not to a single poonani exclusively). 'Cause they can tell when you're addicted and will take advantage accordingly.

Thanks for all of the great resopnses .TO be honest with everyone here I have been to AC a number of times ,When I wrote this I had just come back from a 2 week trip in which I BF many girls but as I was in front of my computer I started thinking how it was the first time for me a couple of years ago ,When I did get stuck on one sheild for about 10 days or so,Even took her to boracay !!!! THE jist of this rant was what most guys feel there first time to AC or even Thailand as I have been there a couple of times also.I tend to post mostly on TSM and GOTO PHIL ,,,,,Not that this board isnt worthy of it ,IT just seems its more focused on TJ which isnt bad BUT not ASIA ???? I will say this thu there are many great posts on here and great travelers .IF anyone ever wants to hook up and do ASIA drop me a line we shall go .......THANKS Keith A.K.A. MRSTEIN KSHEIT@aol.com