By Eastcoastdude on Wednesday, January 22, 2003 - 04:47 pm: Edit |
I got a lot of positive comments on my last report, thanks to all. Can't help but feel I out did myself. Hope I can follow up with something similar, better is surely out of my reach. Trip started of slow, still a good time. I had high expectations, problems, some ups and downs left me feeling disappointed, frustrated but eventually it ended on a very high note. Gotta love it, just my kind of trip!!
I purposely left the previous report unfinished. Was hoping to get some discussion going. I guess noone was interested. Need to finish my last day before I start the next report. Here goes.
Just before I left she wanted to meet me at Kennedy Park. 10:30. Felt certain time for "the pay off" I went to the park and bought some gifts for friends and returned. Chatted a bit. Like many girls suddenly her English got a lot better. Really don't understand why they do this. She admitted that she was attracted to me, had developed some feelings for me. Thought I was a wonderful man. Didn't know how American men were but Latin men couldn't go without sex for very long. Seemed very mature for her age. Sex is a natural act. It's a need we all have. It's pure nature. Put a cookie in front of a hungry child and they will eat that cookie. Even with a price attached to it, offer a man sex and.......... I was really taken back by her. For a gal 24 years old she had some incredible insight. She is also human and has those needs. Just can't bring herself to jump into bed with anyone. Her feelings for me made it something she could do. I saw disaster here. She seemed to communicate it as nothing but a sexual act, human nature. To her the sexual act seemed to mean more, there needed to be an emotional attraction, feelings involved. The question here is, could she put aside her emotions, experience it as physical satisfaction? I felt certain she could not separate the two. My problem, if I reject her offer what is her reaction going to be? My experience, women don't deal with rejection real well, especially of the sexual nature. Accept the offer, once its time to go our separate ways what would her reaction be? Final decision was she would want, hope, maybe even expect something much deeper coming from this. Eventually I would end up breaking this girls heart. Just couldn't do it. Took sometime but she understood. Wasn't angry or upset but it did create an even larger problem. As the conversation went on I could see and sense the growing admiration and respect she had for me. I guess I'm getting soft in my old age. Maybe somewhere along the way I developed a conscious. 20 years ago I surely would have done this girl, walked away and never looked back. Will also admit my plans of returning to Lima was a huge part of my decision. Had I not planed to return then more than likely I would have done her, making sure she knew my plans. Too misleading, returning, walking around Pizza Alley would be throwing salt in her wounded heart. Am I failing as a monger? Assuming she's still working at Pizza Alley in November I have more to deal with. I certainly don't want to avoid the place. Be it for me personally, or for her, I don't want her to realize the purpose I am visiting Lima. I'm open to any and all advice.
Right now I'm thinking and maybe even hoping the initial infatuation will have worn off. Not all of it. Hopefully will still be attracted, willing, but less emotions involved. No doubt in my mind this would be one wild ride.
My final night in Lima; had a 4:30 AM flight out of town so just made a phone call. Used this site and set up an appointment with Rosemarie. Claudita Same service I found Syunami. Settled for 3 hours $125. FYI, what happens here is the girl and her "ring leader" will arrive at the hotel. Chat a bit, pay the girl, in this case Rosemarie. They disappear into the bathroom. I'm assuming they divide up the money. When they return the ring leader thanked me and left. Chatted with Rosemarie. Ended up on the discussion of photos. Like Syunami on the second visit they would provide me with free photos of themselves. She was curious as to why I wanted them, Internet? Being honest and am being honest with you guys. If a gal asks me not to post the photos on the Internet I give them my word and hold to it. Rosemarie had a head cold so made something's rather difficult. Will give her credit she did her best and as all other encounters in Lima was terrific. Of course she offered phone number, it would be a little cheaper if I did not use the service. Much to my surprise she told me I could take photos, no restrictions. Guess she must have taken a liking to me.
Photos: Meet Rosemarie 01 02 03 04 05 06
By Canonperdido on Wednesday, January 22, 2003 - 06:19 pm: Edit |
Is there a chance on this trip you might make it to some other cities in Peru.
Last year I was with a girl friend in Cusco. There are a few of the mountain idians that I found really attractive. Most do not appeal to me, but a few were really beautiful.
Just wondered if you would be expanding your horizens.
CP
By Johnlennon90210 on Tuesday, May 26, 2009 - 05:27 pm: Edit |
guys how is the safety of lima and cuzco and maachu pichu area. it's not like rio and brazil is it? let me know thanks.