Does anyone else on this board have experience using ancient tantric practices for male potency and sexual stimulation?

If there is an interest, I can go over the key points depending on the questions asked. I am not certain there is a need for such material on a site of this nature, however I believe it is beneficial in any venue.

To open this discussion, I will speak about ejaculation practices. This is the basic practice, and we can go further if you are interested in really moving into it.

First, a littel background on me;
Since graduation, I have been in private practice for 22 years. While in medical school, I quickly realized that most of my classmates were some of the unhealthiest slobs, both mentally and physically, I have ever met. Soon afterwards, I realized that most of medical practice is full of shit, so I decided to switch gears and go into natural remedies, which is the foundation on which I have built my practice and professional life, and where I am today. This is cutting it extremely short! I have written a number of books and lecture both domestically and abroad.

I have always had a HYPER-active libido. I could never understand impotence, or how that could be possible. Mine was the opposite problem, noticing all the beauties walking by me on the beach in my youth as I lay on my stomach, not being able to turn around for a while until Mr. Happy calmed down a bit. Impotence/pre-mature ejaculation actually has many psychological implications that once realized, helps the situation naturally over time; and while on the journey you discover items about yourself that are life-transforming in many other aspects of your daily life.

I have no problem with Viagra and the other boner stimulants flooding our marketplace. Hey, why not?! if you're 85 and want to bang a few hookers for a few hours until you have a heart attack, I can't think of any better way to go out. But if you want a more lasting peace and power from your sexuality and sexual practices, discovering the power of your MEMBER is of upmost importance.

You are an energetic being creating a physical presense in this realm of existence (corporeal reality). It can never be the opposite. When your number is up and you loose the physical aspects you have become attached to, what then? If your nature deals primarily in existentialism, well then thats it...........you're gone and there is nothing else. But in truth, that part of you that always feels young and alive no matter how old you are will continue onward, and probably come back to experience and learn more here on Earth. It takes a while to fully move beyond all this.

Anyway, your sexual force is the energy of creation. This is one of the most powerful forces in the universe. It is what brings atoms together to form the molecules of life, and the enertia of Newtonian Physics that creates the attractive forces of gravity. To think you are simply "horney," and you just need to "fuck" is to place you in the same category of a horney humping dog. He has not brain power to realize he is anything else. You do, if you will only work to harness it. You are what you are aware of. Base functions, or universal.

To learn how to use Tantric sex, or what has been called Sacred sex, more effectively, is one of the most exciting and pleasurable aspects of being a man, IMHO. We all know that women work on an entirely different energetic sexual clock than we do. This is obvious. Things being as they are on the planet right now, swinging heavily toward the YANG (male), women tend to deny their sexual/energetic nature and just act to please men, since in this time in our planets history this is what produces results for security/ health /happiness. But, sooner or later, men and women are miserable together unless they keep to the practices of nurturing their own sexual forces. The more they can do this together, the longer they will stay together as a happy and healthy couple..........there really is no other way.

Our society is based on greed and the aquisition of false wealth. We are built up on the outside and have plenty of paper money, or digits on some banks computer screen, but inside we are as empty as sea shells. Tantric practices, very basically, involves a shift in the way you think first. In many ways the aquisition of monetary wealth has to be let go of, and the development of yourself as a spiritual being needs to move up. Oddly enough, when you let go of the former, you tend to aquire more than you need, but that is a different lecture entirely. For now, begin to shift your thinking on what your sexual drives really mean.

I have a friend who was so horney in college he used to jerk-off 5 times a day in his room. This is an example of "horney-dog" consciousness. Do you want to stay there? Eventually, this makes you tired and sick. There is so much more to the throb in your dick, and the ache to find a suitable vagina, then you may realize. Intercourse between men and women actually completes us both more on an energetic level when it is connected and not focused on orgasm, and this is the key for this initial lesson;

Say you are in Rio, and you are going to bang 4 chicas all bent over and waiting for you, as I have noted in some of the photos here. Its probably not possible to bring them all to orgasm, since they are there for the cash and this is what they do for work, but in instances such as this, which are extremely exciting, there is opportunity for tremendous growth. Can you bang each of them like a porn star, moving between them for an hour or so until you decide to lose it and blast on one of their backs? Or do you barely make it through to the second one before you are toast?

To begin, instead of focusing on how horney the situation is, begin to look at yourself as giving these 4 bent over whores a gift. This may seem totally ridiculous at first, since they are whores and are just acting anyway, thinking about what they are getting paid and when you will finally let them go home, but do it anyway and see what happens. See your throbing member as the shining rod of perpetual energetic wisdom, and when you stick it in them bring the focus away from your own pleasure, and use the head of your dick to find their G-Spot. Almost like your dick has eyes on its head. Turn the focus on finding this area, and use your dick to massage it. Make this the sole purpose of fucking her. As you feel more and more stimulation, and the build up toward ejaculation, simply slow down before it gets too active, and CLENCH your PC muscles. These are the muscles you would use to stop a strong piss mid-stream if you were caught pissing in a parking lot by a cop at a ball game. Develop these muscles. Exercise them daily, 3 to 4 times just by clenching them about 20 times, like you would do any other set in a weight training work out. You can do this in the car! When you develop this, it becomes a powerful tool for male enhancement. Now as well, pound your chica while focusing on your breath. Again, this takes the sensation out of the horney dog consciousness and shifts it toward control. Use both the PC clench coupled with the a quick breath upward toward the top of your lungs, and you will find two thing happening. First, your dick will get harder and harder, and the sensation for fucking will become more pleasurable for you as you breath the intense sexual pleasure sensations out of your dick and upward through the rest of your body. Try to bring them up through your chest and possibly to your big head. Second, while focusing on her G-spot and noticing her movements, you will naturally fall into more of a flow energetically of what she wants, rather than the script of "what this should be." She will build up more feminine sexual energy, which you will presistently breath up into your body, and this communion of sexuality is like nothing else available on the planet for fulfillment.

Now of course, you are not going to accomplish sexual fulfillment of whores that are there for money. But you can use them to practice. Just focus on what you are doing with them, if they are only there for the money. Eventually, you will find a more GFE type of experience, and a chica who becomes more interested in giving you the GFE since you are different.

Before I start getting a lot of synical responses to this post, let me say firts and foremost that of course this is not an end all and be all. Chicas are what they are, manipulative and greedy, and this will not transform them into obliging sex slaves that crave only your cock and give it to you for free. BUT, you are in this for your own sexual development. Believe me, even the greediest of manipulative whores who give you GFE will shift as a result of you shifting in this way, and you will connect more from a truthful place that will be more fulfilling for you, even if you never see her again or if she is off fucking someone else in an hour. The key is, you will be different, and they will know it.

So to conclude this first lesson, keep up the breath, PC pull, and focus on the G-spot, and this will thwart ejaculation and increase pleasure. You can then decide when you want to blast, if you even do at all. You are shifting your orgasm potential to something other than ejaculation as the climax. Excessive ejaculation is draining and bad for male body. But, excessive tantric fucking, each day and each hour with a different chica, is extremely good for the male body. Develop this, and see how you become more of a superman. Consider only ejaculating one of every four times you fuck, and go from there. See how this makes you feel. You may think you will be frustrated, but just the opposite occurs. You feel stronger, more potent, and in control as the true master of your domain. The energy you gain from these sexual practices, when not wasted on blasting it out through ejaculation, can then be used for other creative endeavors in your life. You choose!

If there are any questions or creative comments, I will continue. Otherwise, hope this was interesting.

For those of you who are "spelling" junkies, sorry if there are mistakes.......I fly through this without the spell check since it does not work on my computer for some reason.......

SP

I'm interested in hearing more, any website recommendations?

Please by all means continue.

To continue;

The complete Tantric technique which involves the PC pull coupled with the breath, involves a warm up exercise to fucking all men should do. Here it is;

From an erect standing position and preferebly naked, bend forward and rest your hands on your knees with elbows bent at 90 degrees. Your knees should be bent at around 120 degrees as well as your lower back in relation to the floor. Almost like you were going to take a crap in the woods but did not want to touch the ground.

From this position, cletch the PC muscles and take a sharp, deep breath upward. Feel the breath go from your dick (which shoud be hard and ready), up through your lower back and into your chest if you can. Do three sets of 15 with about a minute inbetween.

This technique is especially good if you are caught with a quick strike of the "hornies." For example, sometimes when I first get to Panama I am thinking about banging some good looking whore a bit too much, so I'm pretty horney when I finally get to wherever; and in Panama, there is always a great looking whore to bang any time of the day, and day of the week if you know where to go, or especially if you have GFE connections waiting for you.

One time, I literally stepped out from customs and there was GFE numbero 2 surprising me. I was supposed to meet GFE numero 1 but she was late as usual. GFE 2 was a bit chunkier, but today she looked absolutely fabulous with great make-up and a low cut, tight fitting....................yada yada........

So I leave with her. We proceed right to my hotel and she is rubbing my dick tantilizingly in the back of the cab as we chat. She then starts using her nails and I thought I might explode right there. Now she knows me and my whole deal with Tantra, so shes seen the breathing before. She giggles and continues to stroke me faster and more playfully. As a pattern interupt I thrust my head into her clevage, and we all had a good laugh (cabbie included); but it got her to knock it off for the time being. Unknowing to her I began the PC clenching right then on the drive to Via Espania.

We get up to the room, and I see the light is already flashing on the phone.......GFE 1 of course. She is already undressing and licking her lips at me to come into the bed. "Necessito pour el bano, espera ti una momento mi amor," and I thwart myself into the bathroom, rip off my clothes and begin this exercise immediately to save the moment. It worked better than I had expected for this type of high, horney situation, as I was able to maintain control for 45 minutes of multiple orgasmic fucking for her, and one huge blast on her face for me. Without this exercise, I maybe would have lasted 10 minutes, and would have needed at least a 30 minute recovery period before I could go again. As it was, I had to kick her out since GFE 1 was on the way over. One hour later I got into the same process with GFE 1, although not nearly as intense. I did not ejaculate for another 2 days, but I fucked her at least 4 times each day, and got to fuck GFE 2 another 2 times at her appartment before I left ( I gave her one more load as well). All in all, I fucked two very hot women for a total of about 22 times in 5 days, and ejaculated only 5 times.

Another interesting phenomena with this, is that if you tell the chicas what you are doing, and how you are incorporating more sensuality and spirituality into your love making with her by not ejaculating, they seem to want you more and go on a mission to make you ejaculate........at least subconsciously even if they understand what and why you are doing this. This means you get more quality sex, usually more passionate as well, since they tend to seek you out more and set up the stage for fucking them, rather than you constantly prowling after them. Every time you fuck and do not ejaculate, your dick gets harder for the next time, and they love this as well. They finally surrender after a number of orgasms (if they are faking them, so what?!), and you say, "okay, I'm good too." And knowing that you have not ejaculated they give you the most puzzling look. You feel more in control of the situation, feel stronger fulfilled and strong, and are more present for touching them in the after-sex mode. You gain more control over her now since she wants you even more than when she began (usually, if we are talking about a true GFE and not just a casual bang). But this is the way to turn casual bangs into GFE's.

Give it a try. I'll post some books to get to begin with as well. If you come by any web sites with what I am saying on them, let me know of them since I am not aware of any.

SP

Continuing on with your homework;

A good basic text to begin your study is;

The Tao of Love and Sex: Author is JoLan Chang - This is a classic basic text on Tantra, fun and easy to read in a weekend or on the train ride to work.

The Bible for Tantric Sex as far as I am concerned, is;
Taoist Secrets of Love - Cultivating Male Sexual Energy: Author is Mantak Chia (means "he fucks a lot" in chinese)

Here are some quotes in the introduction;
"Our Western institutional religious tradition has essentially repressed and distorted the sexual instinct and thereby created a variety of personal and social pathologies. In so doing, it has also effectively removed sexuality from its spiritual foundations."

" It is true that the sexual instinct can both liberate and enslave, but in order to be truly liberating, the sexual instinct must be channeled in the direction of another purpose. Only in conjunction with the drive for spiritual transformation can sex become truly liberating."

I can not even begin to describe what gems these texts are. Spend time with them. Contemplate them daily. Just by virtue that you shift in this way makes you energetically more attractive to women and the will tend to flock toward you more easily just from what you are reading; because you will be changing. Women are extremely sensative and energetic beings, and they move toward some men that seem completely gawky and away from some that seem like great catches all because of how they feel IN THE MOMENT. We all know this. You will be shifting energetically and find more peace and ease with sexual encounters no matter how old you are or how you look; you will become one up on many, many men.

Give it a whirl and start reading.
Also, if you get a chance, rent the movie BLISS (made in 1999 or something like that). It is a drama about Tantric sex in one couples marriage.

SP

There is more....................................

Lets hear more. This is interesting stuff.

MM

ps: Thanks for starting this topic.

Good to see something new on the board. And this is definitely an interesting topic.

Ever notice that eventually the good times wear off, and sooner or later every great-fuck woman you have ever been with turns out like every other "used-to-be" great-fuck woman you ran from?

I have a standard rule about relationships. Everyone is on their best behavoir for certainly the first year, maybe even two. Then the shit hits the fan. This is why a lot of men like to move between women every year or so before you start getting into each other psyches and really start knowing one another.

I personally, did not grow up until the birth of my son when I was 34. Even still, this forced me to grow up; I did not want to. But the pain of being responsible and actually staying with one woman for more than a few years, seeing her most days of my life, was less than the pain of not raising my children correctly. In life, we always have choices. This was mine. Then came my daughter, and I have been the full fledged family-guy ever since.

There has been a VERY long respite for good sexual relations between my wife and I, but before the kids, and even after my son was born for a while, we continued the Tantra because we both TOTALLY got into it. I can honestly say it was the binding glue of our existence together. We hardly fought for years. We only began fighting a lot when the Tantra stopped. Now, we are rekindling that kinship and moving back to that space of oneness together through sexuality.

When you get into Tantric sex together, the woman also holds off her orgasm and contracts her PC muscles with a coupled breath. Then you get into doing it together like this in multiple positions, and it truly is Bliss. You can even take a break; grab a cold lemonade and towel off with your hard dick flapping around in the breeze; douse her with a full glass of it (make sure there is plenty of ice ), and start fucking again. The woman will get SUPER wet with Tantra, and your dick will get so hard you will be able to fuck for an hour or so; so much that eventually you will both say, "OKAY,ENOUGH ALREADY!"

Then, when you do decide to have an ejaculatory sex session, say after 4 or 5 times this way, when you blast you will not believe the intensity of the orgasm........it will literally knock you on your ass! The neighbors will call the police.............

You have other types of orgasms while in the Tantric mode. She may become multiple orgasmic and feel them travel all the way up her spine as you hold her. You too can have a vibration type of orgasm that will emanate from the PC draw and breath. You will feel it in your sacrum first and it too will move a smooth kind of vibrational energy up your spine that will mix with your heart, and possibly move toward your head. This flow of sexual stimulation is extremely beneficial and healing for both partners.

Mixing the ejaculatory kind of sex with Tantra is fine at the rate of every 5 times or so. You want to get it to this on a pretty tight schedule to make progress. You have to get your head out of blasting every time you get horney like a teenager, and mature to a new understanding of your sexual force.

Those Texts I gave you are a great place to begin and learn. There are other methods for drawing up the energy listed there, especially in the CHIA book.

One other text:
Tantric Book of Chinese Over population: Author is
We Fukem Young

(HA! a joke from my childhood! )

WHAT WOMEN WANT

Average looking women can get fucked whenever they want to; so you can imagine how boring sex becomes to great looking women. When you stop trying to get laid and win the prize of fucking the best looking one in the bar, and just focus on how much you have to offer a woman sexually with your force, you become a total GORGEOUS WOMAN magnet.

More later.............

SP -

Great stuff. Surprisingly, I've been into Tantric sex for a long-time without really understanding the philosophy or reading any published work.

When I was young I was always going after the big ejaculation each and everytime (natural for a young man). However, when I lived in the PI (in my 20s) and actually started serious mongering tallying up sexual encounters with numerous women, I realized that my sexual enjoyment and fulfillment would be greatly enriched if I focused more on pleasing my woman first rather than just pleasing myself. In order to last longer, I would repress my urge to ejaculate. I would focus more on touching, kissing and sucking in and around the arogenous zones. I'd hold out only until when the chica could not take it any longer, where she'd eventually pull me into her. Then I'd fuck her fast and shallow, or slow and deep, changing positions often. Again, as I started building up into a climax I would withdraw and supress my urge to come.

Now I have never tried repressing myself through 5 different sessions before eventually ejaculating. Like you said, sometimes you and your chica reach a point where "enough is enough". Women want to know that they pleasured their man by making him come. Yet, by holding off minimally 2, better 3 times, 4 times is hard for me...when I eventually do come, the chica I am with typically gains a real sense of accomplishment, afterall, she feels she worked hard to eventually get me to release my seed. And after holding off 2 or 3 times, my ejaculation can be extremely powerful. Normally I am not into coming on a chicas face or in her hair, but there have been times when unwrapped when I pulled-out and launched a glob of cum from the base of her pussy straight into her eye splashing over to her ear and into her hair. Had I only had it on video...it would have made the classics.

Please share more SP.

AJ

Great share AJ!

Sounds like the Kennedy assasination majic bullet! My wad doesn' shoot from the pussy to the head anymore, but in my 20's this was common place...............the fuckers really never had to swim as they were practically launched into abdomen from the inside force! When I was young and stupid I got a few pregnant just because I couldn't resist.....one time, two during the same months....now that was stress! They did not have the children, at least from what I understand.........jese I don't even want to think about that, so lets move on!

Nowadays, my orgasms are longer lasting and the sperm shoot is not as dramatic. Usually to the belly button or so, and only on the first big JERK or goo.

Lots of guys do much of this stuff naturally after they have had a good amount of experience fucking good looking women. Why? Because after the thrill wears off, fucking beautiful women becomes like anything else.......boring.....that is of course unless you find a way to evolve what you are doing to the next level. In AJ's example, he shared with us his natural progression. With a little tweaking of intent, this will now become a full fledged Tantric practice if he chooses.

The nitty gritty of Tantra needs to be a conscious choice for men. This is because since we are human animals, and not dogs or wild fucking bunnies, we have the ability to make good or bad choices that enable us to move beyond instinct and programming; in other words, we have the ability to evolve past humping-dog consciousness.

What is next past the humping-dog? Committed relationship perhaps? Well, this can be part of it, however even a pair of Canadian Geese mate for life. If you ever study them together, the devotion they have for one another, their children and their family is quite similar to our own structure. But are they Tantric?

Tantra is one of those eastern words like Karma, Dharma, and Samskara that have no english translation. The english language was never designed to be deep enough to cover such esoteric discourse and comprehensive thought. Tantra best translates to "evolved control," and the control we seek as men on this path is that of our sexual force, which as we all are aware, can become addictive and dysfunctional.

Male sexual energy becomes dysfunctional when mixed with repressed psychological issues from childhood. When there are really bad issues, it forms the serial killer, the child rapist, the
S & M types, and so on.

Tantra, quite literally, is about doing your absolute best to mix your sexual force with love.
Plain and simple. This is the same as saying, mixing your sexual force with reverence, respect, kindness, attentiveness and exploration.

Now when any great relationship begins, usually two people are so hot for one another that they can hardly wait to rip their clothes off; they may not even make it inside and begin fucking in the car, then on the front porch, the kitchen table..........the first year of a great sexual relationship hardly makes it to the bed n many cases. Certainly, this is the way it has been for me. According to Tantra, this is the difference between Sacred Sex (Tantric) and Romantic Sex.

We all love Romantic Sex! This is why we monger, but in many cases, if you are honest, you know that mongering falls short most times of anything romantic, unless you spend some time, and yes, some money, on developing a GFE. Now that you have some knowledge of Tantra, you can still have the romantic sex with the tantric twist.........focus on her and not your dick....the thrusting techniques AJ was speaking of are actually listed in many Tantric texts as pleasure techniques. If you follow a flow of finding that G spot, you will naturally find a rhythm with her that will be all yours. You will also be surprised how easy it is to do this. You actually are having so much fun that you don't want to ejaculate.

............and this AJ, is how you make it to 5, maybe even 10 times without ejaculating. As I began, it is all about a conscious effort to evolve, at any age. Of course, most men get into Tantra after 40 since it is just easier with the calming, maturity and wisdom age brings. Begin with 2 times, then keep trying to surpass your goal. When your partner is conscious of what you are doing, she can also get into it and help you. This is an increadible bonding and also requires a woman that is somewhat mature (28 and above I would say). When your woman orgasms, feel the pulsation of that feminine YIN and breathe it up your spine while she is in the midst of her glory. You may orgasm with her! YES! This happens. When she comes, you too have a non-ejaculatory orgasm like a woman! This happens for me all the time, and although it is different from the typical male squirt, it is extremely satisfying.

MY GILLIANA EXPERIENCE FOR 18 MONTHS

When I met Gilliana she was 20, and very much a scam artist from the get-go. But working things as I did with her (a long story very shortened) with techniques from David DeAngelo's "Double your Dating" course, and a bit of Tony Robbins "Neuro-linguistic Programming" from the 80's, I was able to tame her over a few months time.

What this meant was that I was in control. I would end it anytime I wanted, and I will only give money when I want and for whatever reason I see fit to either give, or deny. She got this from the start, and although it was clear that cash was necessary to keep her around, it was never enough cash to be the sole insentive.

My goals were clear. Right before my first trip to Panama I saw her on this site, and could not believe how beautiful she was. Then when I bumped into her on Via Espania......this was a sign from the heavens! She had no idea that I knew who she was, and she played the innocent BS thing with me for a long time before I told her I knew she was a whore. One evening as she lay next to me after a long session, I realized how beautiful she was, and fell in love with her. This is when I did the unthinkable "transform the whore" thing.

Tantra with Gilliana was not very successful in the conventional sense; partly since she was so manipulative and hidden, but also because she is very young (now nearly 22). She would bet so puzzled as to why I was not ejaculating. She would work so hard at it, pretending that she was into it but actually wanting to just go to sleep. Many times I pretended to blast in her just so she would not feel bad.......but men have a hard time faking ejaculatory orgasms...she knew. I tried to explain to her that I preferred having other types of orgasms with her, but she totally could not get it.

What the Tantra did do, is allow her to be more present with her own sexual needs, and this happened very well............

to be continued.................

SP

continuing from last night;

So, is it possible to bring a young, beautiful "disadvantaged" Panamanian whore to a better place in life with Tantra? I think so.

Although the lessons she learned having Tantra with me were not where near Hollywood extremes, there were some subtilties worth mention. They all centered around the realization at her young age that sexuality can actually be something shared and given, rather than manipulated for survival and to control men into giving her what she wants.

In this case, what we came to was the discovery of her sexual abuse trauma at during her early teenage years, which occurred from an uncle and stepfather.

Now, this is the OTHER PART of Tantra, and if you are not ready to handle it and help a woman heal, than it is best to stick with the ejaculation control, which will always have benefits.

This other aspect deals with fully opening up a womans G-spot to expose and release energetic trauma. Woman, when wounded, hold a tremendous amount of pain from the past in this area. Ever been with a woman who could barely feel her G-spot, and thus, if she has orgasms they are ALL CLITORIAL?

For many women, clitorial orgasms are no big deal. I had a girlfriend once who could give herself 12 a day just by crossing her legs in the right way an grinding around a bit. She went to a preppy private girls school, and wore those short skirts, and would do it all the time during different classes. She was quite an intellectual, and we discussed Tantra quite a bit in those days as I really enjoyed her company. But, she didn't want to get into it and asked me to please not push the point with her about attempting to open her "sacred-spot," or the G-spot. She gave the absolute BEST HEAD I have ever had in my life, and loved doing it as much as you wanted. Of course, I took advantage of this, and no, it was not Tantric! That girl could suck a golf ball through a garden hose. It was the only time in my life I actually FELT the jiz being pulled from the depths of my balls where it is created...........the sensation was amazing and I still remember that nearly 14 years later.

But, she didn't like intercourse, and we discovered together by my passive massage of her G-spot that she had a tremendous amount of energy stuck there, and this was the reason. We then moved into actually trying to release it, but it got to intense for her. Eventually the relationship just lost its flare and steam. Running into her every now and then as I do around town, she is now married to a much older guy who is anything but a sexual dynamo, and you can see why........this is what is safe for her. She has emersed herself in a life of servititude to him and his older children, and a deep practice of meditation. What ever it is that needs to come out, it is not coming out through sex.

Tantric sex is the greatest, most efficient healer there is IMHO. But it is just too intense for many people, men and women alike.

If you want to get into this aspect, explore the possibilities with your woman about becomming closer with her through Tantric healing. You would like to deepen your understanding of her and heighten your sexual pleasure and estacy with her. Sounds good, right? A woman who is hiding from you will not be too keen with this idea; one who is open to more intimacy with you will. The discovery of this in and of itself is quite an education.

The technique is simple. Have her lay on her back. After some play and she is comfortable and wet, you gently slip your middle or ring finger or either hand all the way into her vagina. Then, like you would call someone with either finger from across a crowded room by motioning "come over here" with it (flexing or curling the finger toward you), you gently curl the finger upward toward the top of the vagina and move toward the opening. You will find the G-spot this way, and it is commonly more toward the opening of the vagina just above or underneath the pubic bone on top. It will feel like a fleshy mass of tissue due to the heavy neurological input, and this feeling may be subtle, so you have to concentrate sometimes. It is usually the size of a quarter. Sometimes you get lucky and it is the size of a half-dollar. Sometimes it is difficult and very small, like the size of a dime. Either way, as you gently massage the inners to find it, you can also notice your woman's reaction and ask for her feedback about the sensitivity of the different areas. The G-spot will not necessarily be the most sensitive.........it may feel numb and to her, like a big scar inside........if this is the case, this girl needs work.

As one finger of one hand is massaging the G-spot, your other hand should be active. She may want to hold it. I would not massage her breasts or anything else stimulating like that, as this will distract the energy from what you are trying to do. A good place for the other hand is under her neck, with the middle or ring fingers of that hand massaging around the level of the 5th cervical vertebrae (apporximately mid neck).

It may take a few sessions, but she will start to feel different emotions as you do this. She may laugh, but oftentimes she will cry. When you notice it is released something, it is good to stop and then hold her. Wait for it to pass, and then discuss what it felt like to her. Was it fear? Anger? Often images will also flash in her brain associated with different feelings, and you can have realizations here as well. It is good not to get into an all out bang after this, unless of course she wants to for release. This is a good time to let her do what she wants and just be there for her.

This will deepen your intimacy together for certain if you are both open to it. Deeper intimacy leads to better sex, better relationship, and a better life together if that is what you want.

Now, back to Gilliana. This just wasn't happening here. We became very close over the time we were together, however the road was closed when I finally got into that G-spot of hers. Just touching it made her jump, and she did not want to continue. Although I would fuck her for over an hour at times, in many different positions, it was clear that no matter how deep our relationship became, this was what she did for work...........it was just for me, and when I was finished she just wanted to either go to sleep or turn on the TV. She is beautiful on the outside anyway, and we had a great time going to the different places we went, parties and the like.......but in the end, the connection could not move past the superficial. Sex for her is a business. A business she relied upon for herself and some members of her family, and despite a long list of opportunities I provided for her, including law school, she was not willing to move past this and into a form of life I considered more real. For her, it is far easier to keep meeting and scaming new gringos.

Now before someone here goes off on a tyraid stating that I am not faithful or honest in my own marriage, so Tantra is really non-sense, let me say this;

Tantra has nothing to do with judgments about monogomy, marriage, religion, or the like. It is simply about sexual healing and enhancement in your life thereto. I am one of those "free-love" spirits, and feel that sex should be something we share together more functionally, freely and harmoniously. I know this is pure idealism, but if we ever get our acts together on this planet and don't blow ourselves up, we may get to a point where whores and the manipulation of sex are no longer necessary........what a dreamer I am!

SP

Okay SP...finger fucking until they cry, huh? I must say, I hope I never have my finger in a chica and her first emotional instinct is to cry. "Oh geez baby...I'm sorry...did I catch ya with a sharp nail?" Somewhat of a mood killer.

Apparently the G-spot is a portal for a woman's sexual energy...a nerve center hardwired to her labido? As stimulated, endorphines must flood the brain in certain areas that apparently trigger the release of emotions? Am I following?

So, Gilliana was sexually abused by her uncle and step-father? That is a shame...and all too common in Panama...hence, many single & divorced women with daughters will never marry or re-marry Panamanian men...apparently Panamanian men are animals. I even know one woman who was sent to live with her aunt when her mother re-married...at first it did not make sense to me when she explained that she was very close with her mother, but did not grow-up living in her household because she re-married. Now I get it...er...after I took her cherry!

Please continue SP.

AJ

AJ -I assme ye jest about the "finger-fucking" comments. If not, let me elaborate;

What you call "finger-fucking," has nothing to do with this process. Your intent here is not to fuck her with your finger......if such the case, just use your dick or tongue.

This Tantric process of healing a woman through opening her G-spot ENERGETICALLY, is something you do after you have explained it to the woman, and she is an agreeable participant......and yes, do cut your nails!

What you say about the G-spot being hardwired to the libido is part of the picture, so it is true. But only physiologically and even then, the physiology of a women's sexuality is so much dependant on her moods, aka, her psychological state. I think one thing we can all agree on when it comes to women and sex. If it's going to be really good with them over a long period of time, at some point you are going to have to actually TALK to them! You know, share yourselves openly and get into each others heads. WIth American women this is not so difficult. I have found it nearly impossible with the women I have met in Costa Rica and Panama, and a bit less complicated in Equador.

No, the G-spot is so much more than just a sex-center. Just like, energetically, your Jizz is so much more than just a wad of goo that splats your pleasure all over her back. It is your seed, our life force, your strength...........it is all how you view it.

No, endorphins really don't have too much to do with this process. Endorphins and enkephalins are natural body opiates (similar to opium) that act to elevate mood, decrease pain, and surge in emergencies such as when you are able to lift a car off of your buddy and you have no idea how you did it after you have done it.

The G-spot is extremely neurological (called a ganglia, or nexus). The neuropsychology goes like this. When trauma is experienced, it produces a myraid of neurological chemicals called neuro-transmitters; although they are all similar, there are thousands of them and science finds new ones each year.
Trauma is intense, and intensity creates an overload of neruotransmitters in the entire nervous system, especially the within nerve collection ganglia such as the G-spot. Prolonged psychological trauma, which can be as simple as verbal conflict between parents, or the "sweet uncle" that rubs your thighs when no one is looking, overloads input both energetically and chemically in these areas of the nervous system, and to simplify for our purposes here, this energy gets "stuck," so to speak, within the nervous system.

When you stimulate the G-spot to release this stuck energy, the woman actually re-lives the trauma in order for it to release and leave. There is no other way. If this energy does not leave, all life experiences are viewed through this filter of dysfunction.

This is why a woman has to be somewhat "aware," as well as the man, before beginning a process like this. For the bulk of the people on the planet right now, ignorance is bliss. This is why we are loosing our constitution and civil liberties, piece by piece, as we wait in line for the best movies at BlockBuster. Freedom is easily lost if not understood properly (and certaily not appreciated), and release from bondage is difficult if you do not know you are bound in the first place...........we live in a similar situation to that movie THE MATRIX........most people are asleep, and slaves to processes they are too stupified to realize.

Anyway, to conclude:

A monger can use Tantra in one of two ways as far as I can see. First is the most practical, which is ejaculation control. As discussed, this is very beneficial and health generating for men over 40, and produces longer lasting and better sex for both partners, especially the man. When you are just concerned with having a good time and banging as many whores as you can during any given vacation, at least attempting to control yourself in this way will bring you to the next level above the humping dog.

Second, is for intimacy, and of course this takes more work. This is when you incorporate the G-spot release techniques to heal and become amazingly connected with another human being in the female form. You can incidently, do this with as many women as you can handle.......how may women you can be this intimately connected with is all up to you.

There is much, much more. This is why I suggest you read the book references I gave and then ask good questions, like any other college level study. Men as well, will find that healing tantric practices will release stuck emotion from their chakra centers (root, solar plexus, heart, and throat especially). Nerve energy is stuck in so many places of your nervous system you would hardly believe it if I got into it, but this is what my seminars are all about, and they are only for practicing physicians. I would consider letting a serious monger or two in however once I knew I could trust you.

Another great movie to watch which connects Neurology with Psychology and metaphysics, power of the thought and all that great stuff is

WHAT THE BLEEP DO WE KNOW? Definately rent this one! There is a scene in there on romantic love and sexuality that is both educational and absolutely hysterical!


NOW I AM GOING TO GO OFF THE SUBJECT FOR A MOMENT: SO PLEASE FORGIVE ME

P.S. - on the subject of our freedoms and America in general, you may want to see this new movie by director Aaron Russo:

http://www.freedomtofascism.com/

This really has nothing to do with Tantra, but freedom in America and in the world, whether we talk about sexual freedom or just freedom in general, is something I feel passionate about. Things are building up to something scary out there.

The US GOVT has built several "concentration-camp" style detainment facilities on American soil;

see http://www.prisonplanet.com Alex Jones stuff.

In 2007 Real Estate is aparently supposed to totally crash and the American economy will end up in to toilet.

In 2008 there will be another "terriorist attack," which may include something more of a civil war nature and be an excuse for martial law in the USA.

Afterwards, national ID cards and micro-chiping Americans will be promoted and eventually mandatory.

..........................all supposedly? Who knows? I am probably going to get a lot of flack from some members here for even mentioning this stuff, but all information is good as far as I am concerned until proved incorrect. Make up your own mind. Check out that Aaron Russo film.

Anyone see that movie, V for Vendeta? Natalie Portman never looked better and more fuckable with that shaved head! Anyway, we could be closer to that scenario than most people may believe..........and who would think it would all start here in the supposedly free USA?

My greatest fear is that one day very soon, even writing something like this will make some guys show up at my doorstep in the middle of the night, and I'll never be seen again.
Most men find this topic ridiculous........but I know I am not the only one reading the writing on the wall.......oh well, I hate getting political...............

SP

SP -

Ye, or is it yo? Indeed me jests about finger-fucking.

I'll be sure to try these tantric practices on my novia and friends next trip...I'm not sure they need to be healed...but I will try to heal them anyway just for the fun of it. One never knows what new territory I may discover.

I look forward to seeing "Freedom to Fascism". I also skimmed through www.prisonplanet.com. The PP website seems a bit tabloid in their reporting. Hard for me to believe "everything" they say...even with a bit of salt. But behind every sensational story, behind every legend, behind every myth, behind every conspiracy theory...is "something" that stimulated the idea.

Though one thing I fully agree with...we need more variety within the political arena besides the Dems and the Reps. We hit 300 million people in this country this year...and we get 51 (or is it 52?) contestants ever year for Ms. USA...yet we get only 2 choices to select from for President every 4-years?

How is it in a country of 300 million people we get the son of a former mediocre president? And I am not saying Al Gore would have been better. Yet, next election I really don't want to have to choose between Hillary Clinton and Jeb Bush. Nor, do I care for the other big names in Congress/Senate...or multi-billionaires who inherited their wealth from daddy.

I wish every state would hold a run-off and submit a candidate for President...then have each of them submit to a battery of tests similar to the SATs...except, these SATs would be geared for Presidents...additionally, give them other competitive challenges to work through to demonstrate how well they "think" on their feet and have this televised so that we the voters can see them perform. Those that successfully work through the challenges would earn points.

The weakest (lowest scoring) candidates would be filtered-out, and the strongest would make it to the finals...perhaps the top 15 would continue and be allowed to campaign...each with equal TV time, equal commercial time...each representing their own party. Then allow citizens a vote 1-year-out from the actual Presidential election to narrow the contestants down to 5 or 7 final candidates. This way, the true cream of the crop would come to the top and the average American would feel "better" that the best or perhaps better of many candidates was selected to be President.

I think if Hillary or Jeb wins the next Presidency I'll finally move to Panama where Martin Torrijos (the son of a former Panamanian President) is now President...oh well, at least there I can fuck nearly any beauty I see whenever I want.

AJ

Hey AJ,

Yeah, the pickins for a dynamic president that actually may represent some aspect of middle-class is a thing of the past. Now they are all coporate stooges. Hillary and Jeb, what a joke! If this is the best America has to offer we are in more trouble then we may believe. That is why the movie is so poingnant. Unless we realize that "we the people" are still the government, even this basic concept of freedom and liberty will soon too become a thing of the past, not understood, and lost due to apathy. Our founding fathers turn in their graves as we lose what so many have died to create and protect. We have been lulled to sleep, given "happy" pills and boob-tube, and dance like monkeys whenever we are told to do something. We are about to lose everything..........who is the real enemy? Is it those corporate Nazi's who consume all, including us, to gain for themselves only? Or is it us for letting them do so? History has a bad habit of repeating itself.

Back on the subject of Tantra:

Another great writer, who is actually not involved with sexuality at all, but more men's health through simple exercises he calls the 5 rights, is Peter Kelder. Check out his books too. I do the 5 rights exercises each day, and they take about 10 minutes. They keep the body tight and feeling great. A must for all men over 40. He advocated celebacy as the 6th right, but a huge benefit is gained just from the other 5 exercises. Besides if you are doing these and practicing ejaculation control, you will gain many health and strength benefits.

Go see his books at amazon with this link:

http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/038549162X/102-6844592-1585714?v=glance&n=283155

Peace,

SP

P.S. -

The best Tantric "screwing" position, is to have your woman sit on your throbbing member as you sit holding her. A man has the most control over ejaculation in this position; screwing last longer and is generally more pleasurable, and the rocking movements you produce while holding and kissing become a rhythmic dance. I have been in this position for 30 minutes at a time and you can laugh, tell jokes, kiss passionatley, talk about life.......whatever.........make up your own scenario. Remember, it is all about imtimacy here. Women who just can't get that way with you will not like this position and will just want you to roll them on their backs, fuck them and get it over with already! There is a lot you can tell from these practices, so have fun. As I said, the more intelligent and adventurous a woman is, the more she will like Tantra. If she' just a whore out for bucks this will most likely be a waste of time. You'll find out.

This will about do it for the Tantra Topic. Understand that what I have taught here is the basic entry road; if you have a true interest you will learn more and we can discuss it here if you like. If this discussion is to continue however it will now be for Q&A. Read those books and I can answer any questions if they come up from time to time as I check in. I usually do weekly.

Peace,
SP

sp,
long overdue thread..but i am afraid most hombres here are on a mission to deplete there resources..if they only new..its common knowledge that a man over 40 cumming is like giving up a pint of blood..theres so many trace elements in semen if we new all none of us would be depleting our resources like we do..also any of you with pain in your knees lower back etc can possibly be blamed on low kidney energy..see an herbalist for a kidney tonic..
sp what is your field? chinese herbs? accupuncture?
tom

So when a guy over 40 pops a load he loses enough trace minerals as if losing a pint of blood. What about the research that there is less prostate cancer in guys who masturbate at least once per week?

The theory is the old decaying sperm/seman tends to cause irratic cell growth (read cancer). Could be worth losing a pint of blood weekly if it cleans out the prostate.