Not too much to report on this except for the fact that my buddy is telling me that his bride is really starting put pressure on him to let her get a casino job. He is strictly opposed to her having contact with other people(even though he won't openly say it) so I will assume he'll just procrastinate on getting her a drivers license. Eventually he'll give in but he'll do his best to drag it out. I'd give her about a year until she's working outside the house.

And I will give it 2 days after that until she starts doing up a tuff guy Like Milky


Besos
Milktuff

She likes the money in the casinos, she likes the cock in the casinos. Cock equals money.

Cock equals money.

I know

I thought this was pretty funny. I still don't believe what I saw today. Anyway, I was looking at some porn at Filipina Thumbs when I come across the advertising link below. I click on the link to check it out and guess who I see in one of the pages? I guess my buddies' wife is a bigger star than he knows now that you can see her while viewing common free porn sites.

BTW, I'm not outing her because you have to go about fifteen pages into this site to see her, and with all the girls on this site you would need me to point out witch one is her. I feel it is relevant to show the site so you guys see what her(and others like her) definition of a "virgin" is.

Snapper, do this poor girl a favor and get her an email address so she can have a hobby while he hardworking hubby is off a the salt mine all day!

Sorry Porker, she already has the limit of 200 contacts(all guys) on her instant messenger.

I went and looked at all the Filipina chicks on that site. There definitely were not any "innocent" virginal types in there! LOL

Has he let her get a job yet, or is she still locked up?

Their definition of virgin : Someone who has never had sex with anyone in the past hour.

My advice? Lock her up man!

Their definition of virgin : Someone who has never had sex with anyone in the past hour.

My advice? Lock her up man!

No job yet. She still can't drive, but my buddy is teaching her how to ride a bike(I'm being serious).

It's just like a twisted father/daughter relationship. I told my buddy "Enjoy her while she's young, because they grow up fast. Next thing you know you'll be walk'n her down the isle."

I show my buddy the site I had found. He got a big smile on his face. To him I think it's a big ego boost.

DJ, I don't know. I'll never understand this guy. For some reason he loves to get into relationships with these types of women, have them take all his money, and laugh as they walk out the door. Then he'll feel sorry for himself for about a year and go out and the same exact thing over, and over, and over again.

He'll never learn. He says he doesn't really mind if this relationship doesn't work out, because at least he got two or three years of "free pussy". The last girl that he got "free pussy" from cost him nearly $100,000. Guess what, in less than a year after he hooked up with her his money ran out and so did she.

I don't blame the women. They're just trying to teach him a lesson. Who knows, maybe this one is different.

This guy is an older dude? A bike as in bicycle or motorbike? Where did he get his cash?

Snappa, you're smarter than your friend. But then that's not saying much.

As in a bicycle.

Not much to add except for her cousin is visiting her again.

I must add(just so I never forget) that I will never let my buddy live down the fact that he went to see the Lizzy McQuire movie with her-lol

-snapper-

lol-I'm still laughing at the visual of a man near 40 sitting through a movie marketed towards girls in their early teens.-lol

You must not vision Ben a lot at the movies

Snapper, are there any more openings for cousins? I could dye my hair and get a dark tan....

I'll have her email you an application

I just discovered this thread today. Very interesting.
To me there seem to be a series of increasing levels of committment/responsibility when marrying a foreign national.
1st of course is the fiance visa and it's attendant "Affadavit of Financial Responsibility" - you're on the hook to either marry her and apply for a green card or put her on a plane back home.
2nd comes marriage within the 90 day visa time frame.
3rd and seeming most important is the final "Affadavit of Financial Responsibility" that goes along with the green card - you're now on the hook for 2 yrs minimum, and more if she gets her full green card at the end of the two year temp period.
4th is that transition from temp to permanent green card.
5th is citizenship.

What I'm curious about is the effect of each step in this process on a divorce settlement. I.E... If you marry her but refuse to sign for her green card and she gets deported (at your expense of course). What rights does she have vis-a-vis property?

I must admit that I do see certain aspects of your buddy's situation that are in common with mine and most likely many foreign national marriages:

1. The internet "lifeline". Its the prime link to friends, family and home and they wear it out.
2. Age/cultural issues - in my case its 40 vs 23, and I've been watching more MTV and CSI in 6 months that I would have in a lifetime without her.
3. Divergent interests - often we will be doing different things in different rooms, but I think you'll find that in any marriage. There's some crap she watches that I simply can not sit and watch, and visa versa.

There are some key differences though:

1. We talk a lot.
2. She HATES being by herself and wants me with her (next to her) ALL the time. The dependancy is actually beginning to become a problem. Sometimes you feel more like a babysitter/parent than a husband.
3. There are NO "professional" bar girl issues whatsoever. She barely touched the fringes of it and hated every moment she spent in the "Art bars".
4. Education - she graduated from a Thai technical college (assoc) and ALL of her friends went to either a college or university.
5. We spent quite a lot of time together in Thailand before we applied for the fiance visa(3 seperate trips spanning about 2 months total time in country). In the process she had to pass the intensive scrutiny of both my expat friends living in BKK and more importantly, my Thai friends living in BKK. She lived WITH my expat friends for the final 2 or 3 weeks of the process and now I think they like HER more than me (entirely understandable). Glowing reports have come from all who've met her.

The only real potential trip point for us is my attitude towards having kids. She views children as the prime purpose for marriage and if I nix that I'm not sure what the fallout will be. As a selfish bastard I'm wholey concerned with the additional years of work that a rugrat will entail, shattering my plan of being retired in Thailand by 50. I could see this issue ripping us apart in 5 years or so.

When I was in the process of bringing my then fiance over and we were waiting for the visa I had a number of discussions with a few board members who had trod the same road ahead of me.
They were of course almost unanimously pessimistic, as the statistics show they should be, and as I would be now if someone were to tell me they were going to marry a foreign national (especially a non-English speaker). But my contention at the time (and still is) was that the average marriage between two native born AMERICANS lasts about 5 years before divorce (an old number which I'm sure has changed). So my contention was and is that if we can get 5 years of happy married life, then I made a good decision. If we beat that, then I was a friggin' genius. Either way, to have tried and failed is in my opinion far superior to being afraid to try at all. What value can you place on each year of happiness, love and companionship?

drew

I completely agree.

A good friend of mine married a Russian gal a number of years ago. They completed their divorce a few months ago.

He says: "I had 4 great years and one so so year with my very own Playboy model. I loved her, and she loved me. What more can I ask for?"

They have parted as friends, and luckily he has been successful enough that he could be generous with her.

Why did they get a divorce? Did he not like her, or she did not need a meal ticket any more?

What did he lose in the divorce settlement? Did he have a pre-nup? Is he stuck paying child support?

They just grew apart. The reality is that she is 20 plus years younger than he is, and has different interests, and wants a husband closer to her own age.

It actually got to where she wanted more sex than he did, and that was one issue.

This was his second wife, and she wants kids. His kids from his first wife are all grown up, and he doesn't want to go thru that again. That was another big issue. No kids with wife number two.

No pre-nup. He was told that would make it harder to get her into the USA before they got married. He gave her a condo to live in, her car, and probably some other stuff. (This is a drop in the bucket for him.)

She is still in his life, and asks him about the men she dates, what she should do, etc. (Her brother still works for him.) After the divorce was final she gave him a BBBJ for his birthday.

I suspect that as long as she is not in a serious relationship she would be available to him for sex whenever he wanted it.

She has a very strong work ethic and says she is very disappointed in the (American) men she meets because they do not. She says we are lazy!

I actually thought things were going ok with them until this last week. I was over sitting in a chair that faces the kitchen(witch she was in), while my buddy was sitting on the coach facing his true love(the television). Anyway my buddy was saying something to her(while he mainly concentrated on the television). Where I sitting I can see her making mocking faces while he's talking to her, much like a little kid would to their parents.

Yesterday my buddy told me that she no longer sleeps in the same bed as him. Her excuse is "the bedding makes me itchy". I ask my buddy if he has just bought new sheet, or changed the detergent that he is using. His answer is "no" to both. I think she is sick of him already, but won't say anything to ruin the illusion that everything is perfect.



Unrelated, a couple weeks ago a mutual friend's wife(a wife he brought here from Venezuela) called my buddy. She asked if his virgin-bargirl-bride could go out with her for a couple hours. He said "no we're busy tonight"(yeah right, he never leaves the house). He never even let her talk to my other buddy's Venezuelan wife. I mean she's a big fat oaf for Christ sakes, there's no way they're going to chase guys. I think he's keep'n her locked-down way too much.


snapper

(Message edited by snapper on July 23, 2003)

The one thing I can't stand about the look of Filipina and Thai women is that they have the most horrid teeth. Is it normal for girls from these countries not to ever go to the dentist?

My buddy's wife just went to the dentist for the first time in her life last week. She has 13 cavities. 13!!!! She actually has pretty good looking teeth for never being to the dentist.

Funny, that's one thing I noted was how nice "looking" thier teeth are. Of course the older ones are another story.
Bud

I was wondering what the latest was with this soap opera. The answer to your question is either no, or very rarely. Dentists are a luxury in much of SE Asia, as they are in much of the developing world. Haven't you ever heard about the difficulties the CIA has with recruiting potential spooks from here to work in developing areas, like the middle east? Our mouths are dead give aways; teeth are too good.

Bignuts, check out Murasaki's photos of Ya from Thailand(#5780 through #5791). This girl would be stunning if it weren't for the busted grill. Teeth like these seem far too common based on photos posted on this site. No offense Murasaki, I'm just using your photo as an example.

Murasaki, nothing else really happening in this soap-opera. Things actually seem to be going pretty well between the two of them. They painted the baby's room a couple weeks ago(even though she's not pregnant yet). I asked them how knew if they should paint it pink or blue. He told me they painted it lime-green. When they finally do have a kid I hope it's colorblind.

Thai girls in particular have problems with snaggle teeth with their incisors...vampire-like. Many of the bar girs are getting nice allowances from their boyfriends and are now getting braces as they are cheap in Thailand. With the PI, the teeth are much straighter but girls have poor diets and dont brush their teeth at a young age and many of them lose their front teeth as a result. Not uncommon to see young girls with false front teeth in the PI...especially if the girl is from the provinces...they will lie and tell you that they fell down but it was poor dental cleaning and candy is cheaper than food.

Between the two I've seen the WORST teeth in the PI. I've known girls that were missing MOST of their teeth with these nasty looking broken, brown stumps to fill in some of the holes. One particular girl was "no wisdom teeth young" and already had the most fucked up teeth in Luzon!!

Sounds like that "virgin" needs to be broken back in. Need me to make a trip to Las Vegas? I'm fat AND obnoxious which should remind her of all her customers from the bar...

E

You guys do girls with missing or fucked up teeth?

-DJ

"You guys do girls with missing or fucked up teeth?"

Not me. My rule is they must have all of their teeth or none of their teeth

Snapper,

None of their teeth? LOL. Isn't that a bit tooo.... tooo.... y...



... old?

-DJ

Have you met Rosa Maria???

Snapper

Ya's teeth are nowhere near as bad as they look in the pics. I'm sure Murasaki san would agree. For some reason they are exagerated in those poses. Besides , when you get a look and a taste of her sweet hairless pussy-- you suddenly forget all about her teeth. She really is a hottie and incredibly sexual.
She is still retired from the bar scene but still sends me e mails about seeing her again. I would hook up again in a second except found something even better.

lol, Snapper. I didn't meet her up close. Don't tell me she doesn't have any teeth that's why her blow jobs are famous. That can't be it right? She's not that old. Like someone would take out they're dentures and give you a blowjob... eeaaww.

But you know who gets the award for the worst teeth in the world.....Japanese girls...buck teeth, snaggletooth, underbite...you name it. Unbelievable, considering the wealth of the country but you will almost never see a Japanese girl with braces.

I went over there last night and noticed that she has many of her small stuffed animals(that schmucks bought for her in the hooker-bar) now hanging on their Christmas tree as ornaments.

That is fucking priceless....did she take some of the old used condoms and use them as baloon decorations for her birthday party.

Big Emergency

Congratulations, your wife's younger brother was attack by a man with an ax last night. You get to send $3000 to the Philippines for the emergency surgery or he'll die.

and the brother is really a penpal dirtbag Filpiino boyfriend who needs gambling/drinking money and might put some away for her when they reunite after she gets her green card, spousal support and trys to adjust her boyfriend to come to the U.S. after the divorce is final. I dont blame her though...Filipinas can be very loyal if you treat them right....sounds like this guy needs a maid more than a wife.

This guy sounds like he would fit right in at our next fiesta.

Advice to the idiot who married this girl:

State the following to your wifie:

"I am not an ATM. If you are not pleased with that statement, please use your savings to return home".

Easy.

Just a couple days ago her brother was attacked. Today he lies in a hospital bed with wounds 6" long and 4" deep, yet she feels chipper enough to go to Lake Tahoe with her Gordita friend while her husband stays home to lay tile. Hmmmmm

For 3k US, I'll go to her brother's and take pics for him! I accept paypal.

Bud

He's now sent $5,800 to the Philippines for "hospital" expenses.

Oh yeah, she's also 6 weeks pregnant. Congratulations.

All I can say is what a poor bastard.

But he is not the only one. The other day I had a conversation with a co-worker that has a "girlfriend" in Thailand. He met her in a bar but swears she is not a prositute. He sends her money for her "English" lessons and for a small apartment.

This has been going on for a couple of years now, and I think he is finally coming to the conclusion that she only see's him as a source of income.

Tell him he is pretty tuff
What a loser. Who's kid is it ?

He's now sent close to $8,000 to the Philippines.