I have a question for the board. Is there a consensus here on the definition of a "girl friend experience"? Though I'm in my 50's now, over the years (in addition to being married for a many years) have had a few dozens of girlfriends, some serious with lengthy relationships, some not. I've also hired my share of play for pay girls all over the world. But until I joined this board I never thought of the hired help as providing anything more than the physical part of what is available in a relationship. The idea of expecting or even seeking something more is confusing and seemingly illusory to me.

So I'm throwing it out to the board. What is a GFE?? Is it hot sex, that is, an E-ticket ride which includes dfk, daty, bbbj etc. etc. with a willing and involved attitude on the part of a perhaps beautiful woman? Or is there something else as well, some intangible, which makes it a gfe? Are we just scratching an itch, or looking to find something else in an hour and a half?

One of our members here (pun intended) had a "long term" relationship with a working girl which ultimately proved enormously disruptive and emotionally damaging (as well as financially costly) to him. Not that that couldn't happen with an amateur, but...

What say you?

you got it! - "confusing and seemingly illusory"

"seemingly illusory" - I like it, complicated combo of words. Maybe a bit repetively redundant.

SF,

I think basically all it really means is anything more than a walking vending machine. With some of the girls, it's as if you put your money in the slot, they mechanically perform just what they have to with very litle enthusiasm, and then they are gone.

With many others, it is a lot better than this, as the girls treat you like a long time friend, relax and talk with you, and the sex is terrific.
This is where the GFE comes in. You are treated as though she is your girl friend. It is only a short lived experience though, but it is far superior that the alternative.

No we are not going to keep these girls as our own, but if the word is out that a girl provides a GFE, then you have a good idea that you will have a great time.

Wish they could all have the attitude of the one in the photo.

Enjoy the life,

Moondog

SFH

Girlfriend Experience as relates to sex is the good part of GFE. It's a warmer encounter where very little is held back, with greater interaction.

When they begin to act like girlfriends because you keep 'em around too long, that's the BAD part of GFE. Copping an attitude, getting moody, or not fully cooperating. Who needs that when you're paying???

One of the reasons I have loved going to Cuba is because my definition of GFE is more the norm there.

Do's And Don't of a good GFE to me:

Do:
DFK that is real
BBBJ and try to make sure you enjoy it
DATY and might let loose and enjoy themselves
Allow and enjoy many positions

Don't:
CLOCK WATCH - this is about an act that takes on a life of its' own, right? Better than half the Cubanas I've been with have been for 3+ hours
COUNT MY NUTS - if I'm ready to go again that should be included
TRY TO CHARGE MORE FOR TLN - if the TLN thing happens it happens. Doosh said it's a given with many chicas that a morning session should get the man's day off to a good start. I agree wholeheartedly.

Did I miss anything?
DG

Is it a GFE if you think it is a GFE? What's good music anyways?

I look for "GFE" as an indicator of DFK and "she means it" when she DFK's me. I don't exactly expect "true intimacy" or loving glances; or someone who gets pissed off if I don't call. I don't REALLY believe "she means it" but I find that the fantasy about DFK enhances the experience much much more than any of the other fantasies, and has become almost a necessity for me in any situ. except the instantly-short-time arrangements.

The term, I think, is more useful in distinguishing among different USA internet providers, than among the exotic chicas abroad, since (as far as I can tell from reading about it) what is going on is, basically, that in all the world EXCEPT the USA (and Europe?) almost all providers are GFE.

You forgot Mexican border towns, BG. ;-)