I decided to start an area for that most basic of all issues, falling in love..
treeshark

One word of advice: Don't!

Falling in love with a working girl will probably be the most painful experience of your life. There are successful stories (so far), but they are a miniscule percentage. IF you have the choice, follow Curious's advice.

Actually I started this aa a way to save the report from Bill since everyone seemed to think that it was a classic..

"Don't"

Fall in love or fall in love with a working girl.. Or both.. :-)

Actually too late for me.. Must be an age thing but fall in love all the time.. But with the distance between where I live and Colombia and the time between trips, things just do not seem to workout..
I spent a lot of time with a chica in Jan and Feb.. Saw her at a casa and got her for the night because she looked like an old girlfriend.. Ending up spending about 2 and 1/2 weeks with her.. There was a special connection there for me and she said that I was special for her too.. But how many times has a working girl said that ?? I considered trying to make a marriage work out with her.. But I did a LOT of soul searching and realised that I am just too much of a jealous person and that I could never get past the issue of her being a working girl.. So I just never got back in touch with her.. I ran into her again in Sept and it took all of 5 seconds for all of those feelings to come back. We spent almost all of that vacation together but did not have time to see her this last trip.. Will spend time with her the next time I go but still trying to figure how what type of relationship to have with her.. Some type of Novia I guess.. I even think of her as an esposa..
But while she might be my favorite, I still have 5 other chicas that I also have strong feelings for.. Only one is not a working chica and I will need someone who can speak spanish to see if it possible to see that one again..
I would like to get married again but mainly because I have never had children and would like to have one or two so I have someone to leave the family estate to..
Even with the short amount of time that I have spent with my esposas, I can understand how painful a really long term relationship would be..

Note to self,, get to the introduction service quicly and see what normal chicas I can hook up with..

Anyone want to share thoughts about all of this, well feel free to jump right in. I find that someone who is not emotionaly involved can see things much clearer..

treeshark

Leave family estate to me & Ill spend it on your girls and mine as well.

LOL.. have heard that one before.. :-)

I am an only child and my mother and I have an interesting will set up now.. We are dividing the estate into seven parts and will split it among seven people.. only one of them is a family member by the way.. Two of the people are personas from Colombia.. One lucky chica will get a huge "tip" if I do not get married again.. in a way it is a shame that i will not be able to see her face if and when she finds out.. but the names will change as time goes by so perhaps there will be more chicas..
For those of you with a bit of money, perhaps you should consider leaving a "gift" to that special chica that gave you the best (night, weekend, week) of your life..

I was beginning to fall in love with one, no make that two well actually make that three lovelys. I was fortunate enough to keep it in the realm of fantasy. Went with the flow for the short ride.

In the back of my mind I allways new nothing would come of it. Hey we can (and should) dream, can't we?

Treeshark, you can find the right chica even through an agency as I can attest. I joined an agency last December and then met a lady through them who is everything I could hope for. I interviewed four of the agency listings but my honey stood out from the first meeting and although we have had to resolve the usual cross cultural differences and she has had to come to terms with the physical separation from family after the wedding I am very sure it will all work out after the wedding later this month.

I think you are right that the jealous feelings with a working girl tend to undermine the trust necessary to underpin a close relationship. But I had a worry that my little Colombian beauty in her mid 30's ( I am early 50's ) had some committment problems but a few long chats established that she had been in several long relationships that for valid reasons didn't lead to marriage. I've been married twice before and this is the one! The Colombian women are such caring and enthusiastic lovers they are a joy to discover. I hope you do meet the right chica as you sound like someone who truly would make her happy.

Falling in love with a working girl - Damn, I just did it again. Now, instead of being the girl who busts her ass to please me, she's the woman I spend all of my spare time (Friday night thru early Sunday evening) with. She always wants me around, but pretty much ignores me and my needs (physical & emotional). I'm crazy about her but suffering terribly. Sometimes love is a 4-letter word.....

Dazed, Mrcym, and Senor Pauncho.. I did a search with your handles and read some of your posts to get an idea of what you are like.. Was very interesting. But a little about me. I am 53.. we are all around the same age.. Have been divorced twice and have no children. I live in Virginia and do not do the mexican scene.. However I have read so many of the mexican posts, I feel like I know the place now..
I worked 7 hours today and have 12 hours to work tomorrow and will get 4 and 1/2 hours sleep at this point. So will chat tomorrow but Senor Pauncho, a nice person like you deserves much better.. I think that you deserve a much better relationship..
treeshark

Treeshark;

Yeh, but with my skinny dick, I want to try her on first, hence hookers....
(but thanks for the sentiment)
Of course part of my problem is that I'm 90 lbs overweight, unkempt, and fond of 20-30 year-old beautiful women...

This is a link to a short interview with a few bargirls that you should read, before buying your tickets, if your mental condition is anything other than solid on the subject of women and love. I believe it to be an actual interview transcript, not a dramatization.

The interview should give you a bargirl's perspective on their job and life. If it does not, you're wearing rose-colored glasses and you're an emotional accident waiting to happen.

If you're stable emotionally, then the interview should freshen your approach to our ST and LT friends of the night (and day).

DO NOT FALL IN LOVE IN THAILAND. You have been warned. That said, have fun!!!