By Sandman on Sunday, May 11, 2003 - 09:49 am: Edit |
Many of you have sent me off line e-mails regarding the gifts I bring and give to girls. I have responded to many but sent a response to the wrong person the other day and felt like a schmuck for it.
Anyway, I thought I'd start a new thread to cover the topic. UW is a master at this game.
It is incredible how far a small inexpensive gift will go toward improving a session or a relationship with a girl. In the first place, they are not normally expecting it. When they get it in addition to their normal fees, it is like a bonus to them. Many times, it eliminates the need for Taxi fare (which they usually pocket anyway or take a cheaper form of transportation) but many times that is included as well. Just depends on the girl, her attitude and the session.
Sometimes, gifts have resulted in freebies over the next couple of days and some very sensuous sessions.
Anyway, here goes and feel free to throw in your experiences;
1-I normally always make a stop at a Dollar Store and buy small make-up kits, perfume (knock-offs), hair brushes, lip sticks, eye liners, fake nail kits (when going to Cuba, I also buy some Tampax, toothpaste, tooth brushes, soaps, deodorants and other basics)small manicure sets, hair ribbons and ties. Amazing how these small $1.00 items can change the dynamic of a session and yes, sometimes I let them know in advance that if the session is really good that I have a present for them. They also love lotions and creames, bath oils or bubble bath. Girls just love presents.
2-Clothes; Bikinis (and be careful here if you are recycling...Annie in Cuba got all upset that she didn't get to keep her bikini after we dropped her off. I had to promise to bring her one on my return trip), tops, jeans, panties (UW is a master in this Dept.), disco belts, T's, wife beaters, beach wraps. I usually buy from clearance racks or go to close out stores. I also normally shop in Juniors or Petites. You can also find new or nearly new stuff in consignment stores. I find that American Smalls do not normally fit the more "body conscious" latinas and Brasileras; As far as what to buy for a teen or 20 something girl, ask the clerk. Tell her you are buying for a daughter, niece or sister. They actually get a kick out of it. I have even been known to ask a girl who is shopping to try something on for me so I can see how it looks. Works everytime....
3-CD's-whether I copy them from Kazaa or buy them at a discount, the girls always love to hear the music and get even more excited about getting to keep the CD. Now, many times they will not have a CD player. You can find some pretty cheap CD players in the $8-10 range and it serves as a special gift for a special favorita. Don't forget to buy some extra batteries.
4-Jewlery-I normally save this for real special favoritas but also shop wisely. Close-outs, clearances, going out of business sales etc. This can get really expensive if you are not careful but goes a long way in assuring a splendid encounter with your favorita.
I recently had a client/friend in the wholesale Jewlery business offer me some closeout merchandise on consignment. They travel all over the world for Mfg. and designers.
Anyway, she had a bunch of Gold over silver crosses. Each has an Opal and and some have small diamond chips. They originally sold for $65 but she gave them to me at her cost of $10 (amazing mark-up huh?)
She also had a small quantity of CZ earrings in gold over silver settings. CZ's are large and are in three different settings; These were originally $75 but now $10 each.
Lastly, if any of you saw the movie Tin Cup, you may remember the gold and pearl necklace and bracelet she wore. I have a number of these 14K gold bracelets with both white and black (white dyed black) bracelets. Originally priced and still marked at $115.00. They are available for $20 each.
I can never use all of these and will have them on consignment for about another month. If any of you are interested, e-mail me and I'll be happy to part with some. Great buy, great gift for a special favorita and you will be a hero.(sorry, have to charge tax and small shipping charge to cover costs)
Ask DG. BTG got one of each on our last trip to cuba. Annie loved her cross as did Mayari (who also got a bracelet). After the gifts, the sessions were stellar.
I've imbedded photos;
Sandman
Again, if the Admin considers this SPAM, feel free to remove. This is not my normal way of making a living. Just trying to help out some fellow Hombres.
By Moondog on Sunday, May 11, 2003 - 12:53 pm: Edit |
Sandman,
Good info. Surprise gifts, no matter how small, will go a long way.
Enjoy the life amigo,
Moondog
By Murasaki on Sunday, May 11, 2003 - 04:25 pm: Edit |
Sandman, besides a hillbilly by the name of Joe Bob who lives in a trailer park somewhere in Mississippi, what is a "wife beater"?
By Badseed on Sunday, May 11, 2003 - 05:25 pm: Edit |
It's a tank-top undershirt. Think b-movie mafia guys sitting aroudn in their undershirts - hence the name "wife-beater". Looks really cute on chicks though (and easy access for roving hands).
BS
By Sandman on Sunday, May 11, 2003 - 09:54 pm: Edit |
Mura (and thanks Badseed), Just look at some of the Adriana photos DG posted of her on top of the dresser. Sleeveless, undershirts worn by truck drivers and and beautiful women the world over to portray the better parts of their bodies.
Wife beaters because well...I guess a lot of hillbilly trailer park residents named Billy Bob in Mississippi that beat their wives wear them.
Do you know what grits are BTW?
TOO FUNNY!
Sandman
By Nyl12 on Sunday, May 11, 2003 - 10:15 pm: Edit |
I would also recommend shirts with your Home City. I have met so many girls that talk about there "loves' in chicago, Los Angeles, New York, Spain etc. etc. Why not give them a piece of "home"
By Dongringo on Sunday, May 11, 2003 - 10:27 pm: Edit |
I'm surprised that Rich hasn't chimed in on the entire "wife beater" and "mobile home" thread? Rich???
Oh, and not to bust your chops Sandman, but those pics of the jewelry are a little out of focus. Has the MASTER lost his touch?
Will this lowly grasshopper surpass the MASTER on our next trip???
Stay tuned...
By Costaricardo on Monday, May 12, 2003 - 01:25 am: Edit |
In the past I have used many of the same types of gifts that Sandman talked about. I have made it a habit of always going to Walmart before each trip and making an exhaustive search for bargains, etc. Tank tops-one size fits all can be found at the right time of year for $1 or less and are a big hit. Have also found that coloring books and crayons are winners with the girls, as are jacks and matchbox cars, also very
inexpensive. This last weekend in preparation for my trip next week I found some little heart locket watches for $3 and best of all some little
purses about the size of a pack of cigarettes except very thin that are made out of denim and
have what looks like a little bluejean pocket on the outside. Plan on putting their money in it and just giving them the purse. They were about
$3. Will be interesting to see how many open them and check their money before they leave.
Like Sandman said though, any kind of little gift
is good and I have always found that they appreciate the thought immensely if not the gift itself. I have learned to only buy the smallest and most easily carried gifts that I can as I used to have to bring an extra suitcase just for all the shit I would buy for people on my trips.
Oh, by the way, blow pops work great as gifts for
places like the Blue Marlin in CR, the termas in
Rio or Papaguayos in Neuvo Laredo, where you have a lot of girls around you and you want to get a preview of their oral skills. Appropriately named as well.
By Bwana_dik on Monday, May 12, 2003 - 06:37 am: Edit |
I tend to make big purchases from Victoria's Secret when they're having sales. I also burn a bunch of CDs and bring them along. For the garotas I really like, I give them a Victoria's Secret bag (hint: they LOVE the bags, and carry them like purses) filled with a thong, some VS lotion, a CD (often with their name printed on the cover), and some chocolates. I also usually bring along an extra pocket rocket or two and some other toys, and I always provide a new toothbrush and small toothpaste to any girl who comes to my hotel/apartment.
Speaking of blow pops, I did hand out about six "novelty Cock Pops" at L'uomo that I'd picked up at a sex shop near the LA airport. They were a huge hit.
By Dongringo on Monday, May 12, 2003 - 07:41 am: Edit |
I'm impressed.
Nice touches guys!
DG
By Nyl12 on Monday, May 12, 2003 - 08:00 am: Edit |
I have also done the Victoria Secret night shirt. Gave it to the girl when we were done with 1st round and about to go to sleep. The morning session is always that much better.
By Sandman on Monday, May 12, 2003 - 08:29 am: Edit |
DG-yep, they were a little fuzzy. Most jewlery photos require a special lens which I don't have on my digital plus, I was in a hurry and quite frankly didn't give a shit. If they had been of a girl, they never would have passed the cutting room floor. So grasshopper, close your eyes and tell me about the lovely vision you are having of "PINK". No further discussion required or appropriate on the board.....gotcha ya bastard!
Cock Pops-Well, guess I'll make a stop by the local specialty store and see what they might have of interest. BD-Thanks for the tip.
CR and BD-Great ideas. I am off to Victoria Secret today to look for bargains. You are probably right about the bags. A badge of honor to be seen with them. Several small gifts in the bag are probably a big hit.
DG also discovered the make-up kits that include some kind of carrying container were big hits. They like the containers almost as much as they like the make-up.
Wonder if I could lure any of these lovelies to Florida with Disney World T-Shirts...he he?
Great ideas all and keep em coming. We will stoop to any measures to make the hobby more interesting eh guys?
Sandman
By Murasaki on Monday, May 12, 2003 - 08:56 am: Edit |
Sandman, forgive my lack of knowledge about trailer-trash culture. Us refined Californians just aren't up on that east coast stuff. Grits... hmmm, is that what they call getting sand in your pants at the beach? Or does it have something to do with being really constipated?
By Layne87 on Monday, May 12, 2003 - 10:58 am: Edit |
damn guys...we are among the elite here in smoozing up to these girls...good stuff...
I am off to the flea market to think of new stuff sandman and bwana have not given to my wives yet...
By Sandman on Monday, May 12, 2003 - 12:30 pm: Edit |
Mura-forgot, you refined California guys are into tofu and sprouts huh?
Grits are a breakfast side dish made from white hominy corn. They are an alternative to hash browns or breakfast potatoes. Delicious with eggs, a little butter, salt, pepper and are considered quite tasty by our vacationing Californians. I'll send you some so you can try them out someday.
BTW-Keep your fucking tofu and sprouts...he he!
Layne, Flea market. Never thought of that. Bet you find some good stuff there. Your wives "do" like the gifts I have given them ha ha ha!
Sandman
By Slicey on Monday, May 12, 2003 - 02:22 pm: Edit |
sandman
great thread!
one more thing. we had better post a list of girls that we give the jewelry to, so we don't get in trouble by duplicating...
s.
By Sandman on Monday, May 12, 2003 - 05:05 pm: Edit |
Slicey-With the cornucopia of girls in Rio, I don't think we have to worry.
Some strong takers so far but not enough to create worry. One Hombre bought 2 of each. Crosses seem to be pretty popular I guess because of the opal/diamonds. Ear rings and bracelets going pretty fast though.
Didn't expect such a good response but I guess it is a pretty good deal.
I know my favorita will like hers.
Sandman
By Nyl12 on Monday, May 12, 2003 - 05:25 pm: Edit |
Great Ideas. I really like the little bag idea.
Also on the beach there is a guy that sells bags big and small in different colors and embroidered on it or blank. Very good quality. The small ones go for about $10R, with the others $15 at $20 or $25R. I have given those out to some girls and they can use it as a beach purse.
They are also great gifts from the loved ones at home. Don’t forget the loved ones at home.
By Canonperdido on Monday, May 12, 2003 - 05:40 pm: Edit |
Do the have a R$0.99 store in Rio?
By Sf4dfish on Monday, May 12, 2003 - 08:35 pm: Edit |
Sandman, if it is considered "spam". Please change your handle to "spam-man", o.k.! lol
By Dickjohnson on Monday, May 12, 2003 - 08:46 pm: Edit |
Murasaki's been spending too many years in Japan and other countries. Even a California Asian trailor dude like myself know what a wife beater is. My ex wife used to wear those while listening to Eminem and watching old Brando movies and beat me up. (But seriously many people don't know what a wife beater is.)
What are blow pops and cock pops? Oh I see they are the candies that my ex flame Britney Spears likes. I dated her for about an hour. Perhaps they like Eminem and Britney-Kelly Keys looks like a dead ringer to Britney. And I'm sure some of you are going to say Kelly is more hot.
I don't think it is so easy to give girls gifts in places like Shibuya or Shanghai or Hong Kong. Those girls want genuine name brands. Now I HAVE to check out Brazil, it just sounds too good.
-DJ
By The Gnomes of Zurich on Monday, May 12, 2003 - 09:00 pm: Edit |
DJ
Au contraire, mon ami!
Girls like to get gifts. Period.
If you start trying to shortchange your session prices by merging the gifties into the payment scheme, then you're creating trouble for yourself because she'll want a "name" brand, and all name brands are expensive brands.
If, on the other hand, you satisfy her about the fee in the usual manner (cash), then the gift you give her later is gravy. In that case, it shows you're a kind, thoughtful soul who really likes her and she's touched and flattered that you're not just kicking her out and visions of Pretty Woman and my goodness it just more than a woman can bear you're so kind gush gush gush you like me, you really like me!
Spin, baby!
Dem Philanthropic Gnomes
By Dickjohnson on Monday, May 12, 2003 - 09:28 pm: Edit |
TGOZ,
Thanks. I don't shortchange any chica. I'm just saying in some cities the working girls are quite jaded. I prefer to avoid those.
By Nyl12 on Monday, May 12, 2003 - 09:37 pm: Edit |
DJ
I have seen and have the Playboy photos of Kelly Key and She is hot. Better body than Brittney. by the way she is not a natural blonde.
Would be glad to send them to you or anyone else interested.
-NYL
By Dickjohnson on Monday, May 12, 2003 - 09:41 pm: Edit |
Thanks Nyl12. She's got some music videos and a playboy making of clip too.
-DJ
By Dogster on Monday, May 12, 2003 - 09:46 pm: Edit |
I've noticed that girls in TJ love it whenever I bring trial-sized shampoos, soaps, etc. That is in line with what others have mentioned here. But I've also noticed that they simply ***love*** anything with Mickey Mouse on it, or for that matter, any "cute" cartoon character. One night in La Tropa, some girls were riveted to the TV when a cartoon came on the screen.
Yeah, OK, some of these chicas were probably young, thanks to Ben, but some were considerably older. So what causes a sexy, drop-dead gorgeous chica to go ga ga over Mickey????
By Dongringo on Tuesday, May 13, 2003 - 12:13 am: Edit |
First off, Dogster, let's establish whether the soaps you bring as gifts come in large bundles, or have individual wrappers? Details such as this are VITAL to help us determine the authenticity of your post.
That said, you should be ashamed of yourself! Watching Bugs Bunny with Ben's half-breed offspring. Honestly!
Sandman is to smooth as Milkman is arachnaphobia.
Donwhoshouldbeinbedaboutnow
By Ben on Tuesday, May 13, 2003 - 07:51 am: Edit |
"Thanks to Ben"
No comprende.
By Bwana_dik on Tuesday, May 13, 2003 - 08:25 am: Edit |
Layne,
I hear the Brasilieras really like 8-track tapes...you should be able to get a good price on them at the flea market. They especially like 'em if you deliver them in a greasy KFC bag.
By Sandman on Tuesday, May 13, 2003 - 10:17 am: Edit |
Tough crowd.....
BD-what makes you think they even have a KFC where Layne lives (you can't even find it on a map). Brown paper bag or nada...poor boy!...ha ha
Sandman
By Bwana_dik on Tuesday, May 13, 2003 - 10:52 am: Edit |
Sandman,
Layne lives in an "upscale 'holler'" that's within 50 miles of the Walmart and a brand new KFC (the local temple of fine cuisine). He's no hick!
By Ben on Tuesday, May 13, 2003 - 11:02 am: Edit |
"So what causes a sexy, drop-dead gorgeous chica to go ga ga over Mickey????"
Mickey is a fat wealthy gringo?
By Badseed on Tuesday, May 13, 2003 - 11:10 am: Edit |
DG and Dogster:
>>First off, Dogster, let's establish whether the soaps you bring as gifts come in large bundles, or have individual wrappers?
Hey, lay off the Dog! Everyone knows that every word that Dogster writes is the complete unvarnished truth - bundled AND individually wrapped!
BS
By Sf4dfish on Tuesday, May 13, 2003 - 03:55 pm: Edit |
CR, regarding the blow pops. I always carry a couple in my bath robe pocket. And when I'm interested in a garota, I jokingly ask them "voce chupa muito gostoso?" They usually say "eu adoro chupar!" Then I give them the lolli-pop to suck! They get a big kick out of it, and usually later. "I get the big LICK"!
By Dongringo on Tuesday, May 13, 2003 - 04:27 pm: Edit |
Ben
In addition to being a fat wealthy gringo, Mickey also:
-has little to no hair
-wears funny clothes
-looks like he has Depends Undergarments on
-is really pushing the envelope with his age
-prefers the company of cute young mini mouses
Remarkable. How does he do it? Any insights on how this could be Ben???
By Ben on Tuesday, May 13, 2003 - 05:52 pm: Edit |
I have a new found respect for Micky Mouse.
And yes Don Gringo I have mucho insight on how Micky Mouse is able to be a stud at such an old age.
(Message edited by ben on May 13, 2003)
By Sandman on Tuesday, May 13, 2003 - 09:03 pm: Edit |
I bought Mickey Mouse T's today upon the sage advice of fellow mongers.
Should I return them or take them to the "Beauties of Brazil?"
Sandmanwithvictoriassecretstuffintowandmickeymouseteeshirts (and a few other goodies he he he)
Sandman
By 2 Percent Milk on Tuesday, May 13, 2003 - 10:36 pm: Edit |
Guys
I can't really afford gifts for the girls so I give them one that takes about 9 months to make
They don't complain
I see guys bringing girls little gifts all the time in TJ and I think it is a very nice thing to do.
It's when they buy them Cars and houses that really gets my clam steamed
Milkman
By Dongringo on Tuesday, May 13, 2003 - 10:45 pm: Edit |
Now Now Milky
I'm sure Ben has a VERY good reason for buying Mexicali's houses and cars.
Setting them up with a (tin) roof over their heads assuages his burning conscience when they drop out of school to bear his bareback'n babies.
And as for cars? What better gift could you give them when they're old enough to drive?
(Message edited by DonGringo on May 13, 2003)
By Costaricardo on Tuesday, May 13, 2003 - 11:06 pm: Edit |
Sf4dfish,
My point exactly. Doesn't get much better than
sitting around a terma, club, whatever watching a bunch of young girls sucking on lollipops, unless of course you are alone with her watching her suck on you!!!
By Ben on Wednesday, May 14, 2003 - 09:34 am: Edit |
I just tie a lollipop around the big fella and troll around the AM/PM after 2:00 P.M.
By Theloner on Wednesday, May 14, 2003 - 04:52 pm: Edit |
Sandman,
Do the girls ever get catty when they find out you're giving gifts to other girls? Or are they generally cool about it?
By Sandman on Thursday, May 15, 2003 - 06:01 am: Edit |
Loner-Good question.
They usually don't see the whole stash of gifts and I normally only bring them out one at a time. In Cuba, one girl (Marari) saw some make up I had given to the road kill girl. She got all upset even though she had clothes, jewlery, perfume and a bunch of other better stuff than the make-up. It didn't seem to matter about the value or number of gifts though. Just that I had given one of the "common" girls make up and didn't have any for her. Had to promise to bring her some on my next trip.
Taught me a good lesson. Never let one see what the other gets or there will be jealousy. If there is more than one girl, I try to make sure they get identical or very similar items. Keeps everyone happy and eliminates tense moments.
Sandman
By Snapper on Thursday, May 15, 2003 - 02:26 pm: Edit |
Right now MasterBates is out looking for Micky Mouse moo-moo's to give to his chica's as gifts. I just hope he does us all a favor and has the chicas put them on before he snaps his pictures.
snappersmartass
By Dickjohnson on Friday, May 16, 2003 - 03:29 am: Edit |
Hey Snapper, don't knock on my man Masterbates, or criticize Murasaki's (good)pics. Both of these guys have gotten chicas to undress and taken pics and submitted them here. What have you done?
On the other hand I just want to clarify I have never been married. My statement above about my ex-wife beating me up is a joke. Apparently a buddy here got the impression I was married. She was only my fiancee(just kidding)
By Dickjohnson on Friday, May 16, 2003 - 03:37 am: Edit |
The last time I gave a TJ chica a gift was a brand new CD/cassette boombox. Plus full fees for her service. Eat that Gnomes
By Snapper on Friday, May 16, 2003 - 06:21 am: Edit |
"Hey Snapper, don't knock on my man Masterbates, or criticize Murasaki's (good)pics."
My knocking of MasterBates is lighthearted and he knows that.
I never criticized Murasaki's pics. I merely pointed out how we have very different taste. "Your man" masterbates is poster child of different taste.
"Both of these guys have gotten chicas to undress and taken pics and submitted them here. What have you done?"
What I've done is buy a Cannon PowerShot S400(4.1 Megapixels - Zoom: 3 X Optical , 3.6 X Digital). It's very small and perfect for mongering. I'll be taking it on it's maiden voyage in four days. It won't be too long until I have a steady stream of 2's, 3's, and 4's for you guys.
As far as taking nudes go I don't really care for it(right now). I see the photo section here as a resource tool, taking nude shots somewhat unnecessary, and taking shots of sexual acts is completely unnecessary. I'm sure my view on that will change someday though.
To get back to the subject, in the past I have given chicas the small smelly candles you can get a Target or Walmart. They seemed to go over pretty well.
I have seen girls at clubs here in town ware necklaces with charms on them that glow just like a GlowStick. I bet this would be a hit with the club chicas. I just don't know where to get them, or how much they are. Any of you guys have a clue?
snapper
By David1967 on Saturday, May 17, 2003 - 05:24 am: Edit |
For the person looking for glow sticks that you bend and can attach to make necklaces. Try the cothing and sales in the military or some army-navy store.
By Snapper on Saturday, May 17, 2003 - 12:49 pm: Edit |
I found this online.
$1.60 each
http://www.extremeglow.com/batterypowered.htm
By Nyl12 on Saturday, May 17, 2003 - 05:15 pm: Edit |
Just got the Victoria Secret Catalog. They are having a sale on everything, but one thing I found interesting were panties that you can put letter on. So you can give it to the girl with her name on it or better yet, your name. That way I know you has been ther before.
By Nyl12 on Saturday, May 17, 2003 - 05:20 pm: Edit |
Here is another view.
http://www2.victoriassecret.com/commerce/application/prodDisplay/?namespace=productDisplay&origin=onlineProductDisplay.jsp&event=display&prnbr=JN-160480&cgnbr=OSBRPTHGZZZ&rfnbr=300&page=3&cgname=OSBRPTHGZZZ
(Message edited by NYL12 on May 17, 2003)
(Message edited by NYL12 on May 17, 2003)
By Senor Pauncho on Wednesday, June 04, 2003 - 06:30 pm: Edit |
Remember that most of the chicas have small children.
And those that don't probably have the mind of a child (at times).
Just today I found VHS videos - Cartoons in Spanish. $1.00 each.
I only bought 20 today due to lack of funds.
I'm going back tomorrow and buy all I can carry if they still have any.
By Senor Pauncho on Wednesday, June 04, 2003 - 06:35 pm: Edit |
"Zoob" toys - articulate pieces from which to construct your hearts desire.
Now at Waldo's on the south wall - 5 bags of 11 pieces for 11 pesos. This is a deal as a few days ago I paid 11 pesos for one bag - I bought 30 bucks worth (for two chica's kids)
Big sale, going fast. 5 bags suits 1 kid, but 10 bags will cause two kids to argue incessantly.
Buy all you can carry. The kids won't sleep the first night.