I'm putting this in a new off topic area as the subject transcends geographic boundaries.

Some guys feel that the subject of trying to have a relationship with a working girl is stupid. Others find value in the relationships that can be found with working girls.

Either way, it is my hope that we can chronicle some of the better stories and advice in this posting area.


StrikeEagle

When I find a girl I have good chemistry with, I will always initiate a long distance relationship. This is easier to manage in far off places like Thailand or South America. Because the girls want a relationship with an American but it is almost impossible for them to come to the USA. If I stay in touch with them then I find there are all kinds of special treatments waiting when I return to their respective countries. It is just like coming home to your girlfriend after a long business trip.

Yoosin

Yoosin, I agree, some chicas take a little time or quite a long time to open up and start really participating.. If she fits your pictures, rings your bells, etc. then she may be worth investing in... ;o)

In a relationship with a working chica you at least know where you are and what she does. The tough thing to me is having a relationship with a chica that was working in the past or quit to be with you. They all tell stories and you never know when they are telling the truth. Even if you say you will not leave if she goes back, she doesn't trust that. She will sneak first. That will drive a gringo nuts at times. Going back to working always seems to be the answer to the problems. A relationship with these girls is an easy start for a difficult road ahead.

Have to agree with Yoosin. The effort working a long distance relationship with a chica is small compared to the payoff.

You do get NICE surprises when you return. Many of these girls are so used to gringos lying to them (I'll call, I'll see you again) that they're shocked (in a good way!) when you actually DO call.

Of course, I can't juggle as many as Yoosin does. ;)>

Only worth it if she is gorgeous and superhorny.
Dump her the moment she gives you the slightest
hint of bitchy or depressive behavior. Make sure
you tell her about everyone else you are involved
with. That way she knows you are a monger and it
turns her on like she's with 007 or someone big.

The dishonesty, for whatever reason the employ it, has to be, be far, the largest negative factor in such a relationship.

Nogi_boy, what dishonesty?

Mana wrote = "They all tell stories and you never know when they are telling the truth. "

IMHO - The stories (lying, call it whatever) is a defense mechanism that most chicas employ for one reason or another. It could be that they feel they will loose contact or gain distance between them & you if they are straight up about their situations, lives, etc. . Who knows. I have had two long term relationships with working girls and have found that to be the biggest negative force.
For example : If they have a good day at work (i.e. made some money), they will say the opposite. Then, in other conversations you will find that they actually did alright.
They say they do not get along wiht their Mom (sister, etc) and you find out they do.
Too many situations to list.
Maybe it's just my luck, but I've read and discussed similar stories time after time.
Don't get me wrong, there are way more positive elements to this type of relationship, but, communication is the key to ANY relationship and honesty is at root of effective communication.
Just my .02

Nogi Boy - what you say is SO true.

I can't count the number of times this has been shown to me.

And they often don't see what there is to get upset about when their lies are uncovered.

Nogi, I thought you where referring to dishonesty on the part of us monger types ( whichI am sure exits as well ).
I do agree with what you are saying, however my experience has been more a case of they reveal very little. One chica I have known for awhile will have really sad days 'muy triste' but she still won't confide in me regarding the real source of her sorrows. I don't push it because I think it could be overwhelming if she lets go with the sad life story. A pretty smart girl , she apparently does not want to involve me in here problems causing me to back away.

I posted in "Tijuana:Advice/Questions/Commentary:Chica Psychology" (#54) information that really belongs here.

I just found this great site that allows you to use the internet to triangulate your "girlfriend's" cell phone and find out if she is really where she says she is. It really narrows down the location to a pretty close view. This may catch a whole lot of "faithful" GF's in a lie !!

Check it out ---

http://www.track-your-partner.com/

LOL, my Thai girlfriend is being done by another falang, no more money for her.