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By Innocent on Wednesday, July 25, 2001 - 09:27 am:

There are exceptions but there is a genetic and cultural
respect for the will and desires of the male in asian women
that I have not experiened elsewhere. Besides their hair
skin and all around exotic looks and mannerisms for me there
is no comparison.

Dog is right though when the lights are off between the
sheets the differene is minimal with the exception of taste.

My favorite flavor is Thai vegetarian. How sweet it is!!!

By Ootie on Wednesday, July 25, 2001 - 05:38 pm:

I gotta agree totally with Innocent's post. I love Asian
and Polynesian women for all those reasons.

A Want to go to Hawaii for a lei kind of guy,

Out-of-Towner

By Innocent on Wednesday, July 25, 2001 - 07:20 pm:

Ootie,

I lived on the "big island" and had friends who lived om
Maui years ago that I used to visit. So I've spent alot of
time there.

I don't know about now, but years ago the locals where not
only unfriendly to white Americans but would sometimes pull
guys out of there cars at red lights, beat the shit out of
them and rape their girl friends if one was unfortunate to
be present.

I was recently talking with someone who was telling me that
Maui is now very "yuppiesh".

Hard to beleive it was all hippies when I was there.

Go to Thailand, go to Thailand, you won't be sorry.
Enjoy!!!

By N8guy on Thursday, July 26, 2001 - 07:46 am:

Well, let me tell you that I have always had a thing for
latina woman. They have that sexiness and fiery nature that
is such a turn on. I've never had much of an attraction for
asian women. UNTIL last year. I went to the Philippines.
Now, I'm in love with asian women.

In the Philippines, the gals have a mix of Asian and Spanish
heritage. What a mix. They've got the Asian demeanor, cute
almond eyes and the beautiful brown skin. WOW!

However, after being with a Filipina gal, now I've got a
greater appreciation for all asian gals. But, don't get me
wrong, I've still got my thing for the Latin girls.

By Innocent on Thursday, July 26, 2001 - 08:06 am:

NBguy,

I hear you. That's where it all started for me.

We would do our R&R from Nam in PI, Olongopo/Subic Bay.
Here I was a 19 year old kid thrown into what was considered
by many to be the sex capital of the world at the time.

I went absolutely crazy and continued to fuck my way through
Asia since. It's funny I had relly lost interest in PI
chicks. Until I started doing an increadible pro here in SD
about two years ago.

She was stunning and the best part was we actualy went out
few times and we started to trade my services for hers.
That lasted for about a year but I think she wanted to get
serious and I was not giving the right response and she cut
me off. Thai/Chinese is the cream de la cream for me. Go
to Thailand now.

By Pasathai on Thursday, July 26, 2001 - 09:09 am:

Well, IMHO you seem to really get ur moneys worth in
thailand. Get away from Bkk and things are much more fun
for your investment ( getting there is an investment, but a
good one)

The girls there still think of us as a walking atm
machines, but don't make it so obvious as tj.


been back from los just 20 days, and hoping/planning my next
trip.

( but planning my time to tj in a few days also)


youza

By Joker on Thursday, July 26, 2001 - 10:58 am:

Hmmmm,

So Asian women are good as a girl friend and in bed? I am
seriously considering ditching my wife now. Any takers?

By Innocent on Thursday, July 26, 2001 - 11:58 am:

Joker,

In Thailand bigamy is against the law but flagrantly
ignored. The prime minister of Thaiand was photographed at
one of the big resorts with his "second family".

Instead of a huge scandle what followed was praise by the
Thai people of what a "cool" leader they had.

I Thailand you can have as many wives, second wives,
mistresses and girl friends as you can handle/afford.

So you don't have to ditch your wife. Just move to
Thailand. That would go over like a lead balloon?

By Pasathai on Thursday, July 26, 2001 - 02:50 pm:

But if you have too many "wives" there, watch ur back ( or
front) or one of ur "wives: may be "feeding the ducks"
at ur utmost expense.


jai mai dee

By Ptom on Thursday, July 26, 2001 - 05:10 pm:

Trying to decide is a bloody pain. So I would resolve it
this way

Latinas: Mon-Wed-Fri
Asians: Tue-Thu-Sat

Sunday: Whatever strikes my fancy.....

By Pasathai on Friday, July 27, 2001 - 09:43 am:

a lot would depend on how far you have to travel to meet
these dates.


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By Pecs on Friday, July 27, 2001 - 10:31 am:

Word of advice in regards to asian women in the states.
Forget it as far as sex is concerned. Maybe a novelty at
beginning but they always get burned out after a while and
then you gotta beg for it.

By Innocent on Friday, July 27, 2001 - 11:39 am:

Pecs,

Well I'm at the two year mark with my Thai wife
and so far everything is AOK. I think what you are saying
actually applies to most women with a few exceptions.

I've only had a couple in all my years that even came close
to my appetite and one was I believe was a true nyphomaniac
Theresa who occasionaly even scared me. But I hung in there.
HAHAHA. You gotta love those Sicilian nursing students.

One other was a girl friend that I had while I was living in
Puerto Rico. Pure Taino indian Julia who was always wet and
ready for action. God I'll neve forget them.

The secret is still the same act detached and a little
uninterested. I works for me.

By Balam on Friday, July 27, 2001 - 12:48 pm:

Pecs if you're talking about Asian-AMERICAN women, oh boy
yes, I gotta agree!

By Joker on Friday, July 27, 2001 - 02:22 pm:

Innocent;

My wife is American, she will never tolerate that. If I did
anything like that she would probably cut my dick off.
Hence I still have to ditch my wife. But until then
Thailand would just be my fantasy.

By Innocent on Friday, July 27, 2001 - 09:20 pm:

Joker,

It's funny that you should mention that. The Thai
men do get away with more than we can possibly conceive of
but there are some rules.

I asked my sister in-law during my last trip to Bangkok to
confirm or deny something that I had heard. She said she
would.

I told her that I heard that Thai men in general are quite
promiscuous single or married and it's OK as long as they
are reasonably discreet don't flaunt it and take care or
their financial responsiblities. She sas yes that is true.

I told her I also heard that if the men break these rules
that their wives drug them and cut their dicks off and there
are special wards in the hospitals that specialize only in
reattaching mens genitals after their wives have cut them
off. She said yes that is true.

I said that's increadible. Don't these men press charges
and have their wives imprisoned. She replied no.

They have allready lost face because their wife has done
this to them. If they go into the court
they will lose face again and many people will laugh at
them. She said people will say,"look at this guy his wife
cut his dick off" "HAHAHA.
No one ever goes to jail over this. I wonder if Mrs. Bobbit
was familiar with Thai culture?

Unbelievable, believe it. After I married my wife I asked
my old friend from England, now my brother in-law if he had
any words of wisdom or advice that might help guide me.

He said,"Yes one thing you must allways remember to lie
convincingly".

By Kendricks on Friday, July 27, 2001 - 09:28 pm:

Honesty and sincerity are the keys to a successful
relationship. If you can fake that, you've got it made.

By Innocent on Friday, July 27, 2001 - 09:40 pm:

Kendricks,

I can and have been. I'm just not sure how long I can or
want to try to keep it up?

Did you get my e-mail this afternoon?

By Kendricks on Friday, July 27, 2001 - 11:02 pm:

No, I didn't get it. My email is jdk00@yahoo.com
(Those are zeros, not oh's by the way.)

By zen4dummies on Friday, July 27, 2001 - 11:15 pm:

Pecs is right about asian women getting tired of sex.
Maybe its the physical differences between a small asian
woman and a normal sized american. I just broke up with a
Japanese born woman that has a body like a teenager. She
claimed that she liked sex but things went downhill after
the first six months. Another one loved giving and
receiving oral sex but told me she broke up with one
boyfriend because his dick was too big.

Another issue can be that asians have a tendency to be very
critical and materialistic. It was cheaper for me to go to
TJ than to take out the latest asian I was with and the
chicas do not bitch and nag like she started doing. For me
there is not a big difference between chicas who charge up
front and the asian that expects a nice dinner and a movie
every week. There is no intimacy in either case. The
chicas don't nag and complain but if the asian agrees to
spending the night the sex lasted longer. Some pluses and
minuses both ways. The asian expects to be treated like a
little princess, even when she is acting like a little
bitch.

By Balam on Friday, July 27, 2001 - 11:30 pm:

My (Asian-American) ex-wife had a book on Chinese medicine,
written by a westerner, that she got for x-mas some years
ago. I remember reading through it and getting distinctly
sweaty when I read a passage that said that according to the
understanding of Chinese medicine, a woman's interest in sex
naturally wanes once she is married, and, especially, once
she has kids. And it puts in perspective the fact that only
two generations back in her own family, the men took second
and third wives, and that those wives were NOT the objects
of jealousy. Far from it--for the first wife, the younger
wives meant (a) relief from sexual demands and (b) someone
more to boss around!!

By Innocent on Saturday, July 28, 2001 - 07:59 am:

Balam,

I have spent years traveling/living in Asia and have a Thai
wife. I can tell you that your info is about 100% accurate.
The only thing though is today number one wife does not
know details of younger wives or mistresses.

If she did you have the possibility of getting your dick cut
off. Read yesterday's post to Joker above.

I have got an angel of a girl. I'm 49 and she's
30. She tell's me I act like a 18 year old (sexually). You
gotta love 25 years of receiving acupuncture and taking
Chinese herbs daily.

The reason I go to the zone or other holes here in SD is
just that my appetite is extreme. I'm actually trying to
quit doing other chicks but old habits die hard. Especially
when you still pole vaulting out of bed most mornings.

What to do.?

By Balam on Saturday, July 28, 2001 - 08:57 am:

Innocent, I can *so* easily picture what you said about
dickectomy in Thailand, namely that you are EXPECTED to do a
good job lying, OR ELSE! The big concept (if I may
extrapolate from East Asian cultures I know better) is not
what happens to be empirically true, it's what is ON RECORD.
So if I can keep the RECORD looking good, then I don't have
a problem. Your point about nobody taking it to court fits
with this, because that simply adds MORE to the record.

I have a (US, caucasian) friend married to a Korean woman;
they speak Korean and are great as a couple; she has the
sweetest personality you can imagine. He decided to check
with her on the possibility that he'd be seeing providers
when they were apart (as they are quite often). She said
Look, that's truly ok, but promise not to get attached, not
to see anyone regularly, and above all NOT TO TELL ME. That
I call an arrangement made in heaven. (And curious--if I
had a partner having extracurricular activity I'd first of
all be pissed and probably dump her, but I'd CERTAINLY at
least want her to cough up all the details!)

By Innocent on Saturday, July 28, 2001 - 10:02 am:

Balam,

Ditto

By Pecs on Saturday, July 28, 2001 - 11:59 am:

In the San Gabriel Valley in Los Angeles where the
population of Chinese is very high, is the reason why there
are so many Chinese whore houses to take care of all these
horney Chinese guys who don't get it from there wifes. The
only problem for me is trying to get introduced to these
whore houses again where the women are sooooooooo fine and
young.

By Joker on Saturday, July 28, 2001 - 01:53 pm:

My wife's sexual drive increased since the marriage while
mine waned. It's funny when I look at other women, I am
thinking "I gotta have that." When she wants it, usually
around 2 in the morning, I am dead tired to do anything.
But I usually do it, cause I won't get sleep til I give. I
guess white women's sexual drive increases after the
marriage. More reason to hang around Asian women.

Discreet or not, my wife will cut my dick off, if I had ever
cheated. When she found my hidden Playboy magazine, she
made sure I went through hell. Hence I am emotionally
castrated by my wife.

By El Gato on Saturday, July 28, 2001 - 02:32 pm:

Joker: My last girlfriend was Asian. She was very jealous
and always gave me shit for stupid little things. It got to
the point that I felt like she was always there watching,
even when I was by myself. I was really unhappy for a while
while with her. I'll bet there are tons of guys here who
have felt the same.

Pecs: How did you get introduced to those houses in the
FIRST place? I want in! If there are racial qualifications I
qualify.

By Kendricks on Saturday, July 28, 2001 - 03:20 pm:

Joker,

She got pissed because you had a copy of PLAYBOY??? Are you
serious? Are you mongering on the side, or does she have
you pretty much locked up?

By Ootie on Saturday, July 28, 2001 - 08:59 pm:

Let me tell you from firsthand experience: you do NOT want
a jealous or possessive woman! Not only can it become a real
pain in the ass, but the more important question is: does
she really love you or is she simply possessing you to ease
her jealousy? Without trying to sound proud, my last
girlfriend was an absolute physical knockout. I was always
told by other males how lucky I was to have her. But her
possessiveness was ultimately too high a price to pay.

A Knows what he's talking about kind of guy,

Out-of-Towner

By Pecs on Sunday, July 29, 2001 - 10:31 am:

I was lucky, I worked with Chinese and although I'm Asian
it was hard to get these houses without an introduction.
Luckily a guy introduced me and they let me in, however,
about 1 year ago the FBI busted this big ring of Chinese
mafia and I guess the houses i was going was run by them and
have since closed. Now, I don't have any more connections.
What a shame...they had the youngest looking and most
beautiful women...now
I'm stuck driving to TJ and or calling the paper with
hustling ugly Chinese women.

By Joker on Sunday, July 29, 2001 - 01:55 pm:

If my wife ever finds out that I have gone to see a hooker,
might as well kiss my penis good bye. I have heard Japanese
women saying that it's ok for their husbands to do it with a
professional woman. Now that's a love, isn't it?

I have never dated Asian women, and I have never had any
women who were not possessive and irresponsible. This woman
at my work said that she does not mind that I am married.
But I am afraid of the consenquence from my wife and her, I
am passing that for now.

Hence my only entertainment is to fantasize about TJ and
secretly come here to talk and bitch about my jealous bitch
wife. I know some Asian women can be very scary, but there
are nothing more scarier than American women who got the hot
German blood.

By El Gato on Sunday, July 29, 2001 - 11:35 pm:

I met a guy in TJ that seemed to have connections, we were
cool with each other and I hinted interest, but he didn't
offer to bring me in and I didn't feel comfortable asking
him directly. I have seen some of the talent, though. All I
can say is that if I had been introduced, I'd probably be
broke by now.