I've only met one other TJ monger on this website who is the same age as me (20 years old) I got two reasons to go to TJ:

1) to drink legally
2) must I mention

On the one hand, I feel like I'm too young for this. On the other, I love whoremongering!
No discrimination. I just wanna knock out as many putas as I can b4 I get married.

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I wish I would have started when I was 20, but I didn't catch on until I was 25. 29 now.

Don't feel bad. I didn't make my first trip there until I was 52!!!

My first puta was in TJ when I was 18, 16 years ago.

I think you will see that most are in our 30's and 40's.

I've been divorced twice and realized that American women are not for me.

When you are 20 years old, you are too young to figure that out. You only want to bang a few for the hell of it.

In your 30's you are escaping something, be it a bad marriage or perhaps you have difficulty getting laid regularly in the states. No big deal, we all go through it. You eventually find someone and stop the mongering and settle down.

In your 40's your marriage might be over or at least feel like it is and you look towards the hobby as a lifestyle. You find it is easier to get laid at 40 in the states because the women are no longer in control but you just don't think it is worth the hassle anymore.

So don't worry about age, bang away. If you find someone that you want to marry and you feel you want to get out of the hobby, no problem, have a good life. We'll welcome you back into the fold in your 40's with open arms if it doesn't work out for you.

Remember, 50%+ of all marriages end in divorce. 60%+ of all second marriages fail. There comes a point in your life that women want the stability more than the excitement so as an older man you are in control. Thats if you want 40+ year old ass.

If you want prime 20 something ass while you are in your 50's, you have to pay for it someway. Might as well not have the hassle of throwing your money around lavishing gifts for the possibility of getting laid when you can do it easily and for less money.

>>I think you will see that most are in our 30's and 40's.>>

Yep.

>>I've been divorced twice and realized that American women are not for me.>>

Double yep. American (western) women are feminists and have no concept of what it takes to keep a man. I would be willing to bet that fully half of us here are married to one of them.

>>Might as well not have the hassle of throwing your money around lavishing gifts for the possibility of getting laid when you can do it easily and for less money.>>

Hence, the theory of our hobby, observed and repeated by our Club regularly. We all pay for it one way or another. I, like you, have concluded that western women are not worth a damn but for some good cooking. Even the imported girls who are cursed by western culture are not appetizing after a few years. Looks like our hobby is secure, per supply and demand.

Don't worry about age. When you're 50-something, smiling and in reasonable shape, most P4P chicas will be happy to test your generosity, regardless of age.

I won't offend a few here by claiming that I think women in general aren't good for much more than spending money, bitching about money and having children... but if I did claim that, I wouldn't be lying.

I started a bit late also. It was on my first trip to Belgium at age 33. 11 years later I have mongered in about 15 countries of the 35 or so I have been to and will quit......when I'm dead
And with any luck, rigamortis will set in on the ol' wood, and I'll be cremated at a funeral home with a dirty old lady prepping me

Val

You touched on the most elemental point that most of us hobbyists feel deep in our bones. How in the hell can you be happy with ONE woman, who may be in her 40s, when there are so many 18-25s out there available for some green. It's a no-brainer for guys with our mentality.

The other side of the coin of course are those men, in some ways lucky, who have never mongered. Once you start, it's hard to go back. It can turn into a very expensive and unhealthy pastime. I'd like to be able to pull back, but apparently I'm not ready. So onward through the fog.

Wouldn't it be nice to have an understanding woman who would actually permit you take make two or three hobbying trips a year, no questions asked. Are there women like that?

None unless you spend a lot of green on them already.

I think you are either the marrying type or not. I've been married twice, I know I am not.

I understand its nice to wake up with someone everyday. The loneliness of being a mongerer can be very hard however if you have like minded friends, there is no reason to be alone in this.

Its a comfort thing.

I am actively looking to move overseas when I retire in two years. I'll only be 40. I can't wait because I'm sure its going to happen.

I figure I can always marry a 25 year old when I'm 60 if I want to be married. It takes less cash in Columbia to have that young of a wife.

Gregoririo
You are so right! Sometimes I wish I had never started mongering because there is no way for me to stop it. I love it too much! Like my brother tells me:

Lo tuyo ya no es vicio...Ħes enfermedad!

My personal hell however is that I am the marrying type (I've been married for 12 years) BUT I am also a monger! I love my wife and family. If it wasn't for that I would have long moved to a strategically more mongering friendly place in the US or to South America altogether.

As far as:

"Wouldn't it be nice to have an understanding woman who would actually permit you take make two or three hobbying trips a year, no questions asked. Are there women like that?"

NO SUCH THING in the US at least. I know of a few Mexican friends whose wives don't care what they do but they are old school women 50+, not a chance with today's feminist movement taking a choke hold of this world's most precious commodity: WOMEN, actually more like PUSSY and TITS.

One thing I am certain:

If wifey ever found out two things can happen:

1) Leave my ass. As much as I love her, there is always the chicas. Plenty of fish in the sea I say. More time to monger!

2) Forgive me. That means a lot more pussy at home since that is the reason I started mongering in the first place. I don't think she'll make the same mistake twice.

Both ways I WIN!!


What ever happens I am sure that I will never ever get married again if my current marriage fails.

Gregoririo

"Wouldn't it be nice to have an understanding woman who would actually permit you take make two or three hobbying trips a year, no questions asked. Are there women like that?"

Yes they exist, few and far between, though. I've been with my girl for 12 going on 13 years, and she's cool with it. She's not into girls, swinging anything like that, but she's up for mongering with me a few times a year for a threesome, the rest of the time,
I'm free to monger on my own.

Only requirements are that 1) if I catch anything not to pass it on to her 2) don't spend so much on the hobby that it I can't pay the bills 3) don't spend more than 12 weeks out of the year (i have to have some time for her and making money, currently working on a solution for the money making part so I can have more time...lol) 4) take pictures of the girls so she can scrutinize how badly I chose compared to the girls she picks for me. 5) last, no multiple wives crap that a lot of Asian men believe in - her words (ongoing gf's is fine, just can't expect to all live in same household is all)

I have to admit I know more Asian girls that are open to this than non-Asians. My girl and I are both Chinese.

I'm 34, she's known about my hobby for the last 11 of our 12 years.

Is this open-mindedness typical of Chinese girls?

Hunter - it's not typical but you're more likely to find an Asian girl who's open minded like that than any other culture. Not saying that girls from other cultures aren't open, just that there's a reason that Asians are more predispositioned to accepting the lifestyle.

Law: Keeping in mind the distinction may be somewhat artificial, are we talking more apt to be "open-minded" or more likely to resign to the situation? Also, you commented on Asian girls, but Asia is a pretty large place encompassing many countries and cultures. Does your conclusion cut across the various Asian cultures, or does it apply to particular ones?

laguy: In my experience, Filipinas are the least likely to be open minded to this way of life, while Chinese girls from mainland China are the most likely to be "open-minded". Japanese and Koreans are most likely to be "resigned" to the situation. With Thais, Malays, Indonesians, and the rest of SEA being somewhere in between. But compared to American girls (White, Black, Latino, or Asian raised in America), the number of ladies that I know who are open to this is a tiny fraction compared the number of Asians I know that are open to it. I have noticed though, that the younger the girls, regardless of culture, the more likely to be open to the "hobby".

I don't have a whole lot of experience in this region, but I found the Filipinas in AC to be QUITE open to duplas and triplas. Maybe I just lucked out and got some bi babes, but I heard no objections, and I had fewer sessions with only one girl (following I think it was Porker's admonition, "they're small, take two") than otherwise.

Hunter - is that with working girls, or with regular good girls? My thoughts were on none working girls.,. Working girls, of course, understand butterflies altogether, so it's even more likely that a working girl would be open to the thought of letting their men enjoy the mongering lifestyle. But if the Filipinas are now going that route too, so much the better for everyone who leans toward having one main squeeze and tons of play on the side. ;-)

I found that to be true about the Filipinas also HM, I'm missing those bite sized tasty morsals...my last few trips to AC/Manila lived up to old tagline: bet you can't have just one :-)

Law: I tend to agree with you on the openmindedness thing but might add as follows: I know a Thai-Chinese gal here who says to me she'd rather be girlfriend #2 of a rich guy who plays around than girlfriend #1 of a poor guy who doesn't. Openmindedness seems correlated to the perception of a guy having $$$ IMO. Now the trick is, how to convince these gals one's got money :-)

Merlin: yea that's about right, basically, if all the household needs are met, then you're good to go with whatever you want to do with however many ladies you can afford to keep. To them they see it as your hobby, just like any other hobby, such as bowling, fishing, camping, etc. They don't have a problem with it, and with the younger ones, are even happy to join you, if you're so inclined on your mongering jaunts.

As for the Thai-Chinese gal you speak of, her way of thinking is actually VERY common amongst most gold-diggers (btw I have no problems with GDs, long as everyone's clear about their roles), the difference between an Asian GD and an American one is how sweet and caring they can be. American GDs are spoiled and have no clue how to take care of a man, other than dressup-look nice-and give up the pussy on demand. Asians, on the otherhand....well we've all been overseas...you know how it goes :-)

Law--yes they were working girls. I'm not young and handsome enough or rich enough to go after the "good girls" (gold diggers?).

Hey Merlin, I'd be missing the bite-sized Filipinas too if I weren't juggling a couple of large-breasted Thai girls :-}}. But we'll see how well they juggle, I'm just starting this dangerous game. I may have to pay off the jealous one (i.e., overpay her)-- the other one is Thai-Chinese and open-minded. (Coincidence?)

When I am prepared to make a specific financial offer, Law, I suspect you'll be proven true--I hope to try. Come on Merlin, let's figure out how to be rich enough--I hear I missed that strategy session you had with Sukhumvitter. The best way to convince them that you have money is to HAVE money.

HM, I wish I had two Thai gals to juggle...you're the man. Remember to keep your eye on the ball while you're juggling.

Too bad you missed out on the get-rich-quick brainstorming sessions -- some serious brain power on this board as you know. I'll have to give you a recap later.

LAW: It also helps that the Chinese-Thai gal I know is the daughter of a wife #2 herself. So far no signs of GD...knock on wood.

Merlin

Perhaps we could have another brainstorm session at our favorite Thai restaurant tonight...?

E

Damnit! You guys are there right now? Shoot missed you guys again! I've got to get rich quick so I can go whenever I want.

I have a NEW favorite Thai restaurant to suggest for the next meeting of the minds--not as accessible as the one on Hollywood Blvd. though--Galaxy Hands-Free Restaurant, near Sam Yan. Some REALLY good-looking girls feed you, and then are available for take-out. I know you'll want to be there next time I go....;-}