By smitopher on Saturday, December 11, 2004 - 11:31 pm: Edit |
Misogynists, Hedonists and Hopeless Saps
We seem to break up into these three categories. It’s easy to form an opinion about where a poster might fit in the continuum that exists around those three archetypes.
Where do you fit?
By Laguy on Sunday, December 12, 2004 - 04:01 pm: Edit |
I'm afraid there are only losers and boozers on this board. Where in God's name did you get the idea there were any hedonists?
By smitopher on Monday, December 13, 2004 - 08:41 pm: Edit |
cuz I like women and I like to feel good. I'm fraid of being a loser.
I was kinda serious about there being a few Misogynists here. Some folks here have trouble hiding their hatred of the womenfolk. Others, it becomes apparent that they really like their paid girlfriends without letting the money fuck up a good time. It seems to boil down to having to show that you are in charge vs. having a good time. If you're into a good time and you end up with a clinker, you move on and cease wasting time. If you are into a power trip, you have to show the bitch what for.
I was reading Epi's dark night of the soul and while he is a self acknowledged terrorist of all things chaste and wholesome, me thinks he kinda likes the girls. It made me think about assumptions and I hoped to spark an interesting thread.
By Laguy on Monday, December 13, 2004 - 09:53 pm: Edit |
Okay, that explains it. I just hope this doesn't turn into a Bammer-arama.
By smitopher on Monday, December 13, 2004 - 10:44 pm: Edit |
Now that I think of it, that was dangerously close to troll flame bait.
By Kingtuttheslut on Tuesday, December 14, 2004 - 06:52 pm: Edit |
I think its fair to say that most of us (or at least most of the guys I've met in this hobby) are a bit of all 3 combined with a dominant streak of misogyny and hedonism as a result of their experiences with women in N. America.
By smitopher on Tuesday, December 14, 2004 - 09:45 pm: Edit |
No, you can't blame North American women (often labeled "Feminazis" by the more rabid Misogynists). All women are like that. Women who have options will use them AND women hate being "abandoned". If they are able, they will try to punish you for leaving them. It's in their nature.
Most of us want that GFE but not it's obligations. We can get a reasonable facimile in our travels but if you try to get the real thing, you get the whole package.
I'm really not into a PSE. I've resigned myself that if I chase the GFE, I'll get burned along with it. Cost of doing business. While I keep my hobby private, I observe the women around me, including those met while on the hobby and I have come to a conclusion, I like being single.