very informitive.. now for the good part.. the pics please : )

Birdie--read his first sentence. I think that was directed at you. Putz.

BD:

Can't we all just get along.

MM

"Birdie--read his first sentence. I think that was directed at you. Putz."

Amen. There's nothing like the anticipation of a trip and putting in the time and effort to produce a report just to have some destitute loser shit on it. The effects are in evidence above as now no one has any eye candy to enjoy.

It happened to me on Bangkok tonight, the perpetrator is still a "big deal" over there who has undermined what was once a quality forum. I and many others have discarded that forum like a used condom, since Pattaya Addicts and secrets forum have all the info you need and made BKK tonight more or less irrelevant.

Moarle of the story: Hombre should ban birdlips or risk CH becoming another irrelevant forum.

Bigpoppa,

Just because someone in another forum made you look like an idiot doesn’t mean I should be banned from CH…. And while the original poster MAY be to some degree, referring to me in the first paragraph of his report, I doubt very seriously I am the sole reason for the comments… Plenty of others around here do, or have done, as you claim I do..

“ There’s nothing like the anticipation of a trip and putting in the time and effort to produce a report just to have some destitute loser shit on it”… I know the feeling all to well but, I’m a real man so, I can take it…

No you're not. You're a child who dishes it out and can't take it. A 47 year old child at that. Obviously I struck a nerve here....pretty cool.

Just because you were mildly criticized in your one report and actually given some good advice doesn't mean you have to be a jerk off everywhere. Noone does this shit as much and as consistently as you do. It's not a claim, it's recorded in your posts.

You and your ilk are the reason he won't post pics. If you can't see that, you're in denial. It's not about whether someone can take it but why should they even think about putting up with it? With one report, zero photos and lots of cowardly comments, you have no room to say what anyone should have to take...you're worthless here.

If anyone disagress, feel free to defend bird lips in the space below.

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Perhaps this site should initiate a 90 day probation period and if you're a proven douche you'll be disposed of with no refund.

BP:

Even if you put BL on a 90 day probation, he could just change his user name, and be alive again.

Sometimes you just have to live with a dork even if you don't like it.

I am not disagreeing with your about BL, but some things are just hard to fix.

MM

MM,

You're probably right. Hopefully though, some honest feedback that doesn't stoop to his level forces him to know what he is even if he wont' concede it.

Bigpoppa

Nonsense… > YOU accusing me < of being childish is down right ludicrous> ..Its YOU and a few others who are doing all the crying around here, not me.. I think “Bigbaby” might be a more appropriate handle for you .. At least we can recognize you by the way you act rather than by the image you wish to portray… and you needn’t flatter yourself thinking you got under my skin a little..lol.. You didn’t.. no one does, no matter what they or YOU say.. I’m not in the least bit sensitive when facing up to ill-conceived opinions, as was yours so, you can stop patting yourself on the back..

Furthermore,

“ just because you were mildly criticized in your one report and actually given some good advice, doest mean you have to be a jerk off everywhere. “…… well, I would take issue with your use of the words “ mildly criticized ” but, its neither here nor there with respect to whats being discussed here.. The issue here is whether or not > I < am the reason this guy wont post pictures… And your assertion that I am a “ jerk off everywhere” is without its merits so, I wont take issue with that either..

“ no one does this shit as much and as consistently as you do. Its not a claim, its recorded in your posts “ …. . Statistically speaking, I doubt you are correct but, even if there is a kernel of truth to what you are saying, Placing yourself up on a pedestal because YOU don’t do it as often as the next guy is like a cold blooded murderer taking the moral high ground because he only killed two people as apposed to the serial killer who killed 5.. LMAO….

“ you and your ilk are the reason he wont post pics”…. .. He never said that. Where do you get off speaking for him anyway?.. Was he you?.. BTW, Your use of the word “ilk” suggests you are acknowledging what I’ve been saying all along, that being , even if I AM partially to blame, there are others just as blamable as I.

“ if you cant see that you are in denial ”… I do see that and have acknowledged I see it... Its you who doesn’t see it.. Its YOU who doesn’t even see what you yourself said… Its YOU who’s in denial, not me…

“ its not about whether someone can take it but why should they even think about putting up with it”…. …….well, when you put your personal business out there, you open it up to scrutiny. That’s just the way it is. Don’t blame me for it…


“ with one report, zero photos, and lots of cowardly comments, you have no room to say what anyone should have to take… you’re worthless here “……. Oh no, here we go with that, “your still green so be quiet” mentality.. Get over yourself will ya… geeeez

“ if anyone disagrees, feel free to defend bird lips in the space below”

I don’t need defending thank you.. I’m good…

(Message edited by birdlips on July 19, 2011)

(Message edited by birdlips on July 19, 2011)

It struck me as odd that someone who hasn't posted any pics urged me to do so. Then it dawned on me: infiltrator.

Birdlips fits the profile perfectly: she joins posing as a guy going through a divorce, referring to his wife as "the cunt" to get tight with us (predictable), posts a single report enumerating several male-potency problems as if to suggest or wish them on us, including one that is impossible: ejaculating without an erection!? The other details in that report could have easily been garnered from other sources (Google). And then she goes, "I’m a real man so, I can take it." LOL

Just look at the mess she's already made of this one thread: mission accomplished. Keep fighting the good fight, Birdshit. Only women are entitled to pussy, right?

Maybe we don't have to live with it: if enough members complain, Hombre could close the account with no partial refund. Then she has to pay to set up another account w/ another e-mail and wonder if Hombre's watching IP addresses, etc. It's easier to keep hanging up than it is for them to keep rejoining.

I have no more problem with dykes being here than I have with them bar-fining girls overseas. It's vandals like this I don't want.

Like I said, there's little incentive to write reports. We can certainly do without the disincentives.

Assuming a member is female without any actual proof and then posting with a dialogue your assumption is correct begs criticism. Additionally, suggesting a vigilante approach to have a member removed is a slippery slope. On those rare occasions a member has been removed it was because enough individuals personally contacted Hombre on an individual basis. There is a difference. ie: directly address the situation with those in authority for a fair and reasonable solution.

(Message edited by copperfieldkid on July 19, 2011)

Another option, one I should abide by, is to NEVER respond to any of Birdshit's posts. He has made no real substantive contributions (his fake TR to AC does NOT count) and hops on here from time to time only to make posts that will stir things up (the operational definition of a troll). Trolls thrive on our responses.

Treat him like the child he is and put him in time out.

Costar

Infiltrator?.. You have got to be kidding…. You know, you sound somewhat familiar. Not your handle but, the way you express yourself. .. Hummmmm…. You are obviously well educated. Well, at least in the grammar area anyway…You write very clearly… notably coherent yet, totally full of crap.. AAhh yes.. Now I remember… YOU are my good o’l buddy POPCORN!!!!… THATS who you are… ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha… WTF do you think you’re foolin, huh?……ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha hah ah ah a

Take a hike, gas bag…..

With that said,

One only has to look ( as usual ) through the sequence of events in this thread to see where the actual problem is.. .. I made a simple request “ the pics please”.. If you will note, I even said “ please”… hu, I mean, what more do you want?… after I said that, those who obviously have some kind of chip on their shoulders for reason unbeknownst to me, grabbed their battle ax’s and began assaulting everything in sight bearing the name “birdlips”…

And one more thing, Costar aka Mr. Popcorn… I have to disagree with your little incentive / disincentive analogy…. Everyone here has their own reasons why they do what they do, and i do believe those personal reasons are incentive enough…

BL:

Why don't you just say it? I know you are afraid to say it because you do not want to embarrass yourself, so I will say if for you. You think you are perfect, and smarter than the wrest of us.

Well, fore once I agree with you, and we are all dumb shits and just don't get it or do not understand you.

Now that we know you are so smart, please go somewhere else so that you will not show us up anymore, and make us feel less than you.

Thanks BL, I am sure you will be much happier in your own world now, and not dealing with us dumb shits.

Have a great life BL.

MM

(Message edited by majormajor on July 19, 2011)

I have never said it because I don’t think its true, though I have to admit, lately I‘ve been wondering….. However, if you wish to believe it, fine, I’m flattered…

I’m finished with this thread.. Say more if you wish but I have no intention of letting this become YOUR and a few other Hombres place to do their bird bashing… I’m done.. See you on the outside

@CopperfieldKid:

It's not a slippery slope at all.

We all pay the access fee. Some freeloaders seem to think that they needn't do anything more and that the site owes them something, as if it were just an amateur porn site. I disagree.

Although everyone has his own opinion of what this site is (or should be), the unavoidable fact is that without content, there would be no site.

The badgering or criticizing of reporters by freeloaders (i.e. pure consumers of content who don't publish trip reports) should not be tolerated. Silly "free speech" groupies should find someplace else to play activist. (Usenet was a mess because flaming went unchecked. The spam was easy enough to avoid.)

I see CH as a forum for exchanging information that can be used for trip planning. How inclined do you think reporters are to write about the often magnificent intimate experiences that we've had with women knowing that some sarcastic little wretch is waiting in the weeds with flip comments or put-downs?

I have no idea what you meant by "a vigilante approach." I was suggesting complaining to Hombre, the same thing you suggested. Regarding proof, this is not a court room. "The shoe fits" standard is good enough.

Costar- no offense intended at all (appreciate you posting the report), but after a dozen posts, your also pretty opinionated about what the site is/isn't and getting baited into diatribe. Relax - you worry way to much about the peanut gallery. Post if you want (or don't) and move on to your next adventure. It's like taking a turd and not flushing only hopefully it doesn't stink the joint up.

hrmm

(Message edited by donmarco on July 26, 2011)

Costar,

first, your report was very good and all reports are welcomed. I enjoyed the read.

Your response to my post above was not a denial of what I wrote, in fact, it wasn't even a non - denial. I think a re-read might clarify the reason for my post in the first place.

CS: "Birdlips fits the profile perfectly: she joins posing as a guy..."
CS: "Just look at the mess she's already made..."
CFK: "Assuming a member is female without any actual proof and then posting with a dialogue your assumption is correct begs criticism." -It was shortly thereafter the Moderators wisely moved this thread.

I totally agree with DM, well except for the hrmm!

CFK

(Message edited by copperfieldkid on July 27, 2011)

had a run in with double posts for a bit - not sure why, thus the hrmmm ;)